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Sarina
Sarina is a well-known star, because in a series of popular film and television dramas such as "Mother is a River", "Breaking into Kanto", "Laughing and Living", "Female Worker" and so on, she successfully played the image of a mother with a very different personality, and was known as a "mother professional household". She has won many awards such as the Outstanding Actress Award of the "Feitian Award" of China Television, the Audience's Favorite Actress Award of the "Golden Eagle Award" of China Television, and the Best Actress Award of the "Magnolia" of the Shanghai International Television Festival.
Sarina is not only a good actress, but also a great filial piety. When her father suffered from depression, she pushed off her job and led her father out of the depression with filial piety and true love. In February 2009, Sarina was awarded the honorary title of "The Third Top Ten Filial Pieties in showbiz"...
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Sarina was born in Baotou, Inner Mongolia, her father Li Youzhong was a first-class director of the Inner Mongolia Repertory Theatre, and her mother Nabuqi was a first-class screenwriter of the Inner Mongolia Repertory Theatre. Li Youzhong and his wife are very fond of a kind of shandan danhua called "Sarina" on the grassland, this flower is full of vitality, delicate and beautiful, and the couple hopes that their daughter can also thrive like "Shandan Danhua" and have a beautiful future, so they named their daughter Sarina.
At that time, Li Youzhong and his wife often traveled on business, and Sarina helped her parents with housework and took care of her younger sister at a young age, and at the age of 10, she would steam white bread, bake flatbread and boil milk tea. The grind of life has cultivated Sarina's strong and independent character.
Mr. and Mrs. Li Youzhong are versatile, can sing and dance, and often discuss art at home, and the good family education atmosphere gives Sarina a fertile ground for artistic growth. In September 1985, at the age of 16, Sarina was admitted to the acting department of the Shanghai Theater Academy. The tuition fees of art colleges are very high, and Li Youzhong and his wife have limited income, in addition to raising parents on both sides, they also have to bear the tuition fees of two children, and the economy is stretched. The sensible Sarina is considerate of her parents and tries to share their worries.
During the four years of studying at the Shanghai Theater Academy, Sarina not only did not ask her parents to bear much tuition, but also gave her parents a sum of money from time to time to subsidize the family. She used her spare time to look around for dubbing jobs, as a mass actor, every time she got a small amount of remuneration, other students were busy buying fashion, cosmetics, going to restaurants to eat, Sarina was reluctant to spend a penny, bought cotton hats, scarves, gloves for her parents, and also bought a single-cylinder washing machine for the family, and the rest of the money was handed over to her parents. Sarina's thoughtfulness and understanding made Li Youzhong and his wife both sad and pleased.
Sarina stills
In July 1989, after graduating from the Shanghai Theater Academy, Sarina was assigned to the Beijing ACCEP Repertory Theatre as a drama actress. Sarina thought that she had joined the work, had a scene, and could share the worries of her parents. But what makes her sad is that because of the sluggish drama market, the troupe can't perform two plays a year, and as a newcomer, Sarina has no chance to take the stage. She tried to develop in the film and television circle, but because of her mediocre appearance, even if she put on makeup, she was not photogenic, and she was not sociable, and no crew was willing to accept her.
At this time, Sarina had already formed a family in Beijing with Pan Jun, an actor of the General Political Repertory Theatre, and because she had nothing to do, Sarina took a rag and wiped it around all day long, and the table and floor were wiped by her countless times a day. Sometimes seeing the wonderful performances of her classmates on TV, Sarina has unspeakable loss and bitterness in her heart, and she often crouches on the ground for no reason and cries sadly.
In the Spring Festival of 1991, Sarina and her husband returned to Baotou to pay their parents a New Year's greeting. The winter in Baotou is extremely cold, sometimes the temperature is as low as minus 30 degrees, and the white goose feather wind blows, which makes people have an irresistible chill inside. Seeing that her father wore the same faded down jacket every winter, Sarina gritted her teeth and spent 1,000 yuan to buy her father a Russian thick leather coat.
Sarina and her husband lived at her parents' house for two days, and when she left Baotou, her mother quietly shoved 1500 yuan into her hands: "Child, I and your father have jobs, we can't let you spend money to buy clothes, you must accept this money." Sarina's tears flowed out at once: "Mom, do you and Dad think that I have no drama and are very pitiful?" I have to give me money to buy a dress, how does this make me feel good? "Child, you are in difficulty now, how can we bear to increase your burden?" The mother and daughter pushed for a while, and Sarina saw that her mother was resolute and had to accept the money.
