Some time ago, the youngest brother in the husband's big family, the sixth sister-in-law, because she lived in her hometown, did things sharply, could speak the Tao, and understood the process of rural dating, and was the first to be selected by her aunt as the main force for welcoming relatives and hospitality!
My sister-in-law was only asked to make a few people to appear at that time. It is a shame to say that as a sister-in-law, for so many years, because she is not familiar with the marriage and funeral process, she is always treated gently by them when she encounters this kind of thing!
As a result, the sixth sister-in-law was busy for a day, tired, and the next day she felt abdominal discomfort, people were particularly tired, thinking that a rest would ease, but the bloating was even worse!
Call me, let her come to the hospital for examination, do a color ultrasound, and find a huge tumor in the abdomen, the maximum diameter is about eighteen centimeters, and the blood flow is particularly rich!
Hurriedly and non-stop to get her hospitalized, and then there was a second abdominal blood test and CT enhancement.
Hospitalized on Tuesday, scheduled for surgery on Friday, in this long period of waiting for years, the sixth sister-in-law only did a few things: crying, not sleeping or eating, pulling me and constantly asking whether it was malignant or benign.
Tell her that from the analysis of laboratory results and CT performance, benign is more likely. But she was so caught up in the fire that she couldn't hear a word, that is, she switched back and forth between crying and constantly asking, three nights and days, not sleeping for a minute.
One will cry, one will see the child, one will make her husband swear that if she marries again, she will not treat the child badly!
I did everything in my power to persuade her, you said that considering benign may be big, she said you coaxed her; you said that the pathology was finally diagnosed, she said that it must be malignant, finished, can not get off the operating table, what should the child do? Still so small.
In order to soothe her emotions, I spent the day off work with her, and I was sweating from her crying and neurotic circular questioning!
No way, the night before the operation, she was given a stable sleep!
I understand her in this state, because she is not the first person I have ever met!
My father-in-law was emphysema and heart failure slowly moving toward death, and the torture caused by that process to patients and families can only be experienced by those who have experienced it.
The father-in-law knew very well that life was counting down, and the fear of death made him helpless, and from time to time he was irritable and irritable, and his relationship with the people around him was extremely tense.
I went back to see him after work, and his eyes were full of desire to survive, making me feel very incompetent! His mother-in-law waited for him to stay in bed for two years, and he was already exhausted!
I have been talking to my husband that I must not leave anyone in front of him, make sure that he can be accompanied by someone in the last moments, and minimize his fears.
But people are not as good as the sky, the last ten days of my father-in-law's life, I suffered from severe pneumonia, my husband managed two children and work is already embarrassing, I basically rely on the care of Corey colleagues, infusions in their own departments, burned to almost coma every day, and also chest tightness and asthma, indirectly experienced the pain of the father-in-law.
When I was slightly better a week later, when I was alone at home, my husband hurriedly drove back to visit my father-in-law, and when he rushed home, my father-in-law had already gone, and no one was there at that time, and my mother-in-law went to the yard to boil water.
The tears in my father-in-law's eyes when he died, I don't know if it was because of fear or because no one around me felt desolate, this scene made my husband unable to let go for a long time!
Only when people face life and death can they truly know what is most important!
Finally survived to the operating room, the sixth sister-in-law had a mental breakdown to the brink, crying and crying that I or my husband had to accompany her. My husband often had surgeries and was familiar with the operating room environment, so he accompanied her in.
As soon as the abdominal probe was opened, the doctor had a general bottom in his heart, and he was more optimistic, saying that the most inclined was the giant broad ligament fibroids, but because it was too big, a little degenerative, and the performance was not typical.
After less than half an hour, the tumor body was removed, the rapid pathology also came out, supporting fibroids, my husband quickly sent the results to the sixth brother, and the tears of the six brothers who had suffered a lot in the past few days "wow" flowed out!
In fact, before the operation, my husband and I were already very relaxed psychologically, because the indicators showed that they still tended to be benign!
But for the patient's family, without getting the final pathological result, it will not be completely relaxed!
When the sixth sister-in-law does not face life and death, she feels that life is so annoying and trivial.
The child's learning is not good enough, the husband's big pig's hoof, the mother-in-law all day Rory Bar, she trains the child every day to train the husband, and the mother-in-law fights like a black-eyed chicken, persuade her not to listen to it!
And what she said about children not learning well enough makes you feel a little Versailles, children are ranked second in the class, what else do you want?
What else would she want? She also wants to be the first, but she is the only one!
Sick this time, she suddenly found that trivial life is so real and beautiful! The big pig's trotters at home have no heart and no lungs, and it turns out that crying is so good-looking [laughs]!
Therefore, sometimes it is not necessarily all bad to be sick!
The day after the operation, I went to see her and was back to my old state of mind! It is already looking at the mountain or the mountain, and the water is also water!
She shook my arm and said shyly: Oh, throw away the dead, don't wear anything, let the big uncle see (referring to my husband)!
I laughed: Then I don't care, anyway, your white flesh, who looks at who is stained!
The reality is that it's covered with sterility sheets, but I won't tell you the truth. These days you cry my brain shell hurts, the words have been said eight baskets, speaking of mouth pain, do not retaliate against you, how to be worthy of myself [laughs]!
Because of my work environment, many things have long been opened. For example, children's learning problems, mother-in-law relationship problems and so on!
There is only one question for me, and that is when life comes to an end: Have I ever been loved in my life? Have I ever loved someone else deeply?
If not, I will feel that the human world is not worth it, cross the Nai Ho Bridge and not drink Meng Po soup, and refuse the next reincarnation!
