Author | Wang Manman, Li Yu
One is stationed in Guangzhou, Yangcheng, and the other is rooted in Liaoning, northeast China; she is a technician at a brigade station of the Air Force in the southern theater, and he is a company instructor at a certain training base of the Air Force. The distance of thousands of miles cannot prevent the two hearts from getting closer; the kindness of each other involves the two people running toward each other. This love, which has not been defeated by distance, is more firm and sweet in the eyes of comrades-in-arms.
The love between Li Deping and Qian Song spans most of China. From love to marriage, their good news is one after another, just at the end of June this year, the crystallization of the two love "small numbers" was born. Their circle of friends was quickly dominated by this milky little doll. A series of records, one like after another, and a string of blessings outline the happiness of this warm family of three.
Thousands of miles of marriage are involved
No one could have imagined that two people who could not be hit by eight rods would come together by coincidence. Li Deping grew up living in the southern country, never thought that he would travel thousands of miles, and had a distant cross-war zone love. But it all just happened miraculously.
The encounter between "Tiannan" and "Dibei" begins with a goodwill. In the fall of 2015, both were active on a forum of the air force political work network at the time, and at the same time followed a post about the "Western Education Assistance Program".
After learning more about the situation, Li Deping was moved in his heart and immediately applied. In this program, the school provides information on poor students, and those who join the program can choose their own funding targets, usually two or three people pair up to jointly fund a student.
At the thought of a thought, fate is intertwined. Li Deping and Qian Song successfully paired up, exchanged contact information with each other, and jointly funded Xiaoshu (pseudonym), a student at a high school in Yunnan. Because of the small tree, the two had an endless topic to talk about.
When dealing with things, they often hit it off, and they have a feeling of déjà vu, mutual acquaintance and hatred. Gradually, they began to have exchanges outside of school aid, and when they talked about the day, they often did not realize it, and the topic continued and did not stop until they had to turn in their mobile phones.
You come and go, Li Deping's kindness impressed Qian Song; Qian Song's sincerity and sense of responsibility gave Li Deping a down-to-earth and reassuring mind. However, before the seeds of love broke the ground, no one said anything broken.
Love that spans thousands of kilometers makes people a little afraid to think. The chat was close, it seemed close at hand; but the mobile phone was handed over, and the graben was in front of you. Missing each other at night, Li Deping would gently lift the curtains, look at the bright moon and mutter, wondering if Qian Song was also sending love in the moonlight.
"If I had known her thoughts, I would have attacked earlier!" Looking back now, Qian Song was full of smiles, and there was some regret that he was late in acting, "At that time, there was more than enough feelings and lack of courage!" ”
Later, through his own efforts, Qian Song successfully passed the examination and improved his work, and the military school he attended happened to be in Guangzhou. All the way south, thousands of miles away from home, there is no trace of strangeness and worry, only full of joy and expectation.
Learning of Qian Song's arrival, Li Deping was quietly excited and did not dare to think more, after all, the reality was in front of him: after graduation, he still had to return to Liaoning, and the two would return to the bridge, the road back to the road, and it would be difficult to see each other. Thinking about this, the two warm people were each sad, so they did not meet for the first time.
"I desperately want to meet because of a box of lychees." Qian Song recalled that he was still at school at the time, and he received a box of lychees sent by her on vacation, and he tossed and turned all night! There was only one thought in my mind: to put aside all concerns and uncertainties to pursue her! He can't miss such a nice girl!
The persistent invitation finally impressed Li Deping. The first date was at the water park. Along the way, listening to Qian Song talk about his family situation, Li Deping vaguely guessed that his heart could not stop stealing joy, but more or less uneasy, after all, the distance was too far.
That day, Li Deping was thinly dressed, standing in the pavilion, and from time to time there were water droplets splashing in, and she couldn't help but shrink down. Qian Song walked silently to the outside of her and blocked the coolness for her. Suddenly, a thought popped into her head: his girlfriend would be very happy in the future.
Cross the mountains and seas to you
The first meeting, warm and unforgettable, but lasted a short time, suddenly interrupted. On the same day, Qian Song originally planned to take Li Deping to see a newly released movie, and there were some things he wanted to tell her, but he received a temporary notice and had to return to school early! At that moment, he looked at her fixedly, not knowing where to start, and could only reluctantly merge into the crowd.
On another date the next day, Qian Song was preparing to make up for the movie he hadn't had time to watch the previous day, only to receive a temporary notice to return to school! Once again interrupted in a moment of happiness, he first blushed and felt guilty.
Li Deping clearly remembered that when he was sent to take the subway that day, the man in front of him was grinding and rubbing and unwilling to go, until the time was almost short and he had to go. At this time, he suddenly blurted out the sentence, "Would you like to be my girlfriend?" ”
"Nature is willing." Looking back now, she smiled brightly.
Ordinary life will not miss each other, will miss each other, will harm lovesickness. Soon after the relationship was established, Qian Song returned to Liaoning after graduation, and the two separated the two places again, and since then began a journey of thousands of miles to each other.
LOVE
STORY
"After the relationship is determined, the idea changes, the distance is far away, I just want to seize every opportunity to meet him." 」 The first time she went north during her vacation, the journey took nearly 13 hours, and although the road ahead was long, her heart was filled with happiness when she set off.
"Hurry to the door, there is an emergency, run over!" Arrival was close to late afternoon with no prior notice. When he received a call from his girlfriend, Qian Song did not know it and turned around in the same place in a daze. After reacting, he ran wildly, only to see Li Deping's dusty servant, but he smiled particularly brightly in the sunset.
