How does the Phoenix Woman achieve her goals?

The purpose of the phoenix woman is to find a capable man to help her shoulder the responsibilities of her original family, the way is to be able to catch the man's economy to death, the means is sex and children, the key is to be able to hold the man's psychology (so we must find an honest and kind man), and success depends on how much sex and family happiness she brings to the man, and the reason for the rupture is often that the phoenix woman will always break through the bottom line, resulting in the final phoenix woman with both hands and nothing. This passage is actually a warning to phoenix women how they should achieve their goals and then be able to have it for a long time: slowly falling in love with their men and family, which is the only way to redeem themselves.