After watching the extravaganza of "Goodbye Lover", it means that this season's program is all over, this show, let us see many aspects of marriage, but also let us cherish the people around us more.
In addition, it is to know Guo Keyu this person, she is really beautiful, the perception of life is very keen, never complain about life, but with an inclusive heart to treat everything, and then continue to maintain kindness, continue to look for love and freedom, this is the most precious place in her.
Although for a while, many netizens misunderstood her, especially when they learned about her past, they would feel that she was a scumbag, she had never loved Zhang He, and even felt that she still loved Qian Ping.
But Guo Keyu never paid attention to these comments, and even more did not say that Zhang He's half sentence was not good because of what others said, which is difficult for many people to do.
The separation of a relationship is definitely not the cause of one person, it is certain that there are problems between two people, but in the program, we can see Guo Keyu's doubts about Zhang Hedi, but we have never seen any complaints from Guo Keyu about Zhang He.
In fact, watching the whole show, you will find that Ke Keyu's attitude towards feelings is worth learning!
First, treat the predecessor without denigrating
A relationship to the end, it is inevitable to complain to each other, and even denigrate each other, has been telling each other's bad, some people think that this is the biggest revenge against the ex, but is this really the case?
When you are denigrating your ex, the most hurtful thing is not him, but yourself, that past, you and him, deny him, is also equivalent to denying yourself, denigrating him, is also equivalent to denying that beautiful past, there is no need to do this.
Guo Keyu has done a good job on this point, she has always maintained basic decency, even if Zhang He has been telling her dissatisfaction, she has also brought it in a joking way, never said a bad word about him, and even told others that he was really good, and that marriage protected her very well.
In fact, this marriage is not all Guo Keyu's fault, and even Zhang He's fault will be greater, you see after the two people separated, it is Guo Keyu who moved to another place with his children alone, when Guo Keyu was sick, she was also alone to face everything, she must have experienced the deepest despair before deciding to separate from him.
Even so, she never denigrated him, did not want to say that he was not good at all, and in her heart, she always retained the original beauty.
Second, treat the past without resentment
In the latest episode, the program team asked: "After the trip, what is the biggest change?" Guo Keyu replied: "The savings of love are full", which shows that she is quite satisfied with this journey.
Later, she asked about the current situation of the two people, and her answer was also very decent, she said, willing to believe that the other's tears are real, and willing to filter out the bad ones and remember only the good parts.
Guo Keyu is a very kind person, no matter what happened in the past, she is not willing to treat it with the worst heart, but with a tolerant and peaceful heart.
Come to think of it, that past must have brought Guo Keyu a lot of pain, otherwise she would not have erected a wall of heart, unwilling to come out, and even more unwilling to admit that she had loved, only to say that there was no love between them, and it was a mistake from the beginning.
There are many people who face the past, especially after encountering pain, always unable to let go, and even resent each other, thinking that if it were not for him, they would not be so miserable, but the more they think like this, the more bad life they have.
It is better to learn not to resent and maintain a peaceful heart, even if life gives you pain, you return it with its greatest enthusiasm.
Third, treat the future and be not pessimistic
In fact, such a sensitive and emotional person as Guo Keyu should be pessimistic in her heart, which is also the fact that she has repeatedly denied the love between her and Zhang He, and does not believe that Zhang He once loved her very much.
If she had understood earlier, and perhaps been able to hold on a little longer, the two of them would not have missed each other, but unfortunately, in that period of the past, she always treated it with a pessimistic attitude.
Especially later, she had a serious illness, which made her even less hopeful about this marriage, and she only wanted to live alone and use herself well for the rest of her life.
But now, it is obvious to see her radiant, but also to face life with a positive attitude, when asked, who will have a new relationship in the future, she is also pointing directly to herself, which is also a blessing to herself.
The past has passed, especially after eighteen days of travel, both people have been relieved, and the rest of the day is good!
The last Fan Wai was still broken by Guo Keyu, and she felt that in this period, she had been crying, which was a kind of relief for the past, and it was also a new beginning.
No matter how much pain there was in the past, Guo Keyu faced it with a tolerant heart, she never denigrated her ex, nor did she completely deny the past relationship, which was already her biggest affirmation of Zhang He.
Finally, I sincerely wish her that she can find love and freedom, and can rediscover her own piece of the world!