As the saying goes, "if people are unlucky, they even plug their teeth when they drink water", I believe that many people have had such experiences, such as accidentally falling when going out, and then the next few days have a feeling of not going well, the old man at home said, this is "bad luck".
An experience like this is actually a small thing and doesn't have much impact on people. There is also a situation, for a long time the work and life is not smooth, into the trough of life, as the saying goes, "the roof leaks and is rained overnight", all kinds of bad things follow, life is like a mess.
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For example, the Northern Song Dynasty literary hero Su Shi, who we are familiar with, in the second half of his life, is either degraded, or on the road of being degraded, life gives him, there is no worst, only worse, but no matter how unlucky Su Shi's life is, he can get out of those helpless predicaments and achieve a brilliant life.
So when we are not lucky in life, what should we do to get out of the trough and get good luck? Here I give you six words - three do three do not do.
In fact, whether in good times or bad times, people must do something and do nothing, and the purpose of hard work is to change the status quo, selectively do not do, is to avoid falling into a worse situation, three do three do not do, is to do purposefully, selectively do not do.
At a time when life is not going well, what are the things worth doing? The first is the good thing. As the saying goes, hunger and cold rise to thieves, saying that this person in difficult times, often give birth to bad thoughts to go to the crooked door, there are many people in trouble in society, in order to get rid of their own embarrassment as soon as possible, through the means of pit abduction and deception want to get rich overnight, but will fall into the point of no return.
Therefore, when a person is in a stage of unhappiness in life, he should maintain a good heart and do more good deeds, so that he can get blessings. For example, in the process of being degraded, Su Dongpo has been unable to protect himself, but he still cares about the suffering of the people and does his best to do something for the people.
Therefore, in every degraded place, he can be welcomed and loved by the people, and often the people invite Su Shi to drink, and they are very happy. Like some people after being degraded, you think about how to squeeze the people and make a profit for yourself, and the result is that everyone shouts and beats like a street rat, so you must do good deeds, do not do bad things.
When people fail, they often have a rush to turn over, all kinds of opportunities do not want to let go, want to try everything, so that a lot of time and energy is wasted, because most of the things or so-called opportunities, are useless, toss themselves to exhaustion and disappointment, when the real opportunity comes, but there is no way to seize.
The so-called urgency is chaotic and wrong, the more unlucky, the more we must sink down and focus on doing a useful thing is far more meaningful than doing a hundred useless things, and the strength must be spent on ideas, do useful things, and do useless things.
Rush to turn over, but also will cause a gambling psychology, to do a vote of big, high risk and high return, people with this idea are likely to bet desperately, but the reality is often ten bets and nine losses, when a person is already unlucky enough, why do you think you will be the luckiest one? So, don't do high-risk things, but take your time down-to-earth.
Keep kind, focused on action, calm and steady, this is the essence of three do three do not do, adhere to these three points, good luck will naturally come.