There are three types of fear of wives: one is "fear of potential"; the second is "reasonable fear"; and the third is "fear of feelings".
There are three kinds of "fear" in "fear": First, they are afraid of their wives' nobility and rely on them to read; second, they are afraid of their wives' wealth and bribes; and third, they are afraid of their wives' toughness and avoid their beatings and scolding.
There are also three kinds of "reason to be afraid": one is to respect the virtuous wife and look up to her lady; the second is to serve the wife's talent and admire her literary talent; the third is to measure the suffering of the wife and read her food and poverty.
There are also three kinds of "love and fear": one is to love the beauty of his wife and is willing to serve her hue; the second is to pity his wife's few and ashamed of his youth; the third is to cherish his wife's delicacy and not bear to see his crotch.
There are so many male stars in the entertainment industry, and those who dare to openly admit to being afraid of their wives on social platforms are probably only Shan Liwen.
On May 13, 2021, the famous Hong Kong singer and actor Shan Liwen suddenly synchronized a social dynamic on multiple platforms.
My wife makes a lot more money than I do, I lose people, lose, lose momentum, so I really love her, in fact, I just don't have money.
Shan Liwen openly said that he "has no money and is afraid of his wife", what is the so-called reason?
It turned out that in recent years, Shan Liwen's acting career has entered a "bottleneck period", and his wife Hu Beiwei has become famous after abandoning art to engage in business.
Good entertainment media and melon-eating netizens "see stitches and needles", repeatedly "cold rice hot stir-fry", mocking Shan Liwen for "eating soft rice".
Originally, at the beginning, Shan Liwen chose to ignore it. But with the dog skin plaster-like stir-frying, Shan Liwen felt that he was offended and disturbed by his normal life.
In desperation, in the midst of grief and indignation, Shan Liwen made a jaw-dropping, but admirable, response.
But in fact, when you understand Shan Liwen's life experience, acting experience, and emotional experience, you will find that Shan Liwen has no money and is afraid of his wife is just an appearance, and I am a true man, which is the most suitable label for him.
In 1955, John Lennon, who was still studying at an art school, formed a band called the Quarrymen, and this unborn musical genius began to consciously integrate various musical styles, pioneering genres such as psychedelic rock and pop rock.
Over the next few years, John Lennon assembled the core lineup of Paul McCartney and George Harrison to stabilize the band and gradually began to show their prominence around the world.
Around the time of the Beatles, on March 17, 1959, Shan Liwen was born.
Shan Liwen's father was a "bad man" and his mother was a "Kochi", and both were avid rock lovers.
By the time the Beatles were all the rage in the '60s, they not only dressed up their children as "rock and roll," but also urged them to learn music rigorously.
For example, Shan Liwen's sister learned violin from an early age, and Shan Liwen's brother learned bass guitar.
The good musical environment and family influence have cultivated Shan Liwen's musical literacy, which has laid the groundwork for him to break into the music circle.
But by the time Shan Liwen was 10 years old, his parents divorced.
Shan Liwen, who lived with his mother, lacked discipline and abandoned his studies, and he dropped out of school after only completing secondary five.
But life still has to go on, how can Shan Liwen survive when he breaks into society early? With amazing musical talent, he became a guitarist for a basement bar band with a monthly salary of HK$800, although the introducer later withdrew $200.
Just as the so-called "time also, fate also; time also, luck also", Shan Liwen was fortunately born in the best era of the Hong Kong music scene: Hui Guanjie almost single-handedly promoted Cantonese songs, and Rowan made Chinese songs and film and television perfectly combined. More importantly, at that time, the treatment of musicians was good, and a teenager who dropped out of school and spent the flower season had a monthly salary of 800 yuan for his first job, which was not the best proof?
But making money is too easy, and it can make young people lose themselves. The same is true for Shan Liwen.
Staying in the noisy environment of the bar all year round, Shan Liwen spends his days drinking, and his greatest interest is to make a girlfriend. As for the dream, in the words of Shan Liwen in a later interview: "The dream of being a musician is very simple, I want to go to the disco of the big hotel, where there are many girls!" ”
You see, Shan Liwen never hides or tucks it, it is as real as it is.
Therefore, many authors write "greasy" and "debut is the peak", which is actually incorrect.
On the contrary, Shan Liwen's fame was very late.
