The animated movie "Mamma Mia Duck" with a Douban score of 8.4 points, in addition to inspirational and touching, this drama also has a very important practical educational significance.
From this play, many parents and children can find their own shadow.
This article will analyze this film from the perspective of how the protagonist Dapeng pursues freedom, experiences a series of difficulties through the adventurous journey, encounters all kinds of companions, and thus understands what is the sense of responsibility and what is the team spirit, and hopes that everyone will gain something after watching it!
Introduction: In the process of migrating to the south, Dapeng, who has great flying skills, is unwilling to stick to stereotypes, always wants to change the way of flying, does not obey the command of the leading geese, and has an accident when playing with his girlfriend Jin Jing.
Then he broke away from the team and walked with the two little ducks who were also single along the way.
After several fights with big wild cats, bumping on the truck with the pigs, going to the roast duck shop to save the little ducks, being almost crippled by a half-hanging doctor squirrel...
In this process, Dapeng learned responsibility and patience, and also knew the importance of the collective, and finally with the help of Jin Jing, returned to the geese and took the ducks and Jin Jing to establish a happy little family.
"Mamma Mia Duck" | the inspiration parents can get from it:
Dapeng newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, he has never encountered danger in the team, eating and drinking every day, playing and having fun, and being naughty with other geese, so he feels that the days are too monotonous, and the leader of the team has repeatedly warned that it simply cannot listen to it.
At first, he didn't want to break away from the collective, he just wondered why free flight had to be bound by rules: for example, "Why do you want to line up in human form, can't you arrange five rings?" ”
His thoughts are like a lot of children, there are always countless whys? If the adult doesn't let him try it, he will think, "Why should I obey?" ”
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >, the child is an individual with independent thoughts, moderately let go of the hand</h1>
There are some things they don't try themselves, they will question the parents' practices, and they will question the various rules made by the parents.
So as parents, we are often very contradictory: we want to make children creative and have a rich imagination, but we don't want them to suffer losses, how to do it?
1. Allow children to have a certain degree of risk-taking behavior
Dapeng tried to know that the circle, the double shape and the five rings would make the flight of the team chaotic.
On the journey afterwards, through his own efforts, he helped the little duck to break away from the claws of the big wild cat again and again, and for the first time he had a sense of responsibility, which he had never experienced in the well-behaved team, and he had been protected too well before.
If our children are always cared for by us in the palm of our hands, we stipulate for him every day, let him do what, there can be no deviation, and even the children's interests and hobbies are consciously guided by him to choose according to the preferences of parents, how can we expect our children to become Edison and Fabre?
The spirit of adventure is his tentacles to explore the mysteries of this world, not to lock the tentacles in a wind-and-rain glass bottle.
There is a saying in "Rushing into the Clouds": Because human beings have the spirit of adventure, they are not willing to walk on the ground and fly to the sky.
2, let the child know: risk is not the same as reckless, to consider their own conditions
Dapeng really suffered some hardships during his adventurous journey, because of his arrogance, he broke his wings.
The consequence of his inability to fly is that before winter comes, if he can't reach his destination, there is only one end.
In the previous stage, there was news that a pair of brothers and sisters imitated characters in the game jumped down from the stairs, resulting in a 13-year-old brother breaking his leg and a 9-year-old sister with several fractures all over his body.
Risk-taking is not unrealistic and reckless, you must consider your own endurance, otherwise the consequences are very serious.
3, tell the child: in an unfamiliar environment, do not easily trust others
Dapeng is rescued by the squirrel Kaka on the edge of the cliff, kaka claims to be a doctor, but his unreliable "four-part therapy" almost prevents Dapeng from seeing the sun the next day.
Fortunately, dapeng had a great life, and finally flapped his wings and flew up in the face of a desperate situation.
When I saw this, I seriously doubted that Dapeng's wings should have been able to fly long ago, but they had not been pushed to the extreme, and they could not overcome the fear in their hearts.
So tell your child that in an unfamiliar environment, it is best not to trust others easily.
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In "Mamma Mia Duck", although Dapeng hangs Er Lang Dang, he also has his own good friend - turtle Lao Rui.
Lao Rui knows Dapeng very well, and when he learned that Dapeng wanted to migrate alone, he said something to Dapeng like this: "Brother, if you always treat life as a game, in the end, you will find that you are only left alone."
