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In the traditional concept of education, most parents will focus on children over the age of 6, but nowadays, everyone pays more attention to scientific parenting, so from the birth of the child, parents begin to cultivate education.
Moreover, many parents, under the mentality of "hoping for their children to become dragons and women to become phoenixes", even send their children to various training courses, hoping that they can develop in an all-round way.
In this regard, Experts at Harvard University once lamented: "Every parent wants to raise a smart child, and no longer cultivate happy children."
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > rejects stupidity, and parents must recognize this</h1>
Before educating children, parents must first clarify the goal of education, because once the orientation of the educational weather vane is incorrect, any educational behavior is futile, first of all, parents must understand that the goal of cultivating smart children is not to be smart for the sake of the immediate smart, but to be smart for a lifetime.
There is such a small story: two children, one called Cong Cong, one called Stupid, Cong Cong is a typical good student, the exam is always the top three, and the stupid is the stupid child in everyone's eyes, poor student, the exam is often failed.
One day Cong Cong and Stupid were playing in the forest, suddenly a fierce black bear pounced on them, Cong Cong timely and accurately calculated that in a few seconds the black bear would catch up with him, so he was shocked and asked Stupid what to do.
Stupid said to run, Cong Cong said, "How can you run past the black bear?" Stupid said, "I can't run, but I can run past you." "Just run when you're done."
Although this is a fable, I think parents should think positively, leaving aside the moral level, from the perspective of intellectual factors, who is smarter or stupid?
It is undeniable that from the perspective of achievements, Cong Cong is recognized as smart, but in the same way, Cong Cong's intelligence is limited to good grades, but in real life, it cannot play any role.
Education experts believe that intelligence without creativity and practicality, while lacking qualities such as self-confidence and calmness and decisiveness, is dull intelligence.
After all, such cleverness can only be exchanged for honor, not necessarily a means of survival, such as cleverness and stupidity. And any position needs people who really do things, not people who sit and answer questions.
Therefore, when parents cultivate smart children, they must not regard grades as the only standard, and do not keep praising and showing off when children achieve temporary honors, because such wisdom can be achieved by any child through hard work.
Quantified, visible intelligence is usually an illusion of cleverness, and only inner cleverness can accompany a lifetime.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > reading is the premise of raising smart children, and parents should not underestimate it</h1>
The United States once instructed a little girl with a serious brain disorder, under her guidance, the girl's mother bought some primary English letters and taught the girl to read, and the miracle soon appeared, the girl not only learned to read, but also had the reading level of the sixth grade at the age of 6.
It can be seen that even children with brain disabilities can surpass other normal children in a short period of time through correct guidance, so if normal children receive the same guidance, they must be able to achieve amazing results.
In this regard, Dr. Grimm Doman deliberately organized experts from all walks of life, and after more than 20 years of in-depth research, he came to the following conclusions:
1. Young children have the ability to read from the age of two, and the younger the age, the stronger the ability to learn language, and even babies who do not have language ability have the ability to read.
2, children have a strong desire to read and a desire for knowledge, if parents can respond positively, then children to school, they may have a very rich knowledge.
3. In a person's life, only the early childhood period is the stage of the most favorite learning, but in real life, this curiosity is often stifled by parents.
4, the absorption capacity of young children is very strong, so the period from birth to 8 years old is the most important period, after the age of 8 will go downhill, and the most critical period for learning is 1-5 years old, at this time even if you learn five Chinese words at a time will not feel difficult.
5, parents should provide children with the opportunity to learn a lot of knowledge, unfortunately, the average parent often underestimates the child's learning ability, and the materials given to the child are not able to meet the child's interest and ability.
6. The knowledge learned in early childhood is accompanied by a lifetime, the most impressive, and will never be forgotten for life.
7, people's learning ability is decreasing year by year, each increase in one year, the learning ability will be lower and lower.
8. When the child is about two years old, if the parents can effectively guide, then the child's reading ability can reach the ability of the 7-year-old child.
9. Reading any book can achieve the development of brain nerves without any adverse consequences.
10. Have good reading ability at an early age, and usually have certain achievements when they grow up, so parents must pay attention to the cultivation and training in this regard.
11, reading ability is largely equal to the development of intelligence, if limited, it is difficult for children to grow into smart and excellent children, on the contrary, early cultivation of their reading ability will greatly improve the child's intellectual development.