It was not until 1981, when Shan Liwen accompanied Xia Shaosheng with Su Dehua and Huang Liangsheng, that he was discovered by "Asian drum king" Donald Ashley and released a vinyl record. However, it is only slightly known.
Shan Liwen's real fame came in 1986 when TVB held the "Pan Pacific Composition Competition", although the most popular bands were the Damien faction and the Blue Warriors. However, Shan Liwen signed a sony under the discovery of the judge Rowan. One is named and the other profitable.
But unfortunately, the strong one who got the name went on a rampage, and the one who gained the benefit was lost.
After joining the record company, Shan Liwen and the band members increased their incomes greatly, and the brothers suffered together, but they could not get along with the rich, and the band disbanded.
Carrying a large number of banknotes in his pocket, Shan Liwen, who is rich in gold and good looks, has become a famous "prodigal son" of Xiangjiang.
At that time, director Luo Zhuoyao was having a headache about the casting of Ximen Qing in "Pan Jinlian's Past and Present Life", and after seeing Shan Liwen, he slapped his thigh: This is Ximen Qing who is not alive!
This 1990 film opened another door for Shan Liwen, helping him win the Hong Kong Film Award for Best Newcomer and attracting the attention of major film and television companies.
Jiahe, who was strong first, directly sent Cai Lan to sign Shan Liwen into his command.
In the midst of confusion, Shan Liwen and Ye Zilin filmed the wind and moon film "Liaozhai Yantan".
While the film achieved a box office miracle, it also labeled Shan Liwen with ximen qing, which has followed him until now.
But in fact, Shan Liwen, who turned to the film field at that time, simply wanted to polish his acting skills and become a powerful actor.
However, the film and television company told him that he did not need acting skills to make wind and moon films!
The indignant Shan Liwen simply carried out "salty and wet" to the end, and he withstood pressure, doubts and misunderstandings, and played Ximen Qing five times in total!
At that time, xu Jinjiang was also "treated" with him, but Xu Jinjiang's painter status diluted his "salty wetness", while Shan Liwen's underground singer experience increased his "salty wetness".
But even if Shan Liwen wants to continue to develop in the field of Fengyue films, he can only give up with the introduction of the "rating system" for Hong Kong films.
So we can see that Shan Liwen later made a lot of non-wind and moon films. For example, "Gambler", "Wangfu Jackie Chan", "City Hunter", "Big Trouble Guangchanglong" and so on.
In fact, during his acting, Shan Liwen tried to return to the music scene.
He first cooperated with Liu Yida, and then he was brought back to the music scene by Zhong Zhentao, and then Zhong Zhentao recommended him to Lei Songde...
But after all, the best era of the Hong Kong music scene has passed, and the Hong Kong music scene and the Hong Kong film industry have fallen in the tide of the times.
But Shan Liwen is not pessimistic, he neither indulges in the past nor envisions the future, but is willing to be a layman, a layman who cares for his family and loves his wife.
As for feelings, Shan Liwen bluntly said that he was a "prodigal son". When he was young, he could not hold back his heart, and he never denied or avoided it.
When a brief relationship with Mei Yanfang was used as a talking point, he could only advise everyone that si people were dead and not to bother.
After acting ximen qing five times, the audience who entered the play too deeply avoided him, and he did not care.
When Hu Beiwei appeared in his life, he was grateful. The two shared weal and woe, soaked each other, and walked for decades in the wind and rain.
Now Shan Liwen's feelings are cold and warm, and the world is cold and cold, and he says with regret and affection:
Friends around him, many of whom have the next generation, inherit his personal unfulfilled wishes, and are the biggest toys in a man's life. I look at them and envy them too. However, at the age of 50, I believe there will be no children. My son graduated from college at the age of twenty, so why don't I reach seventy? Now, I just want to try to be a good man. Although, everyone, the definition of good, is always a little different...
A person who longs to have children and enjoy the joys of the world, a person who longs to be a good man and a good husband, a person who has a prodigal son and is not at fault, how can we bear to disturb his quiet life and complain that he has no money and is afraid of his wife?
A lifetime of people can be a long wind and a thousand miles; it can also be, the river is wide and the clouds are low, and the broken geese are called the west wind.
Don't laugh at others who are afraid of their wives, only ask who can accompany you to the end, who can give you real happiness.
I do my own su shan Liwen: five times starred in Ximen Qing, no money afraid of his wife is not shameful.
Finally, I wish "Brother Leopard" and "Leopard Sister-in-law" early birth of your son, white head to old age.