In the name of love, honey of A, arsenic of B

My sister's daughter, my little niece, just after the college entrance examination, she has always been obedient and sensible, at a critical moment, she actually filled in the volunteers, she has always been better at liberal arts, and she actually chose a computer major, which made my sister have a headache, and called to let me as a high school teacher come to persuade. My sister and brother-in-law are also primary school teachers, and they can't persuade their daughters, what can they do, dead horses as live horse doctors!

　　After dialing the phone, I talked to her from the north and the south, and finally quietly asked, did you learn to surf the Internet, why do you want to apply for a computer major, there was silence for a while, said, Uncle, again to persuade me, you are the fifth. I said, no, absolutely not. Uncle I am to teach you the experience, people are not crazy teenagers, good youth, if you do not do something beautiful to match it, after years, think about it will also feel regrets. The little niece asked again, Uncle do you have any experience? Didn't you just accept their arrangement? I could hear a little choking in her voice.

After loosening her psychological defense line, she said her inner thoughts, we all have a family of teachers, parents are university professors, now retired, the second brother is the principal of junior high school, from childhood she was indoctrinated that the teacher is an iron rice bowl, growing up must be a teacher's idea, from elementary school has been concerned by the family, eating attention, sleeping attention, school attention, even classes will have their own relatives looking out the window, this situation has continued from elementary school to high school.

Always obedient little niece, after the college entrance examination, and classmates scattered, was pulled into the Internet café by classmates, saw a game, completely shocked her heart, that mysterious world, streamer shadows, colorful, killing with herself. At that moment, she felt free, and it was from that moment that she had the idea of creating a world, to create a game world of her own, so she chose the computer profession that she did not know at all. From childhood to adulthood, she had had enough, this college entrance examination, she did not want to accept being arranged again, teacher training university, after graduation, back to be a teacher, that was her mother's dream, that was the dream of a big family other than her, not hers.

After listening to my niece's narration, I knew that my persuasion had failed.

I said to the other end of the phone, uncle is very glad that you found the road you want, but also live into the way you want, will not go like your uncle on the road arranged for you by the family, will not leave regrets, uncle was too cowardly before, in fact, uncle's dream when he was a child is to be a tour guide, to play the world, in front of your grandparents did not persist to the end, you rest assured, uncle will not persuade you anymore, I will persuade your mother, for you to fight for it

　　Everyone wants a life that only they know best, and no one should make decisions for them, even parents, in the name of loving their children, decide everything for them. Because, in the name of love, the honey of A, the arsenic of B.

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