"What is love and not suffering?" Inside and outside the house, brothers and wives, love each other, a dynasty is broken, robbed for people, each separate, father east and son west, mother south and daughter north, not the only place, for the slave, each crying out, the heart is broken, there is no period of seeing each other. ”
"Le Mo Le Le Xi New Acquaintance, Sorrow Mo Mo Sadness And Separation", one of the seven kinds of suffering in life that the Buddhists say, one of which is love and separation from suffering. Involuntarily parting with the loved one, the situation forced to disperse with the closest person, life is only a few decades, can not stay with the wife, can not be reunited with the child, although still alive in this world, and the family who loves each other is the north of the world, never see each other, this experience is an unforgettable pain that no one can understand.
In 1948, the 48-year-old Yingqianli went to Taiwan because he received a notice, and thought that he would come back after a few months, but he did not know that it was twenty years after he went, and since then he has lost contact with his wife Cai Baozhen and the seven children in the family, and has been isolated from the information, and has never seen each other again in his lifetime.
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"Forgetting oneself is great, selflessness is public", in the Republic of China period, there was a newspaper with great influence and the longest founding time, that is, the "Ta Kung Pao". The "Ta Kung Pao" was upright and outspoken and opposed to Yuan Shikai's restoration of the imperial system, the change of the northeast in 1928, and Zhang Xueliang's telegram in the 1930 Central Plains War, which supported Chiang Kai-shek throughout the country, all of which were major news published exclusively by the "Ta Kung Pao."
The founder of the "Ta Kung Pao" is named Ying Huozhi, who was born in a Manchurian banner family, his original name was Hua, and there is a very famous historical story behind the origin of the British surname. Although Yu Yinghua was a Manchu, in his bones he was a staunch supporter of the idea of restoration, and often wrote articles such as "On The Rise of Prosperity must first eliminate the evils" to shake the banner for the change of the law. After the failure of the Penghu Reform Law, Yu Yinghua, as an important figure supporting the change of the Law, secretly absconded to overseas to avoid disaster in order to avoid being linked.
However, "Sai Weng lost his horse, and he knew that it was not a blessing", In order to curry favor with the foreigners, Empress Dowager Cixi specially pardoned a group of people who had changed the law, and Yu Yinghua happened to be included, but his surname was not written on the pardon list, only his name - Yinghua, And Empress Dowager Cixi seemed to have a very profound influence on the name of Yinghua, and also deliberately emphasized a sentence:
Forgive that Manchu Yinghua as well.
Because of Lafayette's words, Yu Yinghua simply changed to the Surname of Ying, and the entire family also changed its surname, starting from the Beginning of yingzhi, the Ying family was full of talents and became a famous family in the Republic of China period.
In his early years, although he was destitute, he was talented and entered the Ai Shin Kyora. Shu Zhong's family worked as a governess for her, Ai Xin Jue Luo was a Qing Dynasty royal family name, and with a long time together, love gradually occurred between the two people.
Love Shin Kyora. After Shuzhong married Ying, she had a son and a daughter, a son named Ying Qianli and a daughter named Ying Yin. Daughter Yingyin inherited her mother's beautiful genes, and under the influence of her father, full of enthusiasm for serving the country, she entered the star film company at the age of 20 and starred in movies such as "Sai Jinhua". After the outbreak of the Anti-Japanese War, Yingyin secretly engaged in anti-Japanese activities, and successfully assassinated 9 Japanese and traitors by pretending to be dancers to lure Japanese and puppet personnel to a secret location for execution. After her boyfriend, Hirazujin, was shot and killed by Riko, in order to avoid revealing secrets, 26-year-old Young-in committed suicide by taking medicine at a hotel.
Unlike his sister, Ying Qianli took another path of serving the country with literature, and after Ying Zhizhi withdrew from the Ta Kung Pao, he began to establish Fu Jen University, and after Ying Qianli returned from studying abroad, he founded a school with his father and devoted his life to education.
Born on November 11, 1900, he was born on November 11, 1900, and he was exiled overseas with his parents since he was born, and was influenced by the enlightened thoughts of his father Yingzhi from an early age.
In order to let his son broaden his horizons and become a great instrument in the future, when Ying Qianli was only 13 years old, YingZhi asked his good friend, the Catholic missionary from Belgium, Lei Mingyuan, to take his son to Europe to study, when Lei Mingyuan wanted to return to Europe to raise funds in order to organize the Catholic Chinese weekly newspaper "Guangyilu".
