Li Shi once bluntly commented that Zhu Dan's marriage was too humble!
The reason was that when Zhu Dan was pregnant, Monday Wei, who had not cooked for eight hundred years, cooked a bowl of chaos for her, which moved her to tears, and she took a picture of her camera on the spot as a treasure.
In everyone's opinion, this is a normal thing, but it has become an incredible and surprising thing in Zhu Dan's mouth. Li Shi, who was present, quipped: "We are also well-known hosts for so many years, can we compare with good people, why do we have to compare with those bad ones?" ”
Zhu Dan replied with an embarrassed face: Are you going to break my happiness now?
In fact, in this dialogue, it is not difficult to see that in marriage, Zhu Dan seems to be playing a one-man show, and in her eyes, her husband is radiant, a beam of light that she looks up to, but she is humble like dust. In the family, she mainly focuses on Monday Wai, and often mentions Monday Wai show love on variety shows, often she is full of joy to send the dynamics of the two, but she has not received a response from Zhou Wei, and when the reporter interviews Zhou Wei's evaluation of Zhu Dan, he is also sloppy and full of indifference.
In fact, looking back at Zhu Dan's growth experience, I know that humility is not a misunderstanding of her, but something that goes deep into her bones, which also starts from Zhu Dan's original family.
In 1981, in a village called Huang Tianhua in Jinhua, Zhejiang Province, a lovely girl was born, she was Zhu Dan - formerly known as Zhu Donghua, Zhu Dan's grandfather was extremely happy to learn that the family was added, and immediately thought about giving the baby granddaughter a loud name, and the meaning of Zhu Donghua was to let Zhu Dan be a flower of Dongyang.
Zhu Dan's childhood was raised in the fields, and although his family was not well-off, he also lived a carefree life. However, when Zhu Dan was 7 years old, his father was diagnosed with lung disease, and in order to treat his father, he emptied the family foundation, but he still failed to keep his father, and his father eventually died of ineffective treatment.
Father died, leaving her and her mother to rely on each other, at this time Zhu Dan has no concept of the word death, only knows that he returned home, but his father is gone, with the passage of time, Zhu Dan's impression of his father is more and more blurred, perhaps only when sweeping the grave can evoke a few memories.
Since the death of their father, the life of the mother and daughter has become more difficult, and in order to treat their father's illness, the family has not only spent all its savings, but also had to pay off debts. Such a burden undoubtedly falls on the shoulders of the mother.
In order to make a living, her mother had to take her out to work, doing odd jobs for 15 yuan a month, her mother worked three shifts in the textile factory, she played in the factory, tired of sleeping on the cotton pile, the mother and daughter lived in an abandoned hut in the factory, although the environment was dirty and messy, but because they did not have to pay rent, the mother and daughter still felt very happy, Zhu Dan looked at the hard mother, she also became more and more sensible, picked up cheap vegetable leaves, wore torn clothes, in school, and did not suffer from the cold eyes and ridicule of her classmates.
People around them saw that the mother and daughter had too much to live, and they all advised the mother to pass on her daughter to others. The mother did not agree: "I have to take her with me when I beg for food." "The mother's tenacity also greatly affected Zhu Dan, and every time Zhu Dan was bullied, she would think: her mother has not given up, how can she be easily defeated."
The changes in childhood have changed Zhu Dan's psychology, which is a kind of maturity beyond age. In order not to add a burden to his overly hard mother, Zhu Dan never took the initiative to ask his mother for anything, and he often suffered in silence if he had any grievances or difficulties.
Zhu Dan laughed at himself for his ugly toes, why? It turned out that on her 8th birthday, her grandmother made her a new pair of shoes, she was at the age of growing a body, and her feet grew quickly after a few months of shoes before she wore squeezed feet, in order to reduce the burden on her mother, she forced her feet into inappropriate small shoes, until the feet changed shape before she dared to talk to her mother.
When Zhu Dan was 9 years old, her mother fell in love with a colleague in the factory, formed a reorganized family, and had an additional stepmother, although the family became complete, but the economy did not get much improvement, and the lives of the four people became more restrictive.
Although she regained a complete family, her stepfather was also good to herself, but Zhu Dan always felt very restrained and restrained in her heart, and from a young age, Zhu Dan also learned to observe the color of speech, and she still lived carefully every day, she was afraid that she would do something wrong, afraid that she would behave badly, and her stepfather would not like her and would drive her out of the house, afraid that this short-lived warmth would turn into a bubble.
