Women in general like to compare their relationship situation with a fixed pattern.
A friend who works at a women's university often has the opportunity to be invited to the weddings of female college graduates, but has rarely attended such weddings lately.
As a friend said: "Attending the wedding of female students, you often have to experience the lonely mood like marrying a daughter, which is very uncomfortable." In particular, it is even more uncomfortable for the beauty that everyone recognizes to be envious of sex when she is married away by a man who does not look good and does not have much charm. In order to escape that feeling, I have recently avoided attending such a wedding as much as possible. "
The situation of "ugly men and beautiful women" is mostly caused by the violent attacks of the men, which force women to surrender. But the correct way to say this is that men win battles and women lose to men. In general, women are different from men, and they can easily combine their love affairs with the patterns they aspire to.
For example, if she imagines herself as the heroine of a literary film, if the plot of the film has some similarities with herself, she will think that it is a fate to meet "him". Even the love method itself will have an impact, as well as the love process and plot that you don't know where to hear, as a model of your own love, which is really an illusion.
If the female concept of love is considered only by ability, the above-mentioned aggressive and courageous men can be said to be quite clever. In every opportunity to meet, they deliberately create a romantic atmosphere.
Such as walking hand in hand, kissing each other, etc., for such a positive offensive of men, most women will have the illusion that they are the embodiment of the heroine in literary and artistic movies and lose their rationality, and tie their hands.
According to relevant Japanese authorities, when he first met his current wife, he made a great determination to marry her home. In fact, this phenomenon of love at first sight is quite common in the encounter between men and women.
One day, when a friend met a girl on the tram, he thought to himself, "If you want to get married, you must be her." "In the case of not even knowing what the other person's surname is, he expresses his admiration for the other party." This type of male is not in the minority in today's society. Such people even ask each other to get married on the first date, and their speed can only be described as "lightning". Women are surprised and confused by this tough style of men at first, but after a period of time, most of them will quickly turn to men and then walk into the wedding hall with them.
Whether this "raid of love" will eventually bear fruit, we will not talk about it for the time being, but at least it will have a strong impact on women's psychology, which is absolutely true.
Because women have the instinct to exclude non-everyday things. Therefore, when you hear someone suddenly express love to yourself, your heart will ripple, and while you have a strong interest in the other party, you naturally think that the love expressed by the other party is real. Being able to meet the ideal object in your mind is a rare opportunity in your life, so even if you don't even know the name of the other party, you should move forward bravely and seize the rare opportunity, so that it is a successful strategy to win.
Sometimes the unconscious can often accomplish a good thing. The beauty of hand-in-hand love is that it makes you unconsciously enter the clutches of love, and when you find out, it is already raw rice made into cooked rice.
Handy love, because it is not deliberately forced. Often comes suddenly, comes easily, without any psychological pressure. In this relaxed state, the heart of love revealed, like sweet nectar, let you drink it once, sweet throughout your life.
There is no subjective consciousness of who chases whom, nor is there a distinction between strong and weak, everything is hidden in the randomness of "Shun" and the nature of "leading".
I can't help but love you
Longing for the moonlight
Dressed in a white veil
I'm in one
Old town
Drink alone
green tea