A high-achieving student from the acting department, but there is no drama, every day at home to do some small nanny can do things, how does this not make Sarina sad and sad? As the time of "unemployment" at home became longer and longer, Sarina's mentality began to be unbalanced, she complained about the world, her mood was low, and she lay in bed all day and sighed. Pan Jun patiently enlightened her, but Sarina thought that her husband was laughing at her, but instead lost her temper with her husband. Sarina's emotions affected Pan Jun, the couple began to quarrel, and the former harmonious home became dull and depressed.
Mr. and Mrs. Li Youzhong learned of their daughter's situation from their son-in-law and hurried to Beijing. The couple deliberately bought a pot of cactus balls from the flower market and placed it on the balcony of their daughter's house. Nabuki pointed to the cactus ball and said meaningfully to Sarina: "Don't look at the appearance of the cactus ball is very ordinary, not eye-catching, and when it has been precipitated by the years and slowly grows up, it can also bloom into a delicate flower and dress up in spring." Boy, you're like this pot of cactus balls right now. Sarena thought thoughtfully.
Then, Li Youzhong bought a lot of art, philosophy and performance books from the bookstore and said to his daughter: "You don't have a drama now, you just have time to 'recharge' yourself." Once you find the opportunity, the released energy will shock everyone! ”
The enlightenment of her parents gradually calmed Sarina's irritable heart, and she talked to the master of art in the book. Which master of art has achieved great things without waiting and honing? Sarina's mood suddenly opened up.
Sarina and Pan Jun
But the days of waiting are difficult after all, Sarina can't help but be sad, for an actress, the golden time is only a few years, and her beautiful years are spent in vain waiting, will she have a head day? In May 1993, a relative of Sarina's mother's family saw Sarina staying at home all day and invited her to join her in the wool textile business, and Sarina agreed. She told her parents about it and wanted to borrow 20,000 yuan from them. Li Youzhong and his wife firmly disagreed: "If you want to do business, we will not lend you money." Children, believe us, you have a talent for acting, there will be a cloud on the day of sunrise, you must stick to it. Sarina listened to her parents.
Sarina stayed at home for 6 full years. In this long 6 years, she read more than 200 books, observed more than 400 classic CDs, and accumulated enough energy.
It is gold that always shines. In 1995, Sarina finally had the opportunity to explode. In June of that year, the director of the TV series "Niu Yuqin's Tree" approached Sarina and asked her to play the heroine of the play. The director told her that the show was paid very little and that there were only two episodes. Sarina agreed: "Even if I don't have a salary, I will shoot!" ”
This inconspicuous TV series was performed by Sarina, and her natural and relaxed performance attracted the attention of the director. Since then, Sarina has been about to continue to make films, in just over three years, she has successively starred in many film and television dramas such as "Emotional Watch", "The Great Tunnel", "Midnight Tram" and so on, and has won the Outstanding Actress Award of the "Feitian Award" of China Television, and the Best Actress Award of the Shanghai International Television Festival "Magnolia", which became famous in one fell swoop.
In 1998, when Sarina received the award in Shanghai, she delivered an acceptance speech: "Probably no one knows, I used to stay at home for 6 years, my heart was very lost, if it were not for the encouragement and support of my parents, I would not be able to persist today." Here I would like to say from the bottom of my heart, Mom and Dad, thank you! Stepping off the podium, Sarina received a call from her father, and Li Youzhong's voice choked and excited: "Child, I told your mother that your Shandan Dan flower will bloom!" Sarina choked up and said nothing...
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In February 1999, the 31-year-old Sarina found out that she was pregnant, which made her both excited and nervous, and it was time for a woman to be a mother. But thinking that his career is in the sprint stage, pregnant and having children is bound to disappear in the show business for a year and a half, and the show business is fiercely competitive, who remembers himself at that time? Sarina decided to kill the child.
The 34-year-old Pan Jun has long been eager to be a father, and when he learned that his wife did not want this child, he quarreled with Sarina. Unable to convince his wife, Pan Jun asked his father-in-law and mother-in-law for help. Li Youzhong criticized his daughter: "You don't feel like an actor, you have to look different, a woman should do something at what age." Nabuki also stood on the side of her son-in-law: "The little life has come, this is the favor of heaven for you and Pan Jun, as a woman, as a mother, you must respect life and respect love." When your mother was pregnant with you, if you gave up childbearing because of the pursuit of a career, would you have today? ”
Since the parents and husband had formed a unified alliance, their reasons were irrefutable, and the throbbing of the little life in her stomach brought sarina an indescribable joy and happiness, and Sarina changed her mind and decided to give birth to the child.
