The sweet syrup in love can counteract a lot of bitterness, which is the total praise for love. - Keats
There will also be a beautiful side in love, as long as you have a pair of eyes to find happiness, then you can harvest happiness, feelings are the result of two people operating together, learn to look at love objectively and rationally, in order to make love long-term.
Love actually has a shelf life, when the freshness fades between the two of you, if you can still love each other well, then it is a kind of courage and charm.
Wang Junjie and his wife have been married for 7 years, the two are college classmates, when they first got married, the emotional state between the two was still quite good, but after marriage, the feelings between the two became more and more distant.
Because of the triviality of life, the two will often have contradictions and conflicts, Wang Junjie's wife is still quite dependent on her wife before marriage, and her wife is also very understanding before marriage, but after marriage, the wife's personality has also undergone a great change, becoming more and more suspicious and more sensitive.
In order to alleviate the contradiction between the two, Wang Junjie also reduced his posture in the relationship, but all this can not change anything, the wife's intensified torture, but also let Wang Junjie completely lose confidence in this relationship, and later in the face of his wife's nagging, Wang Junjie is also unhurried and unhurried attitude, even when the two are arguing, Wang Junjie is also a look of indifference.
In the face of Wang Junjie's attitude, his wife's heart is even less tasteful, the smell of gunpowder between the two has become heavier and heavier, and the feelings between the two have gradually dissipated.
In the end, in the uninterrupted quarrel, the two chose to separate, and ended this 7-year-long relationship, and when the two divorced, they were so relieved that they felt that they had no burden anymore.
In life, there are not a few cases like this, the destruction of a relationship is not the responsibility of that person, it is more of a dispute between two people, if you want to live a happy life, then you must learn to face a relationship correctly, because endless quarrels will only make the relationship between the two people worse and worse in the end.
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Know enough
If you like it, you should not be too picky, because love is not made under a magnifying glass. —Tor Brown
True love, often flawed, too perfect love, but also just a deceptive trick, in the world of feelings, since we have chosen each other, we should put each other in our hearts, not too much picky about each other, but also a kind of respect for each other.
No one will be perfect, true love, lies in the tolerance of two people for each other, happy life, lies in contentment, if in a relationship, you do not understand enough, always too picky, then in the end the feelings between the two will also be parted ways, love, has always been two people's mutual accommodation, if in a relationship, you can not do this, then the road to feelings will become extremely difficult.
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Hope is placed on yourself
Yang Zi is 32 years old this year, which can be regarded as an out-and-out elderly leftover woman, and there are many people around her who are all casting strange eyes on her, but even so, she still adheres to her principles.
In her career, she has always been an independent strong woman, and when facing the work, she is also meticulous, because of the brilliance of her career, she has also become the envy of many people around her.
Yang Zi said that he does not have to rely on men to live, because he understands that in this world, no one can be relied on, the only person we can rely on is ourselves, although in terms of feelings, Yang Zi is not satisfactory, but in work and life, Yang Zi has always been a sparkling one.
In real life, independent women like Yang Zi are not in the minority, perhaps some people will feel that independent women are very cute, but some people think that independent women are too tired In fact, these two views are not wrong.
But I would like to say that a woman's independence is often the key to a happy life, when a woman knows how to be independent in real life, she can create more value for her life, and only such a woman can get the care and respect of a man.
A woman's happiness is always in her own hands, want others to put you in the eyes, you have to go a certain value, only in this way can you become more independent in the face of life, but also by others in the palm of your hand.
Age is never a problem, as long as you dare to break through yourself, you will be able to harvest different wonderful and beautiful in the end.
Only by putting hope in yourself can you see more beauty, and the reason why you feel unhappy is because you have not found a sense of existence in yourself.
Love will always have a shelf life, but love yourself has no deadline, how much you love yourself, others will love you, in the world of feelings, we only have a good life, will not be limited by others, love will indeed have a sense of freshness, when the freshness passes, we must learn to create their own romance, rather than praying for changes in others.