The heroine of the film, Ah Ling
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I watched the movie "Tropical Rain" on the recommendation of a friend.
After a day of work, Ah Ling returned home in the rainstorm and looked at her half-paralyzed father-in-law, the two looked at each other speechlessly, Ah Ling fed her father-in-law to eat in the dark light, and should have been taken care of by both husband and wife, but at this time, her husband was often missing. Ah Ling and her husband have been married for eight years and have been unable to have children, so her husband has become more and more cold to her, often borrowing work to leave early and return late, sometimes for several days without a shadow. Because her father-in-law was paralyzed and needed someone to accompany her at all times, Ah Ling hired a nanny during the day and needed to rush home to take care of her father-in-law after work. Because of her husband's absence, Ah Ling took on almost all the family responsibilities.
Ah Ling has always wanted to give birth to her husband, and during the eight years of marriage, she often ran to the hospital, nursed her body, and constantly tried various ways to achieve fertilization, but she did not succeed every time. Her husband's frequent refusal to come home made Ah Ling think that her husband might have cheated on her. Once, Ah Ling wanted to ease the relationship between husband and wife, went to the supermarket after work for a big purchase, and stopped by her husband's company to pick him up and take him home. But when the car drove downstairs to her husband's company, I saw my husband cuddling with a woman, and at that moment, the husband's infidelity was carried out. But as a traditional woman, coupled with Ah Ling's introverted personality, she could not make a big fuss, and then drove home alone.
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With the death of his father-in-law, the home that had a bit of a family atmosphere no longer exists. When the father-in-law died, the husband, who had not been present for a long time, appeared. Ah Ling watched her husband's siblings compete for the family property at her father-in-law's funeral, and her heart felt very sad. Looking at such a scene, coupled with the dismissal of her teacher's position, Ah Ling's originally numb and focused on her husband, and her heart that revolved around her husband began to recover. Later, Ah Ling divorced her husband, left this sad place, and returned to her hometown in rural Malaysia.
At the end of the film, Ah Ling returns to her hometown and hangs the sheets with her mother. As soon as Ah Ling looked up, a soft ray of light shone on Ah Ling's face, bright and warm. Ah Ling finally showed a smile, all the gloomy things, can turn the page, Ah Ling will live for herself in the future, be better for herself, be better.
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How should women get out of the swamp of marriage and achieve self-independence and self-worth.
1, women should grasp the self, the self and marriage progress together, rather than give way to the self in marriage
At the beginning of the movie, Ah Ling has always been family-oriented, husband-centered, losing herself and losing her self-pursuit. Fortunately, with Ah Ling experiencing the death of her father-in-law, the ambiguous love between teachers and students that should not have appeared in the teaching career, the forced loss of the teaching profession, Ah Ling's inner gradual awakening, at the end of the film, Ah Ling returned to her hometown, looking up at the sunshine, it represented that Ah Ling began to dare to pursue what she thought in her heart.
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2, women should have their own career, to achieve economic independence
Movie star Zhao Wei, even after getting married, did not forget to open up her own career. The marriage career can not only take care of the family, but also break through the sky on their own actor and film road. When his career was red, he studied quietly and obtained a master's degree in directing at the Beijing Film Academy. The director's first film, "To the Youth We Will Eventually Pass Away", won the Best Film Director Award. As a woman, you should not only be trapped in marriage and family, but also have your own career and achieve financial independence.
3, women should grow themselves and enrich their spiritual world
Women should develop their own interests and hobbies on the basis of marriage career and enrich their spiritual world. Read more books and read good books. Feed yourself with books, enrich yourself with books. Dong Qing, the host of the famous program, has poems and songs at his fingertips, a rich inner world, and a poetry and bookish atmosphere in his belly. Read more books, read world famous works, read history books, enrich the spiritual world of the self, and make yourself strong and optimistic.
In short, women should have the courage to realize themselves, and they must have the courage to be good to themselves, and be better.