In the summer of 1913, Ying Qianli followed Lei Mingyuan to Europe, first in a French church school in the Netherlands, after the outbreak of The First World War, Ying Qianli moved to England with Lei Mingyuan's family, living with Father Lei Mingyuan's parents. Since childhood, he has lived with Europeans, learned to speak four Chinese, Britain, France, Spain, and the Netherlands, and speaks very authentically.
In 1924, at the age of 24, Inchiri graduated from the School of Economics of the University of London with the first place in the registration examination. Although he has been living in Europe for more than ten years, He has never wanted to stay abroad, and he will leave for China as soon as he graduates. As a high-achieving student who returned from overseas, Ying Qianli did not choose to be an executive of a multinational company or a diplomat, but chose to become a teacher who taught and educated people.
At that time, his father Ying Zhizheng and the Catholic educator Ma Xiangbo organized Fu Jen University, and Ying Qianli immediately threw himself into the cause of assisting his father in running the school, starting a long and simple teaching career.
Fu Jen University, named after the Analects of Yan Yuan:
"Gentlemen meet friends with literature, and assist benevolence with friends."
Gentlemen make friends with morality and rely on friends to help them cultivate benevolence. After the establishment of Fu Jen University in 1925, it became one of the four famous schools along with Tsinghua, Peking University and Yenching.
In 1926, at the age of 59, Ying Chiyuki died of illness a year after his ideals for running a school began, and his son Ying Qianli inherited his father's business as secretary general of Fu Jen University, head of the Department of Western Languages, and professor.
Inkari is knowledgeable and fluent in spoken English, recognized as the best english Chinese in the eyes of foreigners, not only has excellent professional quality, but also has a cheerful personality, always smiling, and is very popular among students. When Ying Qianli was in class, not only was the classroom full, but even the door and outside the window were crowded with students who came to observe, because the classroom could not accommodate it, so it was changed to the auditorium.
For the value of life, Ying Qianli believes in this philosophy:
"In the course of life, all he has to do is make people happy."
Ying Qianli is like a bee, with his full vitality and optimistic nature, to bring students a steady stream of happy honey, with an optimistic spirit imperceptibly infected students, for pleasure and sorrow, he said this sentence:
"A man who is always in a happy mood and whose face is always smiling is like a bee, making a sweet honey juice for people, making people's lives pleasant and comfortable, and welcoming everywhere; and a person who is melancholy in temperament, sad in his face, grumbling, picky, complaining about others, and being critical, is like a fly, spreading germs, creating troubles, making people disgusted everywhere, and will want to get rid of them quickly."
From its founding to its incorporation into Peking University in 1952, Fu Jen University has been running for a total of 27 years, leaving a strong mark in history. In 1956, Fu Jen University alumni in Taiwan called on their alma mater to reopen in Taiwan, and because of Fu Jen University's special contribution to history, the application was approved:
"With Furen's past contributions to academic culture and national righteousness, even if other institutions are not allowed to reopen in Taiwan, Furen shall be allowed to resume schools if requested."
In 1960, Fu Jen University reopened its enrollment in Taiwan and became one of the four famous universities in Taiwan, training more than 200,000 students. After going to Taiwan in 1948, Ying Qianli continued to teach at National Taiwan University and Fu Jen University.
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Ying Qianli's wife is named Cai Baozhen, Cai Baozhen was born into a famous family, his father Cai Rukai once served as the governor of Shandong, the Ying family and the Cai family are old friends, Ying Qianli and Cai Baozhen were set by their parents since childhood, although it is an arranged marriage, but Ying Qianli and Cai Baozhen's husband and wife life is very sweet and happy.
In order to match Ying Qianli, Cai Baozhen joined the Catholic Church from an early age, and then entered the Tianjin St. Joseph's Church Girls' School to study, learned English and French, in 1920, Ying Qianli returned to China and Cai Baozhen married, the educational environment is similar to the husband and wife, there are many common languages.
Cai Baozhen is also a talented girl who reads and writes, after Yinghuozhi founded Jingyi Girls' School, her 19-year-old daughter-in-law Cai Baozhen became the principal, and after liberation, Cai Baozhen also served as the director of the Beijing Children's Library.
Cai Baozhen gave birth to a total of 9 children to Ying Qianli, the eldest daughter Qixiang and the second son Ruo Jing died prematurely due to illness, and the remaining seven children were 5 sons and 2 daughters, in order of Ruoqin, Ruocheng, Ruocong, Ruocai, Ruozhi, Ruozhi, and Ruoxian, of which Ruocai and Ruoxian were daughters, and Ruozhi and Ruozhi were twin boys.
