Today is the 2927th day of intensive reading jun to accompany you throughout your lifelong growth
In the middle of the night, something comes to mind, tossing and turning, unable to sleep. I flipped through the WeChat of hundreds of people, but found that no one could talk to.
I believe that many people have had such an experience.
No one is talking at the moment, and it may be a good way to write it down and submit it to the radio station. Everyone deserves to be understood and heard.
Cheng Yi, the author of the book "Everything in the World, No One And You", is the founder of "Cheng Yi Radio", and his audio has been played more than 7 billion times on mainstream platforms, and his single program has been played more than 10 million times.
Combining personal experiences and the true stories of his audience, he included the different experiences and backgrounds of many people in the book "Everything in the World, Nothing Is With You".
Here are a few stories in the book to see if any of them touched you.
01
It's no big deal to be alone
Story 1:
In the second year of college, the boy got a job. A room was rented outside the fifth ring road, and there were ten people living in the house, sharing a toilet, two thousand and five per month.
The boy has a girlfriend who broke up when they were together for three months, not because they don't love, but because they need to make a choice.
A job in front of you can only support yourself, unable to take care of your lover.
In the end, the boy chose a job and gave up his girlfriend.
One of the two lived in the east of the city and the other in the west of the city, and it took four or five hours to drive back and forth when they met.
The girlfriend joked that even the breakup had to be said across the screen.
When the boy came downstairs to her house, it was already two hours later. The girlfriend didn't go downstairs and broke up like that.
People who have not experienced a life full of mud are not enough to talk about ideals, and a person who walks the next road always has to learn to grow up.
Story 2:
Girls had a relationship in college, often ate with their boyfriends, and traveled together. Girls feel that their boyfriend is the most suitable person for them.
Later, the boyfriend proposed to break up, and the reason given was inappropriate.
The girl was very sad and thought that her boyfriend had someone else outside.
But in fact, the real fit is to make two people feel comfortable. A suitable person can let go of all prejudices and defenses.
The boyfriend's approach makes the girl feel distrustful and uncomfortable to get along with, which is an inappropriate.
In the movie "Seattle Sleepless", the male and female protagonists determine that they are the ones who can spend the rest of their lives together through a look. It seems that both sides have specific functions.
In reality, it is not easy to meet the right person. But as long as we wait patiently, that person will always come, and we still have the strength to love.
Story Three:
The girl and her boyfriend went on a trip and decided to go to Xiamen together. Girls ask their boyfriends for advice, and boys always say yes.
Therefore, the woman made a lot of travel guides, saw the sea that her boyfriend liked, and ate snacks together.
They planned their next stop in Hangzhou, and the boyfriend said he wanted to go to the previous youth hostel. But before they could do it, they broke up.
The girl went to Hangzhou alone, and she found that she did not do the strategy, and when she was alone, she could also be surprised by a small adventure.
One person eats a good meal, one person visits the attraction, but in the process is soaked by the unexpected autumn rain.
At this time, she suddenly remembered the scene of her boyfriend putting an umbrella for herself to cover the rain.
She found that it turned out that it was not impossible to travel alone. In this way, the girl focused on the beauty of the scenery during the journey and unconsciously forgot the unpleasant things.
In fact, it is not difficult for a person to work hard, a person to wait quietly for the right person, and a person to travel in search of the beauty of life.
Gradually, you will find that what is happening in the moment is not so bad, it just takes time.
02
Life is hard, but it's good that you're sweet
Girls and boys have been online dating for a long time, and finally they are going to meet.
Many people tell girls that online dating is unreliable, saying that online dating is "seeing the light and dying" and the like.
But the girl didn't particularly care, she believed that he had been interacting with her online.
The night before the meeting, the girl and the boy talked on the phone for the night.
The boy applied to his superiors for a job transfer for the girl, and mentioned the girl to his mother, who expressed her liking for the woman.
The boy said that when the girl graduated, she would go to her house and ask her parents to give the rest of her life to herself. They also agreed to keep a cat together and live a happy life.
