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I'd rather be indifferent than pretend that the tragedy of the original family redeems a family without love is a tragic family tragedy of redemption

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I wrote this book to try to solve my own problem, but I didn't realize that it was the problem of the entire century. The book "The Indifferent Man" is exactly what the author himself said.

A century later, when I read this classic novel, I can still feel these practical meanings.

What is the meaning of our existence? Behind the indifference to everything, is it ignorance and incompetence, or is it pretending? The emptiness and deception of high society also exist in today's society, so what is the meaning of living?

"The Indifferent Man" is written about family tragedy, about the indifference of modern people, reading Moravia is to read the mental symptoms of our time: indifference, love incompetence, inaction, drifting, melancholy...

I'd rather be indifferent than pretend that the tragedy of the original family redeems a family without love is a tragic family tragedy of redemption

The Indifferent Man by Alberto Moravia (1907–1990)

Moravia, together with Calvino and Xia Xia, has been collectively called "the three masters of modern Italian literature" by critics.

At the age of 22, Moravia became famous by publishing Europe's first existentialist novel, The Indifferent Man. In the book, Moravia writes with a cold stroke of the modern people's ideological crisis and denounces the "apathy" that has corrupted modern society.

In the mid-20th century, he successively published "Roman Woman", "The Same Stream", "Contempt" and other huge works, calmly examining the love world of modern people and the inner world of the frustrated, recording the spiritual crisis of an era, and exploring people's action, human responsibility and how people can better exist.

In the Italian literary world, he is recognized as a great writer who was too late to win the Nobel Prize in Literature, and the Nobel Prize archives reveal that he has been nominated 15 times. He has won the Strega Award, the Mazzoto Prize, the Montaello Literary Award, etc., and is a famous director's favorite, and many works have been remade into film and television works: Marcelli remade "The Indifferent Man", Godard remade "Despised", Bertolucci remade "The Same Streamer", Damiani remade "Melancholy", and so on.

His writings had a profound impact on the Italian language and film community.

I'd rather be indifferent than pretend that the tragedy of the original family redeems a family without love is a tragic family tragedy of redemption

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"How beautiful the world must have been," he thought with nostalgia and sarcasm.

"In the beginning, a husband whose wife was unfaithful could shout to his wife: 'You should kill the slut, you will pay the price of your life for the ugly things you do.'" Then something even more serious happened, and after carefully considering these words, he pounced on them and killed his wife, his lover, his relatives, all of them, without punishment or guilt.

In the beginning, our actions can be followed by thoughts: just after saying 'I hate you', we take out a dagger 'Click!' With a thud, the enemy or friend collapsed to the ground, lying in a pool of blood.

In the first place, we can act on the impulse that appears first, instead of looking ahead.

In the beginning, life was not as mediocre and ridiculous as it is now, but full of passion: people died happily, loved seriously, killed each other, hated each other, and shed real tears because of real misfortune.

In the beginning, all people had flesh and blood, and they were as closely connected to reality as trees were rooted in the land. Gradually, the irony disappeared, and all that remained was the nostalgia. He wants to live in an era of strong emotional conflicts and sincere feelings, wants to produce that kind of deep hatred that makes people grit their teeth, and wants to raise his emotions to a realm without limits... But he stayed in his own time and in his own life, in this earthly world.

He thought as he smoked.

Only one of the ten boxes of cigarettes left on the table remained. He had been sitting for nearly two hours in the antechamber, which was illuminated by the afternoon sun.

I'd rather be indifferent than pretend that the tragedy of the original family redeems a family without love is a tragic family tragedy of redemption

On the other hand, Carla robbed her mother's lover to get revenge on her mother and start her new life, which was actually the harm caused by the original family.

In short, the mother's love for the lack of her children is the decadent life of the bourgeoisie under hedonism.

At the same time, it also reflects the lack of love in the original family, which will affect the children's lifelong outlook on life and love, the outlook on life, which is because of the two factors lacking in the original family: love and trust.

An irresponsible mother, a mother who only understands personal enjoyment, cannot have love for her children, she has only endless desires and demands, but at the same time feelings are mutual, when the mother has no love for her children, when her eyes are only selfish and self-conscious, she must not be trusted by her children.

And once the lack of love and trust in the family, it will inevitably lead to the psychological unsoundness of the children, so there is the embarrassing feeling of the daughter robbing the mother's lover, and the son lacks enthusiasm and passion for the whole family, love and career, just to prove that he is not so indifferent, and is willing to pretend to be enthusiastic.

I'd rather be indifferent than pretend that the tragedy of the original family redeems a family without love is a tragic family tragedy of redemption

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Ms. Pam Leo, an education scholar, said: How parents treat their children, children will treat the world.

There is a saying that happy people are healed by childhood in their lifetime, while unfortunate people heal their childhood with a lifetime. It can be seen that the influence brought to him by parents in the process of his child's growth is huge, and the education and environment that the child receives in the original family are of great significance to the formation of his personality and personality in life.

There is no cause in the world more important than educating a child, and this "Indifferent Man", as the first existential novel in Europe, can bring more people who want to be parents more growth and reflection, so that more parents can learn what is a good family education, and what kind of original family can bring children a beautiful new world.

Because the imprint of the original family on the child may be indelible for a lifetime, just like the family tragedy in "The Indifferent Man".

I'd rather be indifferent than pretend that the tragedy of the original family redeems a family without love is a tragic family tragedy of redemption

This first existentialist literary work, "The Indifferent Man", uses a narration to tell the story of a young woman who robbed her mother's lover in order to avenge her mother and start a new life, and her brother's life is meaningless, all stemming from a stupid mother, if she had understood that love is salvation earlier, there may not be so many tragedies.

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