No matter how carefully hidden, this uneasiness was detected by the stepfather, so every time he went out, he often used a bicycle to carry four people out. Zhu Dan and his sister sat on the front bar, and his mother sat in the back. As long as the younger sister has Zhu Dan, the sense of being protected by her father makes Zhu Dan feel that her stepfather can support herself and her mother.
Zhu Dan had excellent grades when he was in school, but he was not liked by his teachers. Zhu Dan recalled that when he was in elementary school, he served as a representative of the Chinese class, and he needed to send homework to the teacher every day, because it was too cold in the cold winter, and he was very thinly dressed, so Zhu Dan was frozen and shivered, but who knew that Zhu Dan, who should have been distressed, was beaten by the teacher, and a slap knocked out one of Zhu Dan's baby teeth.
The stepfather was very angry when he learned about it and wanted to go to the school to find a teacher theory, but he was stopped by Zhu Dan, and looking at Zhu Dan's expression of swallowing his breath, the stepfather felt even more distressed about this inferior child.
From childhood to adulthood, Zhu Dan is very sensible, Zhu Dan has done the "most rebellious" thing is to take the pocket money he has saved, to Hangzhou to buy a beautiful dress, because to rise in the middle, the heart of beauty everyone has, Zhu Dan also wants to start a new journey with a new look.
Zhu Dan went to the big city for the first time from the countryside, it was this time that also paved the way for Zhu Dan in the future, which may be an arrangement in the dark, on the way home, she picked up an enrollment brochure of Zhejiang Media College, and when she saw that there was a "broadcast hosting" major, Zhu Dan, who had excellent results, was immediately moved, which laid the seeds for her application for Zhejiang Media College. Zhu Dan spurred himself every day, diligent and unremitting, and finally Zhu Dan finally passed the college entrance examination in 1999 and officially became a member of the broadcast class of Zhejiang Media College.
After going to college, she not only had to be busy with her studies, but also busy with earning living expenses through various part-time jobs. Other students' college life is free and comfortable, but they have to run for food and clothing, Zhu Dan realizes how big the economic gap with his classmates is, coupled with vanity psychology at work, Zhu Dan often avoids the crowd, never takes the initiative to communicate with others, and often escapes from collective activities.
Due to the huge gap in his heart, Zhu Dan, who was in adolescence, was even more inferior. But Zhu Dan never complained about her parents, and children without shoes had to learn to run on their own, but she was even more motivated.
Because the daily work is too distracting, Zhu Dan's professional results are not good, plus he has not received formal broadcast training before, Zhu Dan is imitating Hong Kong and Taiwan variety shows in broadcasting, and it is not a positive word.
So in the summer vacation of her sophomore year, although Zhu Dan submitted her resume to major radio stations, only Zhejiang Television accepted her as an intern for several months, and Zhu Dan was like grasping the straw of life, clutching it deadly. Zhu Dan worked diligently every day, presided over the process to achieve a good job, from the beginning of the business is not skilled to rarely make mistakes, becoming the loudest intern in her batch.
Due to Zhu Dan's outstanding performance during the summer vacation, when Zhu Dan graduated in 2003, he was thrown an olive branch by Zhejiang Satellite TV and became a regular employee. At this time, her love is also quietly sprouting in this place.
Zhu Dan and Lin Han
During his internship, Zhu Dan became acquainted with his first husband, Lin Han, a photographer in Taili, who was very concerned about Zhu Dan during the period, and Zhu Dan also saw it in his eyes. In the stable period of his career in 2005, Zhu Dan and Lin Han finally established a relationship, and Lin Han's careful care gradually made Zhu Dan, who was emotionally suffering from loss, feel a sense of security, and Zhu Dan married Lin Hanshan in less than six months after determining the relationship.
But the feelings come and go quickly, in 2007, Zhu Dan's career took a turn, she and Hua Shao partnered to host the singing competition program "I love to remember the lyrics" for a time popular all over the streets, Zhu Dan also became popular with a distinct hosting style, her name was slowly known by the people of the whole country, with the "I love to remember the lyrics", "China Dream Show" and other programs of the fire, let her become a sister of Zhejiang Taishi.
Zhu Dan and Hua Shao
Love and career can not be both, the gap between Zhu Dan and her ex-husband is becoming more and more obvious, due to the busyness of work, the two gather less and leave more, contradictions accumulate more and more, Lin Han has also felt a sense of crisis since then. In the end, the marriage lasted only two years and ended in divorce.
