In life, have you ever encountered all kinds of unfortunate troubles?
Framed in the workplace and finally forced to leave;
Buying a house or decoration fell into the pit dug by developers and decoration companies, and the hard-earned hard-earned money was instantly adrift;
When people reach middle age, not only do their careers go downhill, but they also encounter many rebellions and relatives...
There is an old Chinese saying: "One life, two luck, three feng shui..." Luck ranks second, and you can imagine how significant it is to a person's life!
If you have good luck, then everything in life can be smooth and smooth, and your heart will come true. But if you are unlucky and unlucky, it is a leak in the house that rains overnight, and you can even plug your teeth by drinking cold boiled water!
Even some people with bad luck may have a hard time turning over again in their lifetime. Therefore, no one wants to be unlucky and unlucky. So how can it be avoided?
In fact, when people are unlucky, they are not unaware of it at all, and there are often these three signs.
<h1>01 The first sign: bad words hurt people</h1>
As the saying goes: "Evil comes out of the mouth", "good words are warm in three springs, and bad words hurt people in June", which shows that the influence of language on people is very large.
Good language, like a spring breeze, can bring harmonious interpersonal relations and a smooth life; evil language is like a sharp blade, which is not only easy to hurt the people around them, but also may offend the villains and invite disasters.
For example, some people, out of intention or unintentional, are ruthless in their mouths, and always love to expose other people's shorts in front of people, poke people's sore spots, and put the other party in an embarrassing situation.
Thus hurting each other's self-esteem, being hated by the other party, then it is likely that one day, it will be retaliated against by the other party. This is "evil coming out of the mouth."
There are also some people who always like to speak harshly and never care about the feelings of others, especially some parents, in the face of their own children who do not listen to discipline, often speak harshly and vent their anger.
As a result, the child relationship has since broken down and can no longer be repaired; in the heavy case, the child chooses to run away from home or live lightly under the verbal violence. This is the doom that bad words bring to the family.
What you say is what you think, what you say usually represents what you think, reflecting what your heart is like. People who often speak evil words are always difficult to become a good person.
Inner evil is expressed through words, hurting people invisibly, and the slightest inattention will offend others. How could such a person be blessed with good luck? Naturally, bad luck and bad luck are entangled.
<h1>02 The second sign: act sloppily</h1>
Earlier we said caution, now we are talking about prudence.
"You must be defensive, you must not be worried." Don't be defensive because the harm is small, and don't think about it because it's long-term. Only by planning and then moving can we stand in an invincible position.
People who act recklessly often do not make sufficient preparations before acting, and they are in a hurry to act recklessly. As a result, when the problem occurred, I was caught off guard and could only panic to deal with it, so unfortunate things followed.
To give a few examples:
For example, if you want to do business, but do not do market research, then it is likely to lose a lot of money;
For example, if you never read the weather forecast before going out, it is very likely that you will return home in the rain;
For example, if you do not fully understand each other's personality, three views and the situation of the original family before you get married, then after marriage, it is likely to end in divorce...
Therefore, people who act hastily are bound to take bad luck, and these backstabbing are originally avoidable. Therefore, it is the best policy to think twice about everything.
So, who are the sloppy people?
The first type of person has an impatient personality and always wants to do things well at the first time, but if he wants to be fast, he will not reach it. The more anxious you are, the more likely you are to miss the most critical factors and lead to bad luck.
In fact, when things go wrong, the time it takes to solve the problem may not only be longer than the time it takes to think carefully before the action, but also bring about a bad emotional experience.
There is also a kind of person who is lazy by nature, unwilling to use his brain, always likes to do one step at a time, and is unwilling to lay out and consider in advance. This kind of person must first change his lazy psychology, otherwise, the back will always be entangled.
Finally, there is another kind of person who is because of bad habits. As long as such people cultivate the habit of thinking first and acting later, they can easily help themselves change their bad luck.
Therefore, if you want to be cautious, to act without haste, and to think before acting, you can only make up your mind to change your impatient or lazy personality and develop good habits. Otherwise, it is inevitable that the back will still come to the door.
<h1>03 The third sign: the heart is not right</h1>
If you want to avoid bad luck, it is not enough to rely on careful words and deeds, but also needs to be right in the heart.
People with improper mental skills are often people who attach great importance to their own interests, usually manifested as narrow-mindedness, not seeing others well, loving to expose people short, mercenary intentions, two-sided and three-bladed, hypocrisy, shirking responsibility, and so on.
But as the saying goes, "Many unrighteous deeds will kill themselves", "often walk by the river, where are the shoes that are not wet?" "People with wrong hearts, who do more bad things, sooner or later will be detected by the people around them, thus losing relatives and friends and being punished."
"The world is bustling, all for profit; the world is bustling, all are for profit" "Birds die for food, and people die for money." Originally, chasing fame and profit was a normal thing in the world.
However, if you harm the interests of others in order to maximize your own interests, even at the expense of hurting others, it is the work of people with unhealthy hearts.
Such a person, because of his long-term work in calculation, spends a great deal of time and energy on things that are detrimental to virtue. Over time, the face becomes sinister, the body and spirit will also be eaten back, and when the evil deeds are revealed one by one, people will avoid it, and it is not surprising that the backs are continuous.
Therefore, if a person's heart is not right, it can be predicted that his future will be more and more downhill, and if you want to avoid bad luck and prosper your career, you must be right in the heart.
Although people with wrong hearts have gained considerable benefits by relying on their own calculations in the short term, they will eventually lose all the gains and will never be able to achieve great things.
On the contrary, people with a right heart, who are open-minded, always think about others, and are unwilling to do things that harm others and benefit themselves. Only take the benefits that you deserve, in the long run, there will be more and more virtuous and excellent people gathered around you, and your career luck will get better and better.
In short, whether a person will go back to luck, is it easy to be unlucky, through the above three signs, a look will know.
In other words, if you don't want to be unlucky in the future, then you must avoid becoming one of these three kinds of people, and strive to learn to be a prudent person in words and deeds, with a correct heart.
Author: Mr. Senmei
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