In 1935, when the twins were born, the Yingqianli couple also made it difficult to take what name for the child, perhaps they themselves did not expect to have so many children, the previous children were named with numbers, starting from the number seven, the eldest daughter name Qixiang, the eldest son name Batu, harmonic eight, the second son name nine years old, the third son Yingruocheng was born, with the "ten" not smooth, named "Shaoling", after the birth of the fourth son, named "Chenling".
After the twins were born, they could no longer think of a suitable name, and after hearing about it, Ying Qianli's friend Chen Yuan said that they could name them "Ruozhi" and "Ruozhi", because "Zhi" is a polysyllabic word, also pronounced Zhi, which embodies the meaning of twin brothers.
The names of the twin brothers were fixed, and Ying Qianli asked Chen Yuan to change the names of the children according to the "Ruo" character, the eldest son Batuu changed his name to "Ruoqin", the second son Jiuling changed his name to "Ruojing", the third son Shaoling changed his name to "Ruocheng", the fourth son Chenling changed his name to "Ruo Cong", and the second daughter changed her name to "Ruo Cai".
Ying Qianli, who also teaches English literature courses at Fu Jen University, Peking University and Normal University, can get a salary of 1,000 yuan a month at most, and when he comes back from class, he piles up the ocean on the table, and the children are lying on the table and playing.
Ying Qianli, who is generous, likes to help students save emergencies, Cai Baozhen also often sews cotton shoes and clothes for students, and friends advise Ying Qianli to plan for himself, but he said:
"Money is something that is not brought with life or taken with death, but only when it is used properly and used appropriately, is it valuable; otherwise, even if there are tens of millions of riches, what is the benefit?" I never plan for money, and I never spend it short. ”
After the outbreak of the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression, Ying Qianli, together with Shen Jianshi, dean of the College of Letters, and others set up an anti-Japanese underground organization, the "North China Literature Teaching Association", to send outstanding students to the rear. In 1941, the Japanese discovered the identities of Ying Qianli and Shen Jianshi, and Ying Qianli resolutely let Shen Jianshi escape, stayed behind, and was arrested and imprisoned.
In prison, Ying Qianli was tortured and refused to disclose the whereabouts of Shen Jianshi, and 3 months later Ying Qianli was released and returned home. In 1943, Ying Qianli was arrested again, and a list of personnel of the North China Cultural and Educational Association was found in his home, and more than 300 teachers and students of Fu Jen University were arrested.
In prison, Inchiri suffered a lot, and although he survived, he was left with a lifelong illness:
"During the interrogation, the Japanese army beat them with sticks, kicks, whips, cold water, pepper water, hanging their arms, burning them with fire chopsticks, splinting, electrocuting, putting them into the foreign dog herd to bite, finger nailing bamboo sticks, and so on. Professor Zhang Huai and Teacher Ying fainted many times due to torture."
The Japanese Military Justice Department sentenced Ying Qianli to death, but under the undercover operation of infiltrating the enemy, it was changed to life imprisonment, which was later reduced to 15 years in prison, and two years later Ying Qianli was released after the victory of the War of Resistance.
In 1948, Ying Qianli received a notice to go to Taiwan, thinking that he would be back in a few months, and only brought a briefcase before leaving, but he did not expect that this would be twenty years, until his death in 1969, and he never had the opportunity to see his family again.
After Ying Qianli left, Cai Baozhen was alone with 7 children, and his life was very difficult, relying on selling antiques for some living expenses, and borrowing money everywhere for the children to continue to study. In 1950, Cai Baozhen wrote a letter to ask Yingqianli to send a sum of money back, the whereabouts of the letter are unknown, and he has lost contact with Yingqianli since then.
During the special period, Cai Baozhen was considered a "French spy" because he knew French, could not live with his children, and was isolated in a small low room of only 7 square meters.
In Taiwan, Ying Qianli transferred his thoughts to the children of the neighbor's family, Ying Qianli bought a TV at home, the children liked to come and see, the neighbor was afraid of disturbing him, so he said to the children:
"Mr. Ying wants to write, he wants to read, Mr. Ying is not in good health, he should be quiet, and everyone should not be noisy here."
Inchiri replied:
"It's okay! I eat, sleep, read books, let them watch, and the kids watch TV very well. ”
Ying Qianli also accepted a little girl named Han Gongchen as a righteous daughter, and when he was sick in his later years, Han Gongchen often accompanied him to take care of him.
Because of the sequelae left by being tortured in the Japanese military prison, Ying Qianli was tormented by stomach disease in his later years, and it was only after major surgery that he got better, and in 1969, Ying Qianli died of lung cancer in Taipei. Ten years later, Yingruocheng's son Yingruocheng visited the United States and learned the bad news that his father had died ten years earlier from Bai Xianyong, a student of Yingqianli.