Sarina with the baby
After 8 months of pregnancy, Sarina's movements were very inconvenient, and Pan Jun was filming outside for three days, and there was no time to accompany Sarina. In this case, Nabuki went through the retirement procedures in advance and came to Beijing specifically to take care of her daughter. Nabuki worries that the vegetables in the market have residual pesticides that will affect her daughter's body and fetal development, and she often squeezes buses to go to suburban farms to buy green vegetables. Sarina's stomach was dewy and she couldn't bend over, and Nabuki had to wash her daughter's feet, wear socks, and tie her shoelaces every day.
On December 25, 1999, Sarina and Pan Jun's daughter Xiao Tiantian was born, and Nabuki took up the double burden of taking care of her daughter and granddaughter. Nabuki often got up in the middle of the night to feed the child water, brew milk, carry her around the room, and coax her to sleep. In the dim light, Nabuki's white hair sparkled. Seeing the silhouette of her mother's emaciated and old age, Sarina's heart was very unhappy: her mother pulled herself and her sister up with a handful of and urine, suffered a lot, and now she is more than half a hundred years old and wants to pull the child for herself, which is really pitiful for the parents of the world!
After becoming a mother, Sarina suddenly became mature and her mentality became calmer than before. At the same time, in the process of raising children, she deeply experienced the hardships of her parents raising herself and her sister in those years, and she was full of gratitude to her parents. Her parents had been living a tight life in this life, and now Sarina's economic conditions have changed dramatically, and she strives to make her parents live a rich and prosperous life. She added a large-screen LCD TV to her parents, and the room was carpeted; her parents' lumbar spine was not good, she spent more than 20,000 yuan to buy a high-end massage chair for her parents; every year she also arranged for her parents to travel abroad.
At that time, Sarina spent 10 months a year filming outside, spending time with her parents. But in Sarina's view, the old man is happy in his old age as long as his material life is satisfied, and his parents are undoubtedly a pair of happy old people.
In October 2002, sarina was filming the TV series "Da Dye Fang" in Inner Mongolia, and she told her parents on the phone: "Mom and Dad, I will take time to visit you in Baotou one day." At this time, Sarina had not returned home for a whole year, and Li Youzhong and his wife were very much looking forward to their daughter's return home to get together, but they were worried about affecting their daughter's work, and said: "We know that you are very busy, if you can't find time, you can't count it." ”
Two days later, Li Youzhong fell ill due to a sudden change in the weather, and Nabuki took care of him in the hospital. Nabuki, who is frail and sick, also suffered from an increase in blood pressure due to overwork, and was bedridden. At this time, Sarina called her parents' house and no one answered, so she dialed her mother's mobile phone. Nabuki, worried that her daughter would be anxious to know that she and her wife were sick, answered the phone while covering her mouth with a towel to prevent herself from coughing. But Sarina heard the hint anyway. The next morning, she rushed to the hospital, saw her parents both lying haggard on the hospital bed, and complained bitterly: "Mom and Dad, why don't you tell me when you are sick?" Li Youzhong sighed: "Alas, child, we can only see you if we are sick." ”
Nabuki said with tears: "Child, you don't actually understand us old people, material life is not important to us, as long as you often come to see me and your father, it is better than anything!" The words of her parents deeply shook Sarina's heart, guilt and self-blame intertwined in her heart, she felt that she knew so little about her parents, and she really ignored the emotional needs of her parents over the years, she choked and said to her parents: "Mom and Dad, my daughter will often come to visit you in the future." Sarina did what she said, and in the days to come, no matter how busy she was filming, every two months, she took her daughter and husband to Baotou to visit her parents.
In June 2004, Li Youzhong also retired, and the couple took the initiative to visit sarina and Pan Jun, considering that Sarina and Pan Jun were busy. It was more than ten hours' drive from Baotou to Beijing, and Li Youzhong and his wife were both elderly, and the long journey made them dusty and tired, and Sarena looked very uncomfortable in her eyes. After consulting with her husband, she bought a two-bedroom apartment near Beijing's North Fourth Ring Road, and after renovating it with her husband, she took her parents to Beijing to settle down in October 2005.