Zhu Dan, whose career was in full swing, did not indulge too much in the previous relationship and turned to work. In 2010, the media broke out that song Ke, a well-known musician, had chartered a bar in Beijing in order to give Zhu Danqingsheng. The two were photographed kissing passionately at the end of the party, and for a time they made headlines in major entertainment headlines, and all kinds of news rushed in, and the reporter's constant questioning also made Zhu Dan feel embarrassed, because the two people who were photographed were already in a state of breaking up.
Zhu Dan and Song Ke
Song Ke and Zhu Dan met in a variety show, Song Ke was attracted by Zhu Dan's tenacity, because the two had a 16-year-old age difference, Song Ke was very afraid that Zhu Dan would refuse, but unexpectedly Zhu Dan agreed, it may be that Song Ke gave Zhu Dan a sense of security, and soon the two began to fall in love. One in Beijing and one in Zhejiang, after all, did not overcome the problem of distance, the two broke up shortly after, and that time was photographed was also the last time the two met.
For various reasons, Zhu Dan jumped to Zhejiang's nemesis Hunan Satellite TV development, Zhejiang's sister to Hunan as if the water and soil are not satisfied, the program has not improved, and even in 2013 "China's Strongest Voice" and the audience interaction, accidentally said that the SMS number of Hunan Satellite TV became Zhejiang Satellite TV, because of accidental slip of the tongue, some people said that Hunan Satellite TV lost tens of millions, and some people said that the loss of tens of millions is a rumor, because it was recorded at the time, it is completely possible to reduce the clips, and the specific things may only be the most clear to the parties.
But not long after, Zhu Dan was pushed to the cusp of the storm because of a series of slips of the tongue, and gradually disappeared on the road of hosting, and soon after, Zhu Dan appeared in the public eye as an actor.
Zhu Dan and her husband and 2013 "Embroidery Spring Knife" acquaintance, when Zhu Dan was at the trough of his career, in the film and television industry is still a newcomer, there is a fight scene during filming, but because the shooting can only last 40 seconds, can not meet the requirements of shooting, despite very hard work, or can not achieve, Zhu Dan helplessly wiped tears in the corner.
Stills from "Embroidered Spring Knife"
At this time, Zhou Wei saw Zhu Dan's weak heart, and he stimulated an instinctive desire to protect, and then Zhou Wei helped her practice. Perhaps it is such a heart-warming move that Zhu Dan, who was "forced" to change careers in the trough period at the time, found a sense of security and a home, and in the same year, the two filmed "Gold Medal Partner" together, and the two became more tacit, and the feelings gradually warmed up, and in 2017, the two officially announced their marriage.
After marriage, Zhu Dan returned to the family, and only began to make a comeback after her daughter gradually grew up, but she did not expect that this time of comeback, it was another fire, and "sorry" became Zhu Dan's stem. In the fashion Cosmo festival, Zhu Dan continuously called the names of Zhou Bichang, Gulinaza and Di Li Reba wrong, a sentence di li hot mother, ugly pen chang, so that the emotional management of female stars was out of control, Zhu Dan apologized on the spot "sorry", but also made the scene once embarrassing. What a fool to be pregnant for three years!
A show "The Man Who Does Housework" pulled Zhu Dan back to the focus of public opinion, when the program mentioned how to deal with family conflicts, Zhu Dan revealed that Monday Wai likes the Cold War, and will not go to coax himself, calm for two hours before coming over to hug himself, Zhu Dan said that Monday Wei should get down in time when giving steps, otherwise he will be unhappy with a cold face.
Monday Wei and the female assistant had a scandal, the reason is that the two people look very close, drink milk tea also share a straw, netizens began to hug Zhu Dan unevenly, Zhu Dan stood up for the first time to maintain Zhou Wei, undertook all the insults, but did not see Monday Wei to speak.
Zhu Dan responded
In the eyes of others, Zhou Wei is really slightly indifferent, but Zhu Dan enjoys it, and in the show, Li Tian gave her a title of "Humble Dan", and she showed this kind of overtures and obedience to Zhou Wei, just like the lack of self-confidence in her bones, afraid of being abandoned.
Throughout Zhu Dan's emotional history, like comes from a sense of security, separation is also because of that sense of security, because of that sense of security, love has become very luxurious, very careful, it can be seen that the lack of security in childhood has a really deep impact on her, happy childhood heals a lifetime, sad childhood is used to heal childhood.
I hope that Zhu Dan can regain self-confidence, truly be himself, and enjoy happiness!