Every mom is a programmer, and only by typing the right code can there be the right result, and what is the real code is unknown.
This short film has pierced the hearts of countless parents, exposing different ways of education and the world of children's futures.
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Chenchen mistyped again, and her mother threw away her pen and said angrily, "What did you learn in school?" ”。 Chen Chen could only sigh: Oh, messed up again.
"Stay by yourself, think about how the teacher taught", and after saying that, my mother left angrily, leaving Chenchen alone in the room to reflect.
Chen Chen looked at his mother's back, helpless; bored, he picked up the airplane model on the table to play, when his mother came in again, saw him playing with the airplane model, and angrily yelled:
What are you doing again!
The roared morning trembled and hid the toy, and his eyes were flustered.
He angered his mother once more.
The exam morning only scored 67 points, a lot of red forks on the paper, the mother said in a mournful and angry tone, "People will still be partial to the subject, how can you not learn anything well, you give me a partial subject."
Chenchen, who was scolded by his mother, was greatly hit, and even 5+4 equals several because of nervousness, which has not been correct.
Because Chen Chen's attention was no longer on arithmetic, but on his mother's scolding, he was afraid that his mother would get angry.
Since then, his mother has not allowed him to play games, is not allowed to go out to play, is not allowed to eat snacks, and forced him to study, but with little success.
The first half of the short film is full of mother's anxiety, because of poor morning test results, pinyin can not be, secretly playing with toys, reading idle books and so on.
Originally, when he grew up, he would become an excellent writer, have a happy marriage, and have a successful career; but because of his mother's constant scolding and blows, he gradually became an inferior and cowardly person.
He had no love, was fired, became a waiter, and his whole life was gray.
Even the most powerful programmer, the code is wrong, no matter how to modify the BUG is useless, the programmer can do nothing, can only resign, but the story continues...
One night, Chenchen said to his mother, "Mom, Chenchen knows that he is not studying well, can you tell me a little secret, how did my mother become so powerful?" ”
This sentence touched the heartstrings of her mother, she said, "Morning morning, is your mother too fierce to you, especially unreasonable."
Before going to bed at night, my mother looked at the photos of Chen Chen when she was just born, and she realized that it was herself who had always been wrong.
She began to accept all the imperfections of Chenchen, and worked hard to learn how to educate the child, patiently teach him to count, accompany him to play games, satisfy all his curiosities, answer his boring hundred thousand whys, and take him to the science and technology museum.
Chen Chen said that he wanted to become an astronaut, and his mother did not say that he was whimsical, but said, "Then you are also a naughty astronaut."
The little ambition that protected him became a seed, planted deep in his heart.
Mom replaces urging with companionship, blames with encouragement, changes the previous idea of defining and planning his life, and instead sees the possibilities in Chenchen's body and fills a blank soul with love.
Later, Chen Chen finally became an independent person.
Do you see your own shadow in this short film?
Seeing that the child has poor arithmetic, failed grades, and plays with toys, your heart is infuriated, and you begin to yell at the child.
But every time you're hysterical, you push your child farther and farther away until you're alienated.
What's more, like to define and plan the child's life, there is the only correct code that belongs to the child, but you want him to be what you expect, force the code to be modified, and the result is that more and more bugs appear, until it is paralyzed.
All this is traceable, and you can see what he will look like in the future when he was educated when he was a child.
Children who are raised by hitting, scolding, yelling and shouting will achieve nothing.
Companionship, patience, and respect will gradually unleash the child's potential until it becomes what he expects.
Parents' love for their children should be tolerant and free, following the child's rhythm and helping him become a better version of himself; not controlling him in the name of love, following his own rhythm, forcing him to be what you plan to be.
How to love children and how to educate children is really a compulsory course.
Because in your love, there is a child's future.