Sarina with parents and daughter
Li Youzhong is a person who can't stay idle, he has been busy for decades, and now that he has suddenly become idle, he feels very uncomfortable. In addition, he has no relatives or friends in Beijing, except for walking around the community twice, the rest of the time is bored at home. Gradually, his mood became worse and worse, the quality of sleep was very poor, he couldn't move around at home to drop things, and he lost his temper with his wife.
Nabuki told Sarina about her husband's change, and Sarina thought that her father had just retired, that her mentality had not yet adjusted, and that some losses were normal and had not been taken to heart.
On January 4, 2006, Sarina returned to Beijing after filming the TV series "Breaking into the Guandong" in Heilongjiang, and as soon as she left her luggage at home, she went to visit her parents. Entering her father's house, Sarina was astonished: her father sat haggard in front of the window, his eyes full of trepidation and sorrow, and his expression was wooden, motionless like a sculpture. My father wore a white sock on his left foot and a black sock on his right foot. Sarina even called out to her father a few times, but he didn't react. Sarina patted her father's shoulder hard, and Li Youzhong raised his head and looked at Sarina indifferently without speaking.
Sarina asked her mother anxiously, "Mom, how long has this happened to My father?" Nabuki said worriedly, "It's been more than a month, and this old man doesn't know what nerves he has." ”
That night, Sarina called an expert at the Chinese Institute of Psychology and told her father's symptoms as they were. Experts affirmed: "Your father suffers from elderly depression, you must not take it lightly, elderly depressed people are very fragile in their hearts, the most prone to suicide." "Putting down the phone, Sarina's heart aches...
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That night, Sarina stayed up all night. The next morning, she came to her father's house to take him to the hospital, and Li Youzhong pushed the teacup in his hand to the ground and said breathlessly: "I am not sick, what are you sending me to the hospital for!" Sarina and her mother said involuntarily and forcibly dragged her father to the hospital.
After learning more about Li Youzhong's situation from Nabuki, the doctor talked to Li Youzhong through language and then told Sarina: "Your father has reached the level of moderate depression, and if he does not receive systematic treatment, the consequences will be unimaginable." Eighty percent of older people with depression are men, and their suicidal tendencies are more severe. Sarina begged the doctor, "Doctor, you must cure my father's illness!" ”
Sarina pushed off all the film appointments and activities and spent time in the hospital with her father. Considering that her mother was frail and sickly, Sarina insisted on staying in the hospital every night. The nurse asked Sarina incomprehensibly, "You are so famous and have such good economic conditions, you can hire a nurse to take care of your father." Sarina said seriously, "I don't feel safe if someone else takes care of Daddy." Besides, no matter how successful my career is, in front of my father, I am first and foremost a daughter, and my daughter should be filial piety. ”
The doctor prescribed a lot of Chinese medicine to Li Youzhong, and Sarina fried the back end of the back to his father. Looking at the black soup and smelling the bitter taste, Li Youzhong waved his hand: "Take the medicine away, I don't drink it." Sarina coaxed her father like a child: "Dad, you drink the medicine, and I will buy you a rock sugar gourd to eat." "As long as you obey, I will meet all your requirements." Unconsciously, Li Youzhong drank the medicine.
Half a month later, the doctor performed music therapy for Li Youzhong. The doctor asked Li Youzhong to lie on the sofa and played soothing music such as "Green Island Serenade" and "Dripping Stars" to hypnotize him. The beautiful melody acts on the cerebral cortex, which can have an effect on the lower part of the thalamus and the limbic system, regulate hormone secretion, blood circulation, and thus change people's emotional experience and physical functioning. In the doctor's verbal hints, Li Youzhong entered a state of sleep, and gradually, he entered a peaceful, peaceful, and warm world. After more than two hours of treatment, Li Youzhong woke up from sleep and felt relaxed, and his inner uneasiness and tension eased a lot.
A few days later, Li Youzhong's symptoms of depression had eased a lot, and Sarina took her father home. Sarina and her husband formed a group of relatives and friends to take their in-laws from Yantai, Shandong to Beijing, and then they took their daughter and four elderly people on both sides to travel to Putuo Mountain in Zhejiang Province. The beautiful scenery and fresh air make Li you loyal and relaxed, he is like a child and taking pictures, feeding goldfish, and throwing coins into the fountain...
Sarina let the four old men swing on the swing, and when the swing swung left and right, the old man screamed with excitement. Watching the mother-in-law grab her father-in-law's hand, the mother grabbing her father's hand, the four old people talking and laughing, Sarina's heart is sweeter than drinking honey, she feels that for her children and the old man, this is happiness.