Dapeng said: "Yes, because there is only one champion". He forgot that the geese must have team spirit and not leave the flock of geese in order to successfully complete the migration.
Lao Rui heard Dapeng's words and said in a serious tone, "No, I mean, you will miss many people, people who love you, people who care about you, lovers and relatives."
But unfortunately, Dapeng did not listen to his friends.
1. Are friends important?
Helen Keller said that walking side by side with friends in the dark is better than walking alone in the light.
The relationship between Dapeng and the two little ducks in "Mamma Mia Duck" is actually not father and son and father and daughter, they are more like friends.
They experienced initial mutual disbelief, supported each other in subsequent adventures, suffered together, and their feelings were more like friendship.
From the roast duck shop Dapeng desperately rescued the ducklings, the little ducks joined forces to send the big wild cat to the sky with fireworks, and finally with the support of the ducklings, Dapeng flew up...
This is clearly the friendship of suffering between friends!
It is precisely because of having friends that Dapeng is more eager to return to home and finally return to the collective.
2. Educate children to learn to choose friends and distinguish between good friends and bad friends
"My Friends Are Few" says: It doesn't matter if you can't make 100 friends, as long as you make a friend who is more important than 100 friends.
There are two comic cranes in "Mamma Mia Duck": BaoRong and Yao Gray.
When Dapeng was still in the flock of geese, he occasionally quarreled with these two cranes, looking like a good buddy.
And when Dapeng's wings were folded and he couldn't fly, the two cranes ignored Dapeng's pleas, sneered at him for a while, and then patted their butts and flew away.
Not even a single message is delivered.
If they passed on the news of Dapeng's injury to Jin Jing or other geese, Dapeng would not suffer so much.
Therefore, the more friends are not the better, sincerely for your own good, can help you through difficulties, and work hard with you to improve is a good friend.
Tell your child to polish their eyes, not all friends can be devoted, learn to choose, learn to choose.
3, have good friends, have a collective, there is a better future
Ostrovsky said: Remember that it is the collective that educates you. If one day you are separated from the collective, you are the beginning of the end.
This saying is well reflected in "Mamma Mia Duck": many of Dapeng's skills are learned in the group.
For example, in a dark cave, when encountering a fork in the road, it is necessary to judge where the exit is according to the direction of the wind flowing in, which is of great use at the critical time.
We have been inseparable from the collective since kindergarten, and we have learned different skills in each different group.
Even if we grow up, we still have not left the collective, we still have to abide by a lot of rules, if we pursue freedom too much, pursue ourselves, completely detach from the collective, out of society, it will be a big problem.
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The reason why dapeng and the ducklings in "Mamma Mia Duck" still insist on hurrying even though they are all scaly and bruised: they all have a common belief - to go home!
In order to go home, they could endure all the difficulties, in the gloomy caves, on the waterfalls that flowed down, on the high mountains of the ice and snow, they headed in the direction of home, and went all the way forward and then forward.
I have two friends whose children are the same age, one is called Mu Mu and the other is called Duoduo. From childhood interest classes, they also went together.
From the age of six, the two children went to learn dance together, and after half a year, Mu Mu gave up, dead or alive, saying that he was too tired. And Duo Duo kept learning.
Mu Mu went to learn Chinese painting again, but also insisted on giving up for half a year, and later there was taekwondo, piano, calligraphy...
But they didn't stick to it, and the tenth grade of DuoDuo Dance had already passed, and now he was admitted to a very good art school.
Mu Mu does not have the same specialty of showing his hand.
Persistence and abandonment are just a thought, and many times the grit of the teeth will pass.
Firm in faith, running towards the goal, there will always be a day to reach the destination!
| concluding summary:
"Mamma Mia Duck" tells us that in the process of growing up, children are allowed to make mistakes, take appropriate risks, and experience the wind and rain, and they will better understand the true meaning of life. This film can be watched by parents and children together, there will be different harvests and insights, and many of the language styles of the characters in the play can also bring different joys.
The writing of this article is also from the perspective of parents, get a lot of experience: the growth of children always requires us to spend more effort, both to protect their personality but also to guide their general direction of life in time, on the road of parenting we go all the way!