Text/Ye Xiaodan
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Now more and more people think that success is to be able to earn endless wealth and live a life of luxury cars and luxury houses.
In fact, although life cannot live independently of material things, it is absurdly wrong to blindly think that success is simply to have endless money and luxurious life.
Because true happiness is felt by the heart. Those who only want to achieve it through superficial material satisfaction have for a long time undoubtedly been difficult to fill in, drinking and quenching thirst.
It is true that the expansion of material desires often not only does not make people feel satisfied, but only makes people feel more and more dissatisfied, do not know what else in this world is worth treating well, and have to go all the way to black, insensitive.
In fact, there are too many temptations in this society, coupled with such a developed information, which makes everyone able to get short-term happiness from fast-food pastime, but the duration of this happiness is undoubtedly particularly short.
Undoubtedly, this short-lived happiness can make you temporarily forget the troubles of the moment, but as you get used to solving problems in this way, then the problems of the moment become more and more difficult to solve.
Truly intelligent people know how to create some opportunities, or to recognize the truth of things in time, know themselves, maintain a defensive mentality, at least not let themselves be easily affected by external things.
Only in this way can we truly save time and energy, and then devote ourselves to things that are more meaningful and valuable, and can also bring you more long-term happiness, and then live a full and happy life.
Scorpio
Scorpio is both a giver and a taker.
These two are not contradictory, but belong to the wisdom of life refined by Scorpio in the pursuit of goals and the process of achieving them.
As we all know, Scorpio people are relatively withdrawn, accustomed to treating life in their own way, and must be alone every day to think about something and think about what to tell themselves that today is not in vain.
In order to achieve the goal, they will unswervingly pay, continue to improve their vision and pattern, do their best through personal efforts and persistence, and gradually achieve the goal and achieve their wishes.
It is true that in this process, Scorpio will inevitably give people a feeling of loneliness, conceit and high coldness, and in the process of cooperating with people, because they are accustomed to the right thing and the wrong person, these guys often show people with a lonely and arrogant attitude.
Even if they are not targeting others, this style of doing things and the attitude of being a person will be more or less unpleasant.
Over time, Scorpio is more inclined to pay and persevere through their own efforts and persistence, and then grow gradually, without the need to rely on the strength of others to complete their goals.
And once the goal is set, Scorpio will be particularly responsible, passionately devote themselves to the work, and constantly give their strength, time, energy and willpower, tenacious fighting spirit, so that they are constantly strong.
Investing in such a focused force makes Scorpio prefer to be alone, making it difficult to get close, and they are more likely to feel mysterious in the whole process, but the mystery presented is very admirable.
Admittedly, after seeing human nature and understanding people's hearts, Scorpio will also come up with a relatively heavy defensive psychology, consciously or unconsciously maintaining a sense of distance from others, and even when necessary, know how to take out obvious self-reliance to anger others.
Of course, in dealing with the people around them, Scorpio will also know how to use the wisdom of Rou Kegang to win each other's hearts, be at peace with each other, respect each other and get along equally.
Cancer
Cancer people are often compassionate, empathetic, delicate and sensitive, with a lot of thoughts and ideas.
However, they rarely take the initiative to express their inner thoughts and feelings, and more often, the method they choose to deal with is to solve themselves and heal themselves.
Especially in a relationship, on the one hand, Cancer needs to interact with each other with subtle feelings and feelings, which can bring love and intimacy to Cancer.
Cancer, on the other hand, is easy to love someone desperately because of a momentary sensibility, but in such a state, many times even they do not know themselves, and even if they know and regret it, it is difficult to change the way they love someone.
As life hits harder, or when Cancer suffers from the hurt of love, it will become very cold, at least they are likely to always come up with an attitude of rejection to show their position.
At any time, Cancer is an introverted personality, the defense psychology is really strong, and often likes to come up with a clear, self-righteous attitude to declare their attitude.
They just want to tell you that they are not easy to get close to, and they are not easy to get along with, even if they are not in their bones, but they are afraid of being hurt.
And once you are completely accepted from the bottom of your heart, then you will find that Cancer is actually very gentle, delicate, and even more emotional.
They will express their wishes slowly, never ostentatiously, and at the same time know how to solve some problems with softness, very shrewd and clever, not to make people feel embarrassed, but to make people feel quite comfortable and comfortable to get along with.
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