"How lucky am I?" Later, he recalled that picture countless times and couldn't help but sigh.
"No matter what the festival, he will prepare small surprises for me, and every time he sends them to him first, he will look at them first, carefully package them and then send them to me." Speaking of Qian Song, Li Deping is also full of happiness.
Long-distance love, can not be twilight, but the heart of the heart, but also sweet. Li Deping did not have to envy others, because Qian Song cared for her with all his heart and gave her a steady stream of "small luck". She has her own small emotions, and quarrels across time and space are inevitable, at this time, Qian Song often takes the initiative to "lose the battle" and apologizes to her, so that she will feel guilty about her sometimes unreasonable trouble.
From love to marriage, two families cannot be separated. Knowing that the two were in love, Li Deping's brother strongly opposed, "I have no objection to your love, but the other party is also a soldier, and he is still far away in Liaoning, so I asked you if you still want a home?" When the time comes, you are busy with your busyness, in case the elderly and children in the family have a headache and brain fever, can you take care of it? Li Deping was very firm: "There is something we can discuss, no matter how difficult it is, there will be a way to solve it." ”
In the end, it was Qian Song who "persuaded" his brother. In July 2019, Li Deping's mother accidentally fell and was hospitalized, and both brothers and sisters could not ask for leave due to work, and they were in a hurry to catch fire. It just so happened that Qian Song came to Guangzhou on vacation to visit, this time only seven days, and he had planned to go home to visit his parents after a short reunion. Knowing that Qian Song had not visited his home for a long time, Li Deping did not intend to tell him the news.
"Don't worry, I'm here." From nowhere, he learned about Li's mother's injury, asked the unit for an extra week's leave, and took care of her for half a month without any clothes. All this, Li Deping's brother looked in his eyes and admitted this brother-in-law from the bottom of his heart.
Love the country, love you love the military uniform
The love of two soldiers faces more tests, but because of similar experiences, they are more able to understand and support each other.
On weekdays, the burden on both of them is very heavy, because of the busy work, sometimes the time is staggered, and they cannot contact each other. As technicians at the station, Li Deping and his comrades-in-arms needed to take turns on duty 24 hours a day to ensure that communications were continuous and smooth; as a company instructor, Qian Song had to worry about the work and life of the officers and men of the entire company, often from early to dark.
One is the backbone of the non-commissioned officer, and the other is the company commander, with different positions and complementary roles. Sometimes Li Deping did not understand the work arrangement of the company, and Qian Song would help her analyze and relieve her from the perspective of the company commander; when Qian Song encountered the thorny problem of talking about education, she would substitute for the role of empathy and think, telling her lover the true thoughts of the soldiers.
Military love, often have a lot of accidents, dating temporary interruption, vacation plan for reasons to change, said good meeting temporary and have to be rescheduled... Even the goodbye is the case.
Li Deping still remembers his farewell in 2017. In the northeast of September, after nightfall, she was slightly cool, and she happened to have a cold. According to the past custom, Qian Song would go to the delivery station, but this time, due to an urgent task, she could not get out, so she had to wait alone. This time, an accident occurred – there was a problem with the ticket and it was impossible to board the plane on time.
Watching the flight take off, helpless, at this time the night is getting deeper and deeper, Li Deping is suddenly helpless, all she can think of is to call Qian Song at the first time, but dialed over and over again, and no one answered. Find your own hotel and wait for the next day's flight, when the feeling of loneliness becomes stronger and more intense, and you are suddenly sad.
At 11 o'clock in the evening, I finally waited for Qian Song's call back. Hearing the careful breathing sound on the other end of the phone, Li Deping's nose was sour and he almost cried. She knew that it was not easy for her lover, and she also heard his heartache and guilt, quickly adjusted her tone, turned to comfort, "You work with peace of mind, I can solve these small things, don't worry!" ”
"I will always stand on your left, because I know that your saluting right hand belongs to the motherland." In May 2019, the two officially registered for the certificate. Speaking of this sentence that everyone is familiar with, Li Deping and Qian Song especially resonate, and are extremely proud of such love and the lovers around them.
In 2019, when the two returned to the man's home to celebrate the birthday of Qian Song's grandmother after receiving the permit, they took a group photo with Qian Song's parents (front row).
The days after marriage are still busy, and gathering less and leaving more is still the norm. For a while, Li Deping was so busy that he was in the computer room almost all day, and at the end of the day, he often got the mobile phone and could only check the information in a hurry and shut down. The exchange between the couple is always delayed, and qian Song sends the word "refuel" the most, and these two words sweep away Li Deping's fatigue again and again.
After that busy time, the two of them rarely talked for a long time as usual. In that chat, Li Deping cried and laughed: Qian Song was ecstatic for a while, he was aggrieved to tell his thoughts, and the next moment he said that he was sad and she was proud of her... It turns out that the husband is so cute, and every joy, worry and contradiction is because of her.
Military love is not easy, double military love is even more difficult. Seeing that they loved so hard, a comrade-in-arms asked Li Deping, "Have you ever thought about retiring from the army?" If you had to choose between the two, would you continue to stay in the two places and separate or retire from the army to reunite with your lover and children? She said: "I thought about it, or I wanted to continue to be a soldier, I believe he will choose this way." I love him, he loves me, we love this uniform, we love this motherland. ”
Southern Theater Authority Release
Producer: Liang Qiying Tian Junli Editor: Jiang Boxi
Editor-in-Chief: Sun Bingxiang Responsible Editor: Zhang Shuqi
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