The father is the daughter's little lover: the personality poured out by family affection

I really want to give a kick to the little kid who quarreled with his father more than ten years ago and said that he would not call his father in the future.

Since I was a child, I was a relatively timid and crying child, that is, I was bullied and did not know anything but cry, and then I remember once I was bullied by my neighbor's sister who was several years older than me, and I cried to find my father, hoping that he would help me out. But my father walked out with a teacup and a relaxed face, as if crying as if it were not his girlfriend who said: I can help you support, but you must bully yourself back, I will not help you. I nodded my head in understanding and ran toward the little sister standing in the distance, kicking her and quickly running to my father. Since then, when I was bullied, I wouldn't tell my parents and usually solve it myself. However, in the middle, my father also told me: People do not offend me, I do not commit crimes, there is nothing to do, there is nothing to do, there is nothing to be afraid of. So, after that, I didn't get any bullying on that campus that was a bit of a school violence, and of course I didn't bully anyone else.

When my dad asked me if I had any hobbies I wanted to develop, I chose calligraphy, and every summer I started my long journey. Not to learn the long journey, but to learn the long journey, how to say, is that my family lives in the rural cram school in the county, the class time is still two to four o'clock in the afternoon, more infuriating is that my father does not send me, every time let me ride a bicycle to go by myself, during which to pass through the cornfield all the way. I was particularly afraid and incomprehensible, and often doubted whether I was biological, but because of the majesty of my father's home, I did not dare to raise any complaints. It wasn't until I accidentally talked to my parents that I learned that my father would ride a motorcycle behind me every time, just to exercise my independent ability and not to be at ease, that I realized in hindsight why my car would meet my father as soon as there was a problem on the road. It's just one of those things, and my dad doesn't seem to miss a chance to exercise his daughter. I feel that my story is a bit of a rush for elementary school students to write now, but this is indeed my own experience.

The most profound is the ingress ceremony held by the eighteen-year-old high school, requiring parents to attend, the specific project held I am not very clear, only remember my father very affectionately shook my hand and said: Daughter, you are not small, it is time to consider what to do after that, dad knows that you like the military, police, doctors these professions. He was silent for a while, and continued a little choked: If you choose the military police, your mother and I must be ready to have no daughter at any time, I told you before that life is the most important, but there are more important things than life for the military police. That was the first time I saw my father crying in eighteen years, maybe I couldn't bear to see my parents worry, maybe I subconsciously couldn't stand the super difficult training, and finally I chose to study medicine.

He also told me that girls should have the attitude towards life: hard work is not for anything else, but to have the confidence to face disasters; to be financially independent before they can pay for love; to have self-respect and self-love and self-improvement! My father was not a great man, but he was the giant of my life, and it was he who taught me to love myself, to love life, and to love the world.

Watson, the representative of behaviorism, said: Give me a dozen babies who are not in health defects, let me raise them in my special world, then I can guarantee that among these babies, I can take out any kind of expert, doctor, lawyer, businessman, etc., or even a beggar or a thief. Although he overemphasizes the influence of the day after tomorrow and the environment on people, there is still a certain amount of reference, so how you want your child to be, you should influence him in which way, and try to shape him from the good side.