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Companionship is the longest confession of affection

author:Life 2003

There are thousands of ways of love, and companionship must be the longest confession of affection.

Today's story, I want to tell you a pair of lovers, do not give up, life and death dependent on the story.

The couple are grandpa and grandmother who listen to the author of the night.

Grandpa and Grandma met through the introduction of people and came together. After marriage, they are like ordinary couples, having children and working hard.

Winter in the north is unusually cold.

Grandpa had a habit: every morning, just after dawn, he would raise the fire of the coal stove, burn a pot of boiling water, build a pot of hot tea, and wait for Grandma to get up.

Grandpa said:

"My wife is afraid of the cold, so I get up early and bake the house hot, and when she gets up to get dressed, it won't be cold."

Grandpa is a chef, making a good dish, the township does red and white happy events, there is always a grandfather figure.

But at home, Grandma never allowed Grandpa to cook. She said: "Grandpa has worked hard enough outside, and I have to cherish him at home. ”

She felt sorry for her grandfather.

When my grandmother was fifty years old, she suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage, which caused her to lose half of her body. At its best, you also need to be supported by someone to barely take a few steps.

Since then, Grandpa began to take care of Grandma's three meals a day and live and live.

This care is more than twenty years. Grandpa took care of a paralyzed wife from the age of fifty to the seventies.

Grandpa would occasionally complain that Grandma was messing around and was not good at serving.

Grandma also complained to the children, saying that Grandpa was stubborn and hated him as an old woman.

But grandpa went to work in the field, and he would use a rack cart to push grandma to bask in the sun in the field.

For more than twenty years, Grandpa never went far away. Grandma can't do without Grandpa, and Grandpa can't rest assured grandma.

Grandma once told me that she felt like a wasted person, dragging grandpa down, and on several occasions she had the idea of not wanting to live.

But when she thought of leaving her grandfather alone, she was reluctant to do so.

Because Grandpa once told her: "The only thing left in my life is to take care of you, and when I am too old to take care of you, we will leave together." ”

Grandma always said that she was dragging down and owed too much to the old man. When she dies, even if she drinks Meng Po soup, she can't forget the bad old man, she said that in the next life, she will change her to take care of the old man...

On the day of my grandmother's death, her nephew knelt before her grandfather and said, "Uncle, thank you for taking such good care of my aunt." "The relatives present, all unmoved.

Everyone knows very well that according to Grandma's physical condition, the living environment in the countryside, if it were not for Grandpa's meticulous care for so many years, how could he live for more than twenty years.

After My grandmother died, every time I went to visit my grandfather, he would put the fruit we brought with us in front of my grandmother's portrait.

For so many years, he has long been accustomed to preparing meals for his wife first and watching his wife eat first. Even if the yin and yang are separated, it is no exception.

Grandma was no longer there, Grandpa's health plummeted, and in less than a year, he fell completely ill.

Later, I learned that in the last two years of taking care of my grandmother, my grandfather had a brain infarction with blood, but he seemed to be fine, and everyone didn't care.

Because he had to take care of his grandmother, at the age of eighty, he could not get sick or allow himself to collapse.

You are still on earth, how dare I leave.

In the third year of my grandmother's death, my grandfather died. They were buried together.

Grandma's life was unfortunate, and the disease accounted for a third of her life.

Grandma was lucky again, because there was an old man who regarded him as the whole of his life and accompanied her to the end of his life.

At Western-style weddings, the couple will swear that from today onwards, whether it is a blessing or a curse, a noble, a disease or a health, they will love you and cherish you until death.

Grandpa did not read the Bible, nor did he swear an oath, he just used his lifelong love to practice the covenant of love, interpreting what is meant by "love you as you were the beginning, never give up." ”

Some people say that the best love is:

When the passion fades and the face ages, hold your hand, no complaints, no regrets;

When wealth is gone and there is nothing, accompany your heart until death;

When disaster strikes and sentient beings are far away, warm your feelings and never cool down.

May there be a person who will meet you for the rest of his life, holding the hand of his son, and be warm to accompany him.

May there be a person who loves you from green silk to whitehead, prosperous and endless, and never abandoned.

Companionship is the longest confession of affection

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