preface:
In the relationship, we all hope that there is one who can give for themselves wholeheartedly,
Two people together can walk hand in hand to the whitehead,
But then we will find that all love is not as easy as we think.
Love has a shelf life, and after the novelty, many people will change their hearts.
Maybe it will become less loving than before, which is also the common sense of man.
Some people cling to eternal love, but it doesn't seem to me forever.
It is always just a moment rather than pursuing unreal love, rather than seizing the day of love.
Love will disappear, and if you really come to this point, you can't come back if you love each other.
Women are relatively slow and hot in love, but once they fall in love with men, they will not be able to put down,
Men's love is often vigorous at first, and slowly it becomes flat.
We fall in love with someone with the highest expectations,
Only when you have it, can you cherish it well, and you can face it bravely after you lose it.
Many couples who are married for a long time will become no fresh,
Because every day I live with people I don't like, my heart will slowly change.
There are too many changes in life for decades, if one day I find that the pillow person is no longer the person I loved deeply,
Or there will be other thoughts in the minds of people who make them more moved.
In the face of infidelity and change of heart in marriage, the best practice is the following points.
One. Take the initiative to confess to each other to leave dignity
We need to know that there is never anything eternal in this world, including feelings.
There are too many variables on the road to marriage, and when I one day found that this relationship was not willing to continue,
Don't cheat on each other and don't be the last to tell, but be honest, so that you can leave each other with dignity.
Boldly tell each other the real idea, and if it can be solved, we will overcome it together.
If you can't solve the relationship, you can also let go.
Even if saying it will hurt the other party, it is better than dragging,
Because I know that after betrayal, I will bring the greatest harm to the other party.
When a matter is first started, it is the clearest way to say the problem.
Two. Recognize reality and stop deceiving yourself
People who often change their hearts like to find all kinds of excuses for themselves to lie,
Obviously, he did something sorry for you, but he had to blame all the mistakes on you.
One moment you say you're not gentle enough, and the other say you're unreasonable.
If you're a little smarter, you shouldn't believe that.
But many stupid women still have illusions about the men they like.
I advise everyone to be sober, when a person decides to communicate with others behind your back, it means that he does not care about your efforts.
He knows that his actions will hurt you, but he still chooses to do that.
Show that this man neither respects me nor cares about you.
Self-deception just preserves a formal relationship, and he won't love you more than ever, that's the truth.
Therefore, you must recognize the facts and stop deceiving yourself, only in this way can you leave dignity for yourself.
Three. Don't cry or make a fuss to be sensible
Believing that we can't accept it and being betrayed by our other half is also a very painful thing for us.
But this has become a fact, and we have to face it no matter how painful it is.
Many women will not be able to accept that they will cry and will not eat or drink,
This is done to vent his emotions and make men feel guilty about him.
But when a man changes his mind, will he still be good to you? The more you do this man, the more sure you are that he is right to leave you.
Feelings have come to this point, as a woman, you need to face it all the time,
Crying to death for such a person is really out of the ordinary.
In the end, dragging your body down will not be better.
So feelings have done this, we should advise ourselves to look down on everything,
At the right time, you can learn to take care of yourself, only if you are good, your future life will be rainy and sunny.
Conclusion:
Marriage is based on mutual trust and sincerity,
If all this love and trust cease to exist, then marriage will only be left with an empty shell.
When the relationship comes to an end, I force myself to force the other party not to get real happiness after all,
It is better to put down the sand that you can't hold, and maybe it's a relief for yourself.
Fate is predestined, happiness is your own,
When a person is unhappy in a marriage, he must know how to create his own happiness.
As a woman, you have to believe in love, but also learn to be self-reliant.
END.
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References | Journal of cognitive neuroscience