As we all know, maintaining good reading habits will greatly improve a person's inner quality and upbringing, and at the same time, it is also one of the necessary good habits for smart children, so when the child is one or two years old, parents should read with their children, so that children can draw more knowledge from it and develop good habits at the same time.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > as long as parents are properly educated, every child is a smart genius</h1>
1. Conform to the nature of children
American human potential development expert Glen Daomen said: "Every normal baby has the potential of geniuses like Shakespeare, Mozart, and Einstein when it is born, and the key is whether these potentials can be developed the day after tomorrow. ”
Any child has some special talents, and the task of parents is to do everything possible to tap these special talents of children, and then cultivate and guide them so that the child's potential can be maximized.
2. Appreciation creates genius
Carl Witt said: "The growth of children is inseparable from tolerance and appreciation, and harsh rebuke will make the growth of genius abort." ”
Children in the process of growth need a potential driving force, parents of the child's appreciation and praise, not only can enhance the child's self-esteem, self-confidence and enterprising, but also can optimize the child's psychology, the child's healthy growth is very beneficial.
3. Interest is a genius teacher
Interest is an important motivation for a person to pursue his goals, and the secret of genius lies in having strong interests and hobbies, and the resulting infinite enthusiasm.
When educating children, parents should not focus on their children's test scores, but should observe their children more, find out where their children's interests are, and then guide them. "Those who know are not as good as those who are good", children have an interest in things, he will take the initiative to explore and seek knowledge.
4, imagination to achieve genius
Albert Einstein said, "Imagination is more important than knowledge, because knowledge is limited, and imagination encapsulates everything in the world, drives progress, and is the source of the evolution of knowledge." ”
Imagination is the lifeline of human wisdom, which not only leads people to discover new things and explore new mysteries, but also inspires people to make new efforts and see the future results that may be brought about, and it is the source of all hope and inspiration for people. Childhood is a period full of imagination and fantasy, and it is also an important period for cultivating children's imagination.
5, creativity is the greatest feature of genius
In the eyes of many parents, naughty, disobedient children are never good children, and this view is wrong. Naughty children are often creative geniuses, if parents can seize the opportunity to cultivate and develop their children's potential in this regard, give them appropriate guidance, then disobedient children will burst out of unlimited creativity.
6, self-confidence creates genius
Napoleon Hill said: "The power of confidence is amazing, believe in yourself, then all difficulties will not be difficult, because self-confidence is a positive psychological quality, is the internal motivation to motivate people to forge ahead, is a necessary and important psychological quality for a person to succeed." ”
No matter how strong a person's ability is, if there is no self-confidence, it is easy to be buried, so self-confidence is the catalyst of ability, which can mobilize all the potential of human physical strength and make the functions of each part reach the best state.
Under normal circumstances, as long as there is self-confidence, things are equivalent to half of the success, once the loss of self-confidence, no matter how much effort will not achieve the expected results. Give your child self-confidence, and your child will have the foundation for success.
7, ambition is the direction of genius struggle
There is a Chinese proverb: "Whoever has the will, the matter will be accomplished." "Determination is the self-vigilance of the path of life, and it is also the most critical and initial step in a person's self-achievement."
If a person wants to succeed, he must first aspire, just like mountaineering, he must first have the idea of climbing to the top of the mountain, and then put it into action, climb up step by step, and finally achieve the goal.
If you don't have the idea of climbing the mountain at all, you won't be able to climb from the foot of the mountain step by step to the top. Therefore, when the child is young, parents must cultivate the child's goal and let the child move forward towards the goal.
8, genius needs love to cultivate
Marx once said, "What could be more sacred than the emotions in the hearts of parents?" The love of parents is the kindest judge, the most intimate friend, the sun of love, and its flame shines warmly and warms the intention condensed in the depths of our hearts! ”
Love is the necessary spiritual nourishment for children's growth. As parents, we all love our children very much, this is human nature, but love is not blindly paying, not being coddled without principles, true love is respect, understanding, help, guidance, is to give children the spiritual nourishment needed for growth, to be the guide of children.
In short, there is genius, we admit this, and the cultivation and guidance of science can make more children become geniuses, so parents spend more time to guide and cultivate it, so that your children can also become future geniuses.
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