What are the criteria for a woman's safety?
Is it the daily routine of the husband and son at home? Are you content with the status quo at work? Or is it that every day you are facing the sky, simply dressed and drowning in the crowd and can't find a figure?
It is said that women are too peaceful and easy to lose themselves.
So, is a woman who is always bound by peace really happy?
Now let's talk about how to be a "restless" woman who not only makes love sweet, has a successful career, and knows how to enjoy life?
01.
"Restless" love is more fresh
A Q&A seen on the Internet describes it this way: When the boyfriend is pursuing, no matter how unreasonable she is, the boyfriend patiently reassures her until she is happy. So, after six months of dating, she agreed to be her girlfriend. However, the boyfriend is no longer as attentive to her as before, and when she loses her temper, she is only perfunctory.
It is answered like this: lovers to maintain a sense of freshness for decades or a lifetime forever, the possibility is not very large, in the love period, can be maintained for about three or five years.
Seeing such an answer, I think most people should agree with this view, right?
Nietzsche once said, "You might as well take a risk with life, because eventually you have to lose it." ”
So, we have to boldly change it, it is able to maintain a sense of freshness for ten years or even a lifetime.
First, you have to change your previous life.
For example, in the environment in which you live, occasionally add some trinkets to your home to stimulate your eyeballs.
Occasionally, take time to go to the movie together and talk about the movie topic.
Occasionally buy a loved one something the other person likes, and so on for small changes like that.
Secondly, when the other party is happiest or saddest, you must wait for the other party to share it at the first time.
No matter how sweet the love between the two is, knowing how to wait with your heart is the best way to get along.
Finally, "restless" women should know how to please themselves and be true to their hearts.
As the saying goes: "Men determine the quality of life, women determine the height of life".
Only "restless" women know how to create romance and keep their love fresh at any time.
02.
A "restless" career helps to improve the quality of life.
Everyone should have an impression of the 21-year-old one-legged girl Xia Ou's hot search!
Xia Ou, who was born in the countryside, lost her left leg in a childhood accident and never went to college, when she was 16 years old, she went out to Luoyang to work. Because of the physical disability, the first salary is only more than 200 yuan.
However, she did not slacken off because of this, and worked harder, working part-time for 4 jobs in one go.
Heaven has always been a person who cares about hard work, and she uses her accumulated work experience to summarize her own set of business philosophy. Five years later, she set up a 50-person self-media and children's education team.
Xia Ou used the money she earned to buy a house for her parents in the city and let the second old man raise him for a long time. And her own suitors around her are also endless, she is not proud of this, once said such a wonderful sentence is: "Now I have not reached the age of starting a family in my heart, more I want them to learn from me the perseverance of the pursuit of life."
It is precisely because of this restlessness that she is inspired to innovate and change the so-called "impossible". If she gives up on herself and settles into the status quo, she can only be submerged in the sea of people who can no longer be ordinary.
I once saw such an inspirational saying: believe in yourself, be kind to yourself, and make your life wonderful.
Therefore, women with "restless" careers know how to be independent and provide a better quality of life for their families and themselves.
03.
The "restless" life is colorful.
Women who live "restlessly" must know how to enjoy life, dress fashionably, and live a colorful life.
Women wear fashion has nothing to do with age, has nothing to do with brand, as long as it is matched with interests, how fashion comes.
Zhang Xiaohui, a 58-year-old celebrity, has delicate and smooth skin, almost no wrinkles on her face, and her complexion is super good, and she is more attractive than her peers.
From young to middle-aged, she has a peach-like plump figure for a long time, and in middle age, not only can not see the old state at all, but also looks more and more plump, making her look full of luxury.
She never perfunctory every detail of her outfit, which can be seen from her every appearance, conveying women's charm and confidence at any time. A woman who lives a restless life will not give up any opportunity to dress herself because of trivialities, and she will not give up her enthusiasm and yearning for the pursuit of life.
A woman's beauty is needed at all times.
A woman's outfit, as long as she appears, can already see your pursuit and positioning of beauty.
Inadvertently, the "restless" woman reveals the intelligence and beauty of the woman.
There is such an inspirational saying: dress yourself up gracefully and calmly every day, and bring yourself a different smile.
epilogue
Although we do not know the length of our own lives, we can expand its width; although we cannot influence others, we can certainly determine our own lives; although we cannot predict the future, we must grasp the present; although we cannot do everything smoothly, we must do our best to change.