Among the siblings, are you the one favored?

When we discuss are you the one of the siblings who is favored? What comes to mind? Son preference, the eldest and the oldest, sweet-mouthed children, crying children have milk to eat isn't it?

Brothers and sisters generally encounter this kind of problem, there is always one of the sisters is the most loved by the parents, in the eyes of the parents they have the same attitude towards each child, no more pain, no less pain which one, are the same treatment. In fact, the answer to this question can not only be answered by parents, but also should ask children, ask children's ideas, ask them what they think.

In October this year, a child was on vacation, taking the child to the park to play, and between breaks, he met a mother with two twin daughters and a young son, and the mother bought an ice cream for each child, and the taste was chosen by the child himself. Each child was tasting the delicious ice cream of his choice, but he had only eaten two bites, and the younger son did not want to eat his own, so he had to say that the ice cream in his big sister's hand was not delicious.

What do we do as parents at this time? Is it to let the boss give the ice cream to the younger son to taste and then buy one for the younger son, or directly let the boss give his ice cream directly to the younger son? This mother chose the latter, letting the boss give his ice cream to his brother and the boss to eat the ice cream that his brother chose.

The little girl did not go to pick up the ice cream in her mother's hand that her brother did not want to eat, but just sat next to it silently shed tears. Seeing the boss crying, this mother did not go to comfort this child, but carefully wiped the ice cream on her son's mouth, saying that he was small and you were big, so that the younger brother should not? After a while your brother will not eat you and then eat it, after saying this, looking at the boss still shed tears there, the child's mother directly came to a sentence to shut me up and don't cry.

The little girl sat next to her with tears in her eyes and was very aggrieved, while the other two children, one of them tasted the ice cream that originally belonged to her sister under the careful care of her mother, and the other did not care about her sister eating her own ice cream. This little girl is only two years older than her brother and is also a child, and she is not treated equally by her mother, because she was born early because she was the eldest, and she was ignored and forced to let her brother.

Most people have watched the TV series "Golden Marriage", I believe that there is a girl named Duoduo who must be familiar to everyone, when Wen Li is old, she always nags Duoduo, which is unconscious. Can we still recall Toto's resentment and accusations against his parents at that time?

Parents hope that we can all set the scale in our hearts, and the love for each child can be averaged, do not value sons over daughters, favor women over men, and take care of small ones, but only prefer the sweet mouth, and ignore the child who stands in the corner silently waiting for love.

Raising children is not to feed and wear warmth, but also to pay attention to their psychological development, do not let the person they rely on the most trusted to become the person who hurts them the most, home should be the warmest place for children, parents should become the harbor they rely on.

We should create a good and harmonious family environment, let children have a happy growth environment, and every child should be treated equally. The state calls on everyone to have two children and three children, when there are more children in the family, parents should give a certain amount of energy to each child, so that the child standing in the corner is left out in the cold and ignored.