Man is human because he has seven passions and six desires, love and hate.
The sweetness of love is fascinating, but also makes people lose reason, especially for women, a moment of sweetness, can make her identify a man, not he does not marry.
And the ups and downs in the feelings are also a kind of torture, and the two people who can't withstand the test, when they first see each other, they can't go to the end.
People with a good attitude will regard the lost feelings as good memories in life, and people who can't see them may become a lifelong bond.
In fact, love has never only had a happy side, and even a harmonious couple cannot avoid friction, from quarrelling and fighting, and parting ways.
Some people say that husband and wife have been quarreling and arguing for decades and are still together, which is the real feeling.
It is true that husband and wife live together, quarrels cannot be avoided, the key lies in how both parties face it, and sometimes it is a good way to vent bitterly.
The Cold War, by contrast, was a taboo behavior.
Many couples have just agreed when they are together, and they will not have a cold war in the future, and they must communicate the ending in time if there is a problem.
But after a long time together, when they quarreled, they still ignored it, let their own nature act, and finally shook the feelings of both sides from the foundation.
The Cold War, in fact, is not a quarrel after the door to go, in that case there is still room for communication, the real terrible thing is not to say anything, do not ask anything, take the initiative to close the channel of communication.
The occasional cold war is not unforgivable, after all, everyone can't stand it, but don't love a person who can't stand a cold war with you at every turn, maybe in his (her) heart, you are not so important.
The Cold War was an escape from the problem
Why reject the Cold War?
Because cold war people can't communicate, you don't know what he or she has in mind, you can't walk into his or her world at all, and in the end you say that you don't understand him or her, he or she is tired, and so on.
Men and women alike, those who love the Cold War have this common problem – to avoid problems.
He or she does not want to solve the problem, he (she) feels that you are unreasonable, do not want to communicate, on the surface is a tantrum, gambling, but in fact is avoiding the problem.
The emergence of contradictions shows that two people have different opinions, there are places that need to be run-in, these must be taken seriously, one side is wrong, both people are wrong or good, the important thing is to solve the problem calmly, rather than shrinking in their own small corner.
People who run away from problems will certainly not dare to fight in life, and if you fall in love with such a person, you will be very tired.
Some people may say that they have been smoothed out by the other party, and instead of arguing with them, it is better to bow their heads and admit their mistakes.
But this so-called "admitting mistakes" is actually useless, the actual problem has not been solved, and the next time you encounter the same situation, you will still repeat the same mistakes.
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People who love the Cold War don't care about you at all
People who love the Cold War are more selfish.
The man who loves you is very taboo about the cold war, when you lose his temper, even if he can't control his emotions, the worst will argue with you, but he won't ignore you.
The final result of the Cold War is that both sides have calmed down, but it is difficult for them to take the step of active communication, not to have a good face, but to gamble, and such a gamble is actually accumulating disappointment and anger.
Whether it is for men or women, people who love the Cold War will always only care about their own feelings.
The person who took the initiative to ignore people must be very comfortable after turning off the mobile phone, but the person on the other side of the mobile phone did not know how anxious and sad.
After that, the cold war guy is always very good at making excuses to cover up his indifference, and even to blame you after reconciliation.
The Cold War will make feelings cold
The more the Cold War, the more the feelings will become very cold.
When you meet the person who can't move the Cold War, once you have a quarrel, the Cold War seems to become a kind of procedure, a quarrel is the Cold War, and in the end, the person who does not love the Cold War will also like the Cold War.
At this time, the two sides have begun to leave each other's vision, began to wander the skeleton, go their own way, only care about their own joy, and in the end, forget the existence of the other.
Once or twice the Cold War will be unforgettable, the more times, it will be numb, only to make the two people gradually cold, completely disappointed in each other.
It has to be said that the Cold War is also an extreme way to solve problems, but if you develop a habit, it will bring the feelings of two people into disaster.
Feelings began a cold war, and in the end, it was not peace, but points.
This is also a harbinger, the Cold War is much more, the person who is cold war, will start to propose to break up, the more times, it will really be divided.
A heart is cold, it is not hot, the feelings become cold, and it can never go back to the beginning.
So, don't love someone who is cold to you at every turn, and you are not willing to make every effort to maintain a love that gradually becomes cold and can no longer give you a sense of security, right?
Probably a lot of people have said that I will not have a cold war with him or her.
But the truth is that most people, when it comes to feelings, are the first to say, and when it comes to doing it, it is very different from what they say.
Yes, no one likes the Cold War, but there are times when emotions are out of control.
The Cold War is not terrible, because every couple has their own Cold War experience, and what is important is that after the Cold War, the person who calmed down must make up for the damage caused by the Cold War and make up for the lack of love during the Cold War.
It is really not easy to start a relationship seriously, you must cherish the person who loves you with your heart, take care of each other's feelings, take care of the love world of two people, and don't let contradictions and quarrels ruin the original loving feelings.
At the same time, I also hope that you can be sober, in a relationship, the person who frequently quarrels with you and has a cold war with you at every turn may not love you as much as you think.
You must know that if the other party really has you in mind, then when there is a conflict between you, he or she will definitely find a way to ease the relationship between you, rather than using the Cold War to force you to compromise.