When it comes to music prodigy Zhou Anxin, many mothers are not strangers. In the first school year of "Music Master Class", Xiao Anxin, who was only 8 years old at the time, touched the audience with a song "The Sky is Big" and interpreted the gratitude for maternal love with a natural voice. At the scene, Xiao Anxin confessed to his mother with pure affection: "Mom, you have taken care of me hard, I don't know how to repay you, and when I grow up, I will protect you." After the show was broadcast, many people were touched by the touching true feelings between An Xin and her mother Chen Li.
Subsequently, Xiao Anxin and mentor Lin Zhixuan jointly appeared on the 2015 CCTV Mid-Autumn Festival Gala, and in November, they participated in the program recording of CCTV's "I want to go to the Spring Festival Gala", and sang the finale song "Unforgettable Tonight" with teacher Li Guyi at the 2016 CCTV Spring Festival Gala, and participated in many movies such as "Love Ahead" in succession...
Teenagers became famous, flowers are full of flowers, and An Xin seems to respond to what Zhang Ailing once said, "Fame should be early, if you come too late, happiness is not so painful."
But fame is also a sweet burden, which invisibly brings endless pressure to this ordinary family. In this issue of "Pretty Mother Raiders", we invite Zhou Anxin and her mother Chen Li to jointly unveil the cultivation of musical child stars, and share the various troubles and coping wisdom of young fame.
Exercise is the result, not for the sake of appearance
In the show, Chen Li, a beautiful mother, revealed that after Anxin became famous and participated in many movies, troubles also followed. Faced with the homework to be made up after falling behind, and the huge expectations from the school family, this shy and introverted little boy who pursues perfection almost collapses.
So, when one foot is on the road to success, should we go with the flow and continue our acting career, or should we reduce the pressure and return to an ordinary school career?
The choice Chen Li finally gave was to respect the child's feelings, not to impose the success standards of the parents on Anxin, to withdraw from the child together, and to return the focus to learning, and to see the performance more as an exercise than for the purpose of the name.
Now it seems that the choice of the beautiful mother Chen Li is undoubtedly wise. Too much love and expectation can be a burden on the child. There is only one premise for the real "good for you", that is, to respect you, to respect your wishes, to respect your choices, and to be good for you is to be good to you.
Understanding you is always more important than loving you
At the scene of the show, Anxin also integrated his feelings and voice into the song "Understand You", once again expressed his love for his mother, and sang the true meaning of the parent-child relationship of "understanding you, always more important than loving you".
In the face of the parent-child case of child star baby Anxin, Chen Xin and Teacher Li Luoping, members of the Beautiful Mother Observation Group, also pointed out that understanding you is the premise of loving you. Only when parents and children grow up together can they understand their children better. Accompanying growth is the best education given by parents to their children.
It is true that by understanding you, we can learn to love you better, to understand the desires of children better, and to be able to do what Gibran wrote in "Children", "What you can give them is your love, not your thoughts; what you can shelter is their body, not their soul." ”
In this episode, the talents Meng Zhen and Tian Ying also performed with Anxin's parents on the spot "how to skillfully cope with the undesirable daughter-in-law". Anxin's father, who is not good at expression, even confessed Chen Li affectionately at the scene, telling his wife's inseparability in hard work. Qian Jing, a famous TV personality, led Nuanyang Media to create the "Pretty Mother Raiders", which aims to teach more mothers how to grow up on their own, become better mothers, and become more perfect themselves. Want to know more about this episode of the program, Liaoning Satellite TV on March 6 at 21:10 pm, locked in the "Pretty Mother Raiders" jointly titled by Loving Mother and Baby and Loving Himmei, and explored the "Child Star Baby Cultivation Record" together.
Source: Qianlong Network