After returning from Putuo Mountain, Li Youzhong's mood was much more cheerful. Sarina played iron while it was hot, and then summoned young friends to play at her father's house, they accompanied his father to play chess, sang karaoke with his father, helped his parents cook... The youthful vitality of the young man infected Li Youzhong, and by May 2008, Li Youzhong was completely freed from depression, and the confident and happy smile returned to his face.
Li Youzhong has been busy all his life, and Sarina is worried that his father will be bored at home all day long, and encourages his father to go out. She contacted the neighborhood committee of the community where her father lived and asked them to invite him to participate in any elderly activities. Li Youzhong likes calligraphy, and Sarina enrolled him in a calligraphy training class at Haidian University for the Elderly; she also bought fishing rods for her father, and when the weather was good, let him go fishing in the reservoir.
In this way, Li Youzhong had endless things to do every day, he went out early in the morning with his bag on his back, and did not return home until the evening, every day was windy and hot, and the days were tense and full. Once, Li Youzhong repeatedly revealed to Sarina that living in Beijing was too lonely and wanted to go back to Baotou to live. Now seeing that her father was living a tasteful life, Sarina teased her father: "Dad, don't you mean that you are not used to living in Beijing?" I'll send you back to Baotou. Li Youzhong waved his hand continuously: "Child, I am in love with Beijing, or live a full life here." He also joked with his daughter: "Are you worried that your father has become your baggage in Beijing, and you want to throw this baggage out?" The father and daughter laughed...
After all, after living in Baotou for most of his life, for a long time in Beijing, Li Youzhong and his wife could not avoid homesickness. Sarina can feel this mood of her parents, when her parents are homesick, she accompanies the two old people back to Baotou for a few days, visits relatives, friends and neighbors there, and roasts lamb and drinks milk tea with them. Every time she returned to Baotou, Sarina gave her parents a sum of money and asked them to give each of her relatives and friends a small gift. Sarina's filial piety won everyone's praise.
On September 9, 2008, On The Chongyang Festival, Mr. and Mrs. Li Youzhong and some old comrades in the community went to the suburban nursing home to celebrate. Most of the people who live here are widows and elderly people, not only living in ordinary conditions, but also mentally lonely. Seeing Li Youzhong and others, these old people are like seeing their relatives. After more than two hours, they left, and the old people burst into tears: "Will you come back later?" This made Li Youzhong feel a lot of emotions.
Back at home, Li Youzhong told Sarina about the situation of the widows and widows in the nursing home. The kind Sarina burst into tears: "Those old men are so pitiful. Li Youzhong choked and said, "Child, think about my life with your mother, and look at those old people, we are too happy, and they need help too much." Sarina understood her father's meaning: "Dad, I will visit you and your mother and volunteer for them in the future." "I really deserve to be my good daughter, and I have a sharp heart with my father."
Since then, Sarina has often visited her parents in homes with gifts, bathing widows, women, cutting their nails, and performing shows for the widows and widows. Sarina's peace and kindness have won the hearts of the old people, who like Sarina in their hearts.
On February 5, 2009, Sarina accompanied her parents to visit the elderly in the nursing home. Their arrival made the old people as happy as the festival, and they held Sarina's hand tightly: "You have played so many kind and kind mothers in the TV series, I didn't expect that you were also so peaceful and considerate in life, if only we had such a daughter." Can we also treat you as a daughter? Sarina said happily, "With so many moms and dads, how happy I am!" The old people called out "daughter" with emotion, and Sarina agreed with tears. When Li Youzhong and his wife saw this scene, tears welled up...
Sarina and Liu Jin
The days flowed warmly in the father-daughter relationship. Who knows that in 2017, Li Youzhong was once again admitted to the hospital for geriatric disease. Sarina took care of her father while filming. Before leaving, Li Youzhong said to his daughter: "I am leaving, you work and live well." With a daughter like you, I am very content in my life. Sarina watched her father die peacefully in front of her.
Bidding farewell to her father, Sarina was saddened. Her mother advised her: "When your father was alive, you did your filial piety, and he had no regrets." Don't be too sad, he doesn't want to see you like that in heaven. The mother and daughter comforted each other and warmed up, and finally walked out of the shadow of bereavement. In December 2019, more than two years after her father's death, Sarina remembered her father by living and working well. She knew that this was also what her father most wanted to see.
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