Circles are different and do not have to be strong.
No matter inside or outside the play, there is such a group that we ordinary people simply cannot reach. In the TV series "Thirty and Standing", it is accurately defined as the circle of wives.
The wives in the circle of wives do not call each other by their own names, not the Cuihua and Meilan that we ordinary people call, but the names of their husbands, it seems that they have no status, no sense of existence, and are accessories of their husbands, which is also one of the places where Gu Jia despises them, and they do not know that they have a purpose in doing so. Their husbands' surnames, behind which each represent different industries, assets, and strengths, are used to name themselves, which is itself a symbol of a business card.
In order to help her husband's business, Gu Jia sharpened her head and wanted to squeeze into the circle of her wife, and did not hesitate to swipe her card to buy a limited edition brand-name bag worth about 100,000 yuan as a stepping stone to enter the circle.
Seeing this, I can't help but think that the screenwriter thinks that the audience's IQ is too low? Although we have never eaten pork, we have occasionally seen some pigs running. In fact, many of the clothes, shoes, and jewelry of mrs. Kuo are privately ordered. You take a bag and want to put it on, and when you look at your dress, you know that you are swollen and fat. Although the wives are not in the business field, they have all seen the world, and they are most concerned about such things, because these are the points of their daily ostentation and superiority over ordinary people.
Therefore, from the very beginning, Gu Jia did not fit into this circle at all, but she herself felt that one foot had stepped into it. To the ladies, it was like a guy from an unknown source mixed in a neatly lined line, looking at it horizontally and vertically, making people feel uncomfortable, always thinking about how to squeeze her out.
So Mrs. Li pit Gu Jia by the way, and sold her the worthless tea garden of 3 million yuan. This is also her revenge against Gu Jia for not measuring her own strength. So that Gu Jia finally quit the circle, quitting is her own words, others did not admit that she really entered. So, looking down on each other, it's only natural to go out of the loop.
Why Gu Jia can't enter the circle of wives, the reason is that there are two aspects:
The first of course is the class difference. At the first meeting, the wives may be able to see through Gu Jia's disguise at the first glance, because no matter from the dress or the unique aura of the rich, they can see eight or nine inseparable. They asked Gu Jia's background, just to verify it, and laugh at it by the way. A small fireworks factory, in their eyes, is no different from a small contractor invited to decorate the house and paint the walls. Therefore, at a glance, it can be seen that this person's purpose is not pure.
The wives seem to have nothing to do all day, by doing beauty and drinking coffee to pass the boring time, but they are together, there is another side, because the same class, their network resources can be used by each other, although usually do not decide the operation of the husband's career, but when necessary, they will also be the link between the two husbands behind the contact.
There is a win-win cooperation between them, and you are here to rub connections, you have no value to them, so you are an outlier, you and they can not reach the same level of looking at each other, they see you as a very annoying beggar, no matter how to pretend to be friendly, flattering, will also make them very disgusted. So you can say that it is out of their instinct to maintain the purity of the circle.
The second reason is that Gu Jia looks too good. She has a high degree of education, knowledge, ability, and beauty, and these advantages are not available to the wives, so they do not tolerate the presence of people who are stronger than them in this circle, because they want to ensure that the sense of superiority is not violated.
And those truly shrewd and talented women, who do not mix with the circle of wives at all, have long been with their husbands in the mall, fighting side by side, or even alone. Gu Jia is this kind of woman, her insight and ability are far beyond her husband, if she succeeds one day, she will not have a common language with such wives, and she will never name herself Mrs. Xu, it must be Gu Zong or something. Therefore, in this regard, she cannot fit into this circle. It's like a herd of sheep squeezing in an outlier.
After Gu Jia left the circle of wives, she learned that the wives' ending was worse than one, Mrs. Liu's husband transferred his property to raise Xiaosan, Mrs. Li's company was in debt, Mrs. Yu was too humble, and so on, as if the circle had been broken, how correct it was to leave herself. This is the routine of the screenwriter to create a cool drama in order to cater to the thinking of ordinary people.
In reality, ordinary people don't have a husband to split his legs? Ordinary people are not in debt and rely on swiping their cards to survive? Is it difficult for ordinary people to have no stepmother? These ends have nothing to do with having money. On the contrary, it is a heart-wrenching fact that even if something happens to a rich person, it is more likely to be much easier to solve than ordinary people.
They are divorced, and the wife will get a considerable share of the assets. Didn't Che Xiao get 300 million yuan from divorce, just because she was an actor? As for the transfer of assets in people's imagination, it is almost impossible for such a large family property. Didn't the wife have any assets in her name? Don't have a house? jewelry? deposit? How could it be gone overnight without a trace! Poverty limits our imagination.
They are bankrupt, they may have arranged a way out, some children have already gone abroad with money, some have bought real estate elsewhere in the name of their families, only creditors are pits, and some really have nothing, but that is only a very small minority. And people like them are easy to turn over, sometimes not seen for a few years, and then resurrected.
Therefore, the screenwriter used a circle of wives to set off how independent and self-reliant Gu Jia is, both literary and martial, and also arranged for the tea garden to be run by her to be able to come back to life, which is of course the heroine's aura. However, a woman who is really as good as Gu Jia in life will most likely succeed, and it is not surprising that the headwind is overturned.
But most people don't have Gu Jia's looks, learning, and we live in our own cognitive world, imagining how boring and embarrassing rich wives are. But I also have to have a little Q spirit from time to time, so that I can have the confidence to wake up on every poor or ordinary morning and work hard for my livelihood.
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