Money, power, fame, profit, sex, what do you want most?
Too many people will choose – "money".
Too many people dream of making money, but more than one person obviously wants to make money and wants to make money, but they always feel as if something is hindering them from making money.
Or, just make some money, and before you feel anything, there is nothing.
Noble people often regard money as a sin, but in fact money is not the source of sin, greed is.
Economic independence can make a person's personality independent, and then can be free to choose and pursue.
When you are financially dependent on others, it is difficult to have spiritual independence.
And a person can only live a decent life when the economy and personality are double independent.
Poverty is not a fault, let alone a sin, the key is whether there is a heart to get rid of poverty.
What does it feel like to have money?
It is a sense of well-being and freedom.
I have always believed that each of us should establish a correct attitude towards money, don't worship money too much, but don't make yourself have a vendetta against money, you have a vendetta against money, will it still come to you?
Money is not a panacea, but nothing is also a panacea.
But why don't we have the money? Inner scarcity
"Inner scarcity" is often one of the factors that plague us psychologically that we don't have money:
A very beautiful dress, one look at the price, give up...
Subconscious – "I'm not qualified to wear expensive clothes"
Every day is busy, physically and mentally exhausted, but it will not stop...
Subconscious – "I'm not qualified to let myself relax"
Interpersonal relationships, longing to love and be loved, but can not express...
Subconscious – "I am not qualified to love and be loved"
Encountered difficulties, knowing that someone can help themselves, but dare not open their mouths...
Subconscious – "I'm not qualified to ask for help"
Inner deprivation and insecurity can only create external deprivation, fear, and worry.
Psychoanalytic psychology says that the parent-child relationship of the original family is internalized into the child's internal relationship pattern, thus determining the child's character fate throughout life.
In layman's terms, parents are like children's programmers, childhood parents write to the child's subconscious is lack and heaviness, how can the child's future be rich and flowing?
Parents cry poor to their children, children will become introverted, sensitive, have no self-confidence, and will feel that they are too different from their classmates or friends around them.
Don't dare to buy expensive things, will be keen on bargains, will feel inferior....
Crying poor, in fact, will not cry anyone's wallet, but will make the child's heart "cry poor".
Crying poverty will limit children's thinking, vision and patterns, and limit children's level of life.
Psychologist Joseph Cilona once said:
"The way we talk about money has a lasting impact on children."
The effect it brings, like a seed, blossoms in the heart, and it is easy for children to have feelings of inferiority, lack, and fear of money.
Coming to society with a sense of scarcity, the subconscious directs itself, and it is easy to experience scarcity and heaviness everywhere.
For example, do not believe that they deserve a good job, always find a hard and unprofitable job, even if they earn money, they cannot easily enjoy it, they feel guilty when they spend money on themselves, and at the same time, they are prone to overstock things, resulting in greater waste.
Unconsciously feel that money is difficult, I have to work very hard to make money, you make money will become very difficult, will also miss those opportunities to make money easily;
If that thought is about me not worth having, that I'm not good enough, you'll be embarrassed to ask for too much, and you won't even be able to get what you want;
Unconsciously disrespectful to money, without gratitude, no matter how much you earn, you can't keep the money;
If you feel that money is not enough now, it will never be enough.
Your abundance or lack depends largely on your subconscious beliefs about yourself and what you feel you should and deserve, and your subconscious about success and wealth.
Money can be the shell of many things, but it is not the fruit inside.
Some people are lost in money and become "scrooges"; some people can jump out of the limits of money and achieve true wealth.
The reason why we work so hard is actually to earn a little more money and realize wealth freedom as soon as possible, even if we fail to achieve wealth freedom.
Money makes some people strive to move forward; money also makes some people willing to degenerate.
If you are lost in money, you will become a slave to money, but you will be enslaved by it.
Money is not a sin
One of the failures of the education system is that it cannot provide students with financial and business education, and even many educators believe that money is the source of all evil.
As most of us know, loving money is not a sin — on the contrary, a lack of money leads to sin, it is a sin to be in debt and not be able to provide a rich life for your family, and it is a sin to try your own body or abandon your conscience for money.
Correct understanding of money, money itself is not a sin, it is only the most important tool in life, and what reflects it is people's beliefs, belief systems and cognitions.
People who only know how to make money, but do not care about their own and the interests of others, are not worthy of being called businessmen.
How you recognize money, what kind of belief system there is.
Why do some people become slaves to money?
Why can't some people earn enough money no matter how hard they try?
These are questions worth pondering.
The Three Laws of Money:
1. Money is 98% energy and 2% material, and the essence of money is "serving life and serving others."
2. Fortune: Respect for the life of things, and make the best use of things. (Heavenly Dao: Respect Heaven and Love People, Carry Great Virtue) How much virtue there is, how much wealth there is.
1. Wealth is directly proportional to energy, and the more peaceful and accessible the human mind, the higher the energy, and the law of attraction, the wealth will naturally accumulate more and more.
Improve the way to make money: wisdom, compassion, kindness.
Virtue is not worthy of wealth, there will be disasters, the key is that we must treat money correctly.
You can have a lot of wealth, and money is not a bad thing to own it is not shameful.
Having him or not having him has nothing to do with whether you are noble or not and whether you are worthy of respect.
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