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Everyone has heard such a sentence: appreciation of a person begins with appearance, in line with character, for a long time than kindness, and finally on character.
In reality, a lot of feelings are like this, we will be attracted to a person's appearance at the beginning, and then when we get along with a person, we are liked by a person's personality, and slowly because the other party is kind enough, the other party's character is good enough, we love to love for a long time, long together.
In fact, the world of feelings is very simple and easy.
It is to see a person's first glance, will not be attracted by the appearance, and then will not be attracted by a person's life, if so, can be together for a long time to love, if not, the middle may be separated.
The world of love is like this, starting from the appearance and being loyal to the character.
Some people say that when we get along in the middle, we care more about whether a person is kind and whether the personality is good, but in fact, I think that when many people get along, they care more about a person's love for themselves and care about themselves.
That is to say, when getting along, whether the other party loves themselves, whether they are good to themselves, whether they love themselves with their hearts, once they are feelings, they can last a long time.
Therefore, in fact, the really good feelings begin with the appearance, fall into care, and be loyal to the character.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="43" >01 starts with the value</h1>
People get along with people, in fact, from the beginning of the face value, that is, the first time we see each other, we are not attracted by each other's appearance, if we are attracted by each other's appearance, then we will like each other, we will care about each other, we will pay attention to each other.
No one likes a bad-looking person at first glance, and no one likes a sloppy person at first glance.
At the first glance, everyone likes their favorite type and people with high looks.
I once saw such a psychological experiment on the Internet.
Psychologists show passers-by a group of photos of strangers and ask them to evaluate them based on their true feelings, and people start to evaluate them after seeing the photos.
Later, they sorted out these results and found a very realistic result, that is, people generally give high praise to people who are more attractive in appearance.
That is to say, almost everyone likes good-looking, good-looking people.
At first glance, we don't know a person, we are not familiar with a person, and our evaluation and like of a person come from the value of appearance.
In fact, the world of feelings is the same, when we do not understand a person, when we are not familiar with a person, our understanding of a person also comes from the appearance.
And we choose those who are good-looking, so that we have a good feeling for them.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="42" >02 is stuck</h1>
When a person has a good feeling for the person he likes, he will get along with a person, and when he gets along, we hope that the other party also has feelings for us, and the other party also likes us.
At this time, the other party just has feelings for us and likes us. So we want to have a better relationship with a person, we want to be more intimate with a person.
We will get along with a person, will be willing to be familiar with a person, and when we are familiar, we feel each other's care, feel each other's attention, and feel each other's love, we are more willing to be with each other.
We feel each other's care, we feel each other's love, we feel happy that the person we like can like us, and we feel good to meet someone who loves us.
So we are deeply trapped in this beauty, we are deeply trapped in this love, this care.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="29" >03 is loyal to character</h1>
We are deeply involved in love and care, not to determine that a love can last, nor can we decide that we and a person go to the end, but what can really determine whether we and a person go to the end is actually a person's character.
When we are with a person, if we feel that a person's character is good, we feel that a person is a very good person, and the character is very valuable, we know that this person is worthy of our trust for a lifetime, and this person is worthy of our life to love.
But if a person's character is not good, we will not continue with a person, no matter how much love, we all know that this person can not accompany us all our lives, can not make our life a happy life, a peaceful and beautiful life.
So we will choose to give up a person with bad character.
But if the person we meet is of good character, we are naturally willing to stay with each other for a lifetime.
In fact, the world of feelings is like this, because of the appearance of recognition, then because of care and together, and finally because of character and together for a lifetime.
In fact, no matter when, once you meet such a person, then cherish it, and care about it! Love well!
But if the character is not good, no matter how much love, you must let go.
Encourage everyone.
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