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There is a feeling between men and women, it seems that the distance is 0.1 mm, and they can hold hands with each other. But strangely enough, this distance of only 0.1 mm is extremely far away, making it impossible for people to easily touch the other party's heart.
Talk nothing and go on dates together from time to time. Even, one party has something to do and the other party will come desperately... The lovers above Youda are not enough, this kind of distance has long exceeded the normal interaction, always approaching, and always retaining the last line of defense...
Women often have no resistance to such ambiguity. Always revel in the feeling of falling into a sweet love.
Accustomed to men's active approach, care... Accustomed to having someone in life who makes himself physically and mentally happy.
Later, the man suddenly broke off the connection!
In this regard, too many women will be very confused, countless reasons in their hearts, and even doubt whether they have done something to make men angry or some other reason, resulting in a person who was once so enthusiastic and attentive to himself, suddenly withdrawing from his own world...
In short, how many times in the days of disconnection, women want to take the initiative to contact, but there is no better reason. Obviously, it has not really started, but because of the man's disconnection, he has begun to suffer from gain and loss.
In fact, there are too many women who do not understand, do not have the "intention" of confession, but will not sublimate into the high-level ambiguity of love. This ambiguity to the point of disconnection is just a deliberate act of men. It doesn't mean anything!
Ambiguous after the disconnection, don't care! That's not love.
Ambiguous to disconnect, what is the psychology of men? The answer is just that – there are three reasons why I won't dwell on it after reading it:
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="16" > reason one: you're just a spare tire</h1>
If a man who has been with you for a long time and never says "together" or "I love you", no matter how passionate and attentive he feels, it doesn't say anything.
Although feelings need a period of time to really be together, but after a long time together, you still only exude factors beyond the purity of friendship, but you can never really get along as lovers, there is no doubt that the "window paper" between you does not need to be broken.
The person who loves you will tell you directly after a period of understanding. People who don't love you won't be ambiguous with you.
In the feelings of men and women, men who treat women as spare tires will directly break off the connection without scruples after seemingly attentive and enthusiastic.
In the process of contact with men, whether it is a spare tire, the woman will have her own sober intuition, depending on whether she is willing to accept this fact.
Don't let go of a man who has been ambiguous with you for a long time.
He's close to you, no need to be surprised, he just treats you like a spare tire. He leaves you, don't be sad, he just treats you like a spare tire.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="24" > reason two: after digging deeper, you found that you are not his ideal object</h1>
Many times, the temperature of a man's enthusiasm for a woman plummets, simply because in the process he discovers that the woman is not his ideal partner for the rest of his life.
So, he would not hesitate to withdraw from the woman's world.
In this case, if a woman is humble and enthusiastic to cater, it will only attract greater disgust from men, and even because the two people have never determined a relationship, men will use the sentence "I just treat you as a friend" to prevaricate women.
Either way, deep understanding of the process, a man's failure to confess is the best rejection.
If after the man breaks off the connection, the woman does not understand such deliberate alienation, it can only make the man feel the "inappropriateness" after understanding from a little good feeling, and directly evolve into extreme boredom.
Men tend to be more sensible than women in choosing a mate, and they are more cautious when choosing a partner for the rest of their lives. He can be enthusiastic and proactive with a person who has a good feeling, or he can quickly withdraw after understanding it and think it is inappropriate.
Don't overly self-doubt about a man who has never confessed his disconnect, the man who loves you won't leave you lonely on the days of disconnection.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="32" > reason three: he loves to "play" by nature</h1>
Most men are almost conquered.
When a woman goes from reserved to secretly waiting for the man to confess, the man will instantly feel that there is nothing new, and the enthusiasm and initiative will disappear.
Curiosity is gone, and there is no mind to invest any more energy and time!
Therefore, he only ambiguously does not confess. Until you show good feelings for him, he will always maintain his enthusiasm and intentions, and gradually let you sink. Until, you are completely conquered by him...
Some men, born to love "play", in the process of "play" to seek a sense of accomplishment, to meet their desire to conquer. However, he never wanted to be responsible for such behavior.
Breaking the connection is the pride of his step away from your world with a sense of accomplishment after he has penetrated your heart. You don't have to embarrass yourself too much for such a man.
Men who truly love you will not break with you no matter what. Disconnection is nothing more than telling you, "This game is over..."
In the world of feelings, whoever is overly obsessed with it will lose! Especially in an ambiguous relationship, the sudden disconnection in the eyes of women is actually a normal phenomenon deliberately done by men.
If there is real love between men and women, there is never a sudden disconnection. The so-called sudden disconnection is just to let the woman know the fact that "I can't do anything with you".
The disconnection after the ambiguity, can not say that the man is desperate, he has never really touched the love, why talk about despair?
The interaction between men and women, the disconnection after ambiguity, will indeed bring great harm to women. Some women will be hurt for a long, long time because of such ambiguity.
Habits, easy to develop, hard to quit.
However, in the face of ambiguity that has not been expressed, don't think that it is love. After the ambiguity, don't think that you are not doing well enough. It's not that she's changed, it's that you've taken people too shallowly from the beginning.
Life is short, don't be disconnected by a once ambiguous person, and tea does not want to eat. When you meet the right person, you will find that the sinking in an ambiguous relationship is only your one-man show, and you are still acting so seriously in that play.
Many lovers are most afraid of being ruthlessly hurt, and lovers are most afraid of wishful thinking. If you can, don't continue an ambiguous relationship with anyone for too long, if he loves you, he will not let you wait day and night, if he loves you, he will not break off contact with you after being ambiguous!
When the ambiguous person breaks off contact with himself, adjust his mood as soon as possible and use the sunniest self to welcome the right person into his life.
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