Their love began with an online relationship, the girl thought the little brother was cute, but it was the boy who opened his mouth first.
In order to meet the boys, the girls ran to Beijing alone.
Many people are surprised that girls who have never been out of the house will run to Beijing alone.
After the two met, the boy bought the girl a sugar gourd and a pink dress.
When girls come to menstruation, boys will remind women not to get cold; when eating shrimp, they will also peel shrimp for girls.
It can be said that in the whole relationship, the boy gave the girl the sense of security she wanted.
The boys were soldiers and couldn't come back a few times a year.
So they cherished the opportunity to be together and decided that when the boy came home again, they would get married.
Ah Hao is a new colleague and one of the girls' suitors. However, Ah Hao was rejected by the girl.
The girl has a bad stomach, and every morning Ah Hao waits for her under the girl's building and pulls her to breakfast.
In the girl's circle of friends, Ah Hao will also like it every time and comment on every Weibo of her.
One day, he went to the girl with a big book and a CD and told her that he had written all the words she had sent in the circle of friends that she had not said before, and listened to the radio station that the girl liked.
The girl was very touched and felt that the person opposite was the person she would be together for the rest of her life.
It's not that a girl can't love people, she just doesn't wait for someone worthy of her love.
Online communication is not necessarily unreliable, and sometimes there may be in-depth communication, which in turn leads to a surface base.
A person may not necessarily love others, but may only need to open the heart lock and let others know themselves and others at the same time.
03
Neither the world nor me, you have not missed it
Giving up is a very simple thing, you can sleep in the morning until you wake up naturally, you can not have to pretend how strong you are.
But even if life is full of uncertainty, we must grit our teeth and try it; even if life always gives itself a hard blow when it gives hope, we must not accept defeat and stumble forward.
At the age of twenty-two, I lost my first job; at twenty-five, I was still single; I came home from work alone, walked alone in the city at night, and nestled at home alone on weekends, still expecting that there would be a light that would be lit for myself.
In the past, I never looked at the price tags of goods, but now I can always recognize specials from a bunch of goods, and I have begun to know that bagged instant noodles are two pieces cheaper than those in barrels.
Now when I see someone I like, my first reaction is whether I deserve him or not.
I used to skip meals in order to stay in shape, but now I can't eat to eat for the sake of life; I refuse the invitation of friends because the last week at the end of the month may only be spent eating instant noodles.
But no matter how long the night is, I also believe that the sky will be bright.
Because, there is no tomorrow that cannot be reached.
A girl came to Beijing alone to work hard, and there was no one to speak. But compared to this, feeling powerless for the future is what I am most afraid of.
Why should a girl work so hard? Probably because you can buy what you like; your parents are sick and you can afford to pay for medical expenses; in the face of the person you like, you can tell him that you can live well alone, and don't worry about not being worthy of him. I believe that man will grow up, that the night will pass, and that the light will shine in.
When a person is away, he always thinks of his family's daily care for him.
For example, although I love to nag, every time I help clean up, I have to blame myself for being lazy; for example, there is no day when I don't urge myself to find a partner; for example, I often send some inexplicable articles, telling myself what I can't eat, which brand of clothes is wrong.
However, there is a lot of concern and heartache between the words.
When you think of this, you will always be inexplicably sad, but as long as you think of a promising future, you will feel that everything is not a problem now.
Before dawn, there will always be a dark and unknown time. Don't forget to show your love to the people around you, they are the people who love you the most in the world.
Life is like a reverse journey, you and I are pedestrians. Everyone has different troubles at different stages of life. These troubles don't have to be suppressed, they deserve to be heard, they deserve to be seen.
Maybe you see your own shadow in the story, or maybe you just listened to some stories.
If you like to listen to more stories, flip through the book, you may gain more.
Hopefully, every seriousness will be rewarded.
Author: Xuan Tong, a member of the Intensive Reading Friends Association. It is a free soul.
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