Huang Jue, who is tall and handsome in appearance, was once a prodigal son, and can soak six women a week, harvest Zhou Xun and Xu Jinglei, and what woman can't catch her hand. Such a person did not intend to get married and prepare to die alone, but when he was 36 years old, he met Maizi, and after meeting for half a year, he entered the marriage and became a good man who was afraid of his wife and hurt his wife.
When the two decided on a relationship, the unmarried Huang Jue decided to put the ugly words in front: "I can't get married, I'm ready to find a surrogate in the United States, lawyers and institutions are all looking for it." "The implication is: I plan to have a child, but this child has nothing to do with you, I just want to fall in love, and I don't plan to get married and have children normally." In other words, ordinary girls may be scared to death by this "crazy talk". If the temper is a little more grumpy, it is estimated that a cup of coffee is directly spilled on him.
But after MaiZi listened quietly, he said in a calmer tone than he did, "I know, I'm just back for summer vacation." She also had her own plans: MaiZi, who was under 21 at the time, planned to finish her ballet degree, study theater and film, and spend a lot of time studying languages, watching movies, writing, and working. She is young, and there are still infinite possibilities in life, the most unlikely of which is to return to China and get married. Thus, the two realistic idealists hit it off.
But not long after the love, Huang Jue regretted it, and tentatively ran to her and asked: "Do you want to give me a baby?" I still don't want to get married. Hearing such a "mixed ball", MaiZi nodded in agreement. "My dream in life is to get pregnant and have a baby when I am studying, which is simply a very cool thing." I also didn't really want to get married, and I felt like I could continue school in France and be a single mom. ”
Huang Jue boasted that he had always been calm and relaxed in the face of feelings, but he was confused here in Maizi, and after a few days he said: "I thought about it, or no, or we will get married if we have children, right?" But can you write a good prenuptial agreement? This kind of pondering and careful thinking is really exactly the same as Zhang Ailing's Fan Liuyuan, "selfish" and "stingy"! But Mai Zi was still very calm: "Okay, I don't care, I don't plan to ask you for anything, just write if you want." ”
Perhaps all his previous resistance and vigilance were not dissatisfaction with the marriage itself, but the innate uneasiness and sensitivity at work, which made him full of negative imaginations about feelings. And the wheat is like a ray of sunshine, pulling out the fog in his heart, releasing all the uneasiness in his heart, and making him immediately surrender: "Forget it, don't write any prenuptial agreement, let's get married first!" ”
Huang Jue
Wheat is talented, and he also left home early to live independently, and began to learn to get along with himself from the age of 8. Directing is what she does as a lifelong career, "Being an old lady who gets angry on set is the ultimate dream of my life." ”
She gradually appeared in the public eye, through some of the works in the TV show, whether it is "City of Illusion" or "Dance Student", her works can always make people feel low-key and full of talent. Her talent was gradually recognized, and the label of public recognition of her gradually changed from "Huang Jue's wife" to "wheat director".
wheat
There may be no fixed template for the occurrence of love, and meeting and dating female netizens cannot sound more unreliable. But as long as people are reliable, it doesn't really matter where to start. The answer to true love seems to always be a collection of fate, timing, and two-way travel.
The match of love may not be in appearance, fame, but in the inner feelings of both parties - comfortable, comfortable, suitable. Huang Jue and Mai Zi also studied dance, engaged in the literary and artistic industry, lived independently for a long time, and had many common languages. When encouragement and support are more than arguments and compromises, feelings are naturally harmonious and sweet.
Huang Jue & Wheat
This kind of ordinary life of knowing and staying together is indeed enviable, love and tenderness are soaked in the years, and the air around them is always full of sweet breath.
Both have unique perspectives on how to deal with arguments with different opinions - there are almost no arguments with different opinions, and the two people have a certain tacit understanding in their hearts and will listen to and understand each other.
As for why they got into marriage, their explanation is even more sugary - as a public figure, the high-intensity, irregular nature of the work is not a problem at all.
Huang Jue: I think that getting married together is a process, and nothing triggers an event. I don't know where the undercurrent and courage come from, and I want to get married with her, and I don't feel that it is wrong to be anywhere without getting married.
Wheat: He can do anything. At the beginning he said is it in love, I said ok, he said how, I said yes. So when it comes to getting married, it's a matter of course, okay. In fact, the most basic thing is that neither person wants to miss each other. In any case, this person must leave a mark in his life, and I don't know what this pen will look like, but I very much hope that you will appear on my paper. It is to trust each other, you can paint what you want to paint, and what you paint is what my life is.
After nine years of married life, they still maintain sincerity, comfort and tacit understanding, just like a new marriage. As the two said, . When you keep the original intention, insist on the most authentic self, just feel the love and soul community in peace, it is not so difficult to find.
A community of souls
Love is not about wins, it is about feelings. Love is not an effort to fight one way, but an appropriate two-way choice. True love is the right fit for each other, after meeting the right person, want to be with each other, want to share each other's preferences and lives, want to take each other to places they have never been, and experience adventures that they have never experienced. All this is both unjustifiable and logical. Huang Jue concluded: "In fact, as long as the right person, there is no need to think about how to get along and how to squeeze out passion. As long as you really love, everything is right. ”
Don't worry about your personality, pursuits and development, the person who truly loves you loves you as you are, and doesn't need you to change your face - even if you are sharp, high and low. There will always be such a person in the world who is suitable for you, as long as you are good and upward before you meet, don't worry too much about life will not be a gift, it is only a matter of time sooner or later.
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