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The sixth sense, also known as "mental awareness," means receiving information through channels other than the normal senses, thereby predicting what is going to happen, and the popular understanding is intuition.
Although the sixth sense is in the category of "supersensory perception", from its literal interpretation, the sixth sense does exist, and most of the time it predicts that it does.
The sixth sense remains with us all the time, but because our own feelings are not deep, they are not easy to detect.
But once we find out, we have a premonition of what might happen next, allowing us to make our own decisions quickly.
Therefore, in love, it is particularly important to choose to believe in your sixth sense.
As we all know, love is about the emotional fusion between the two, and this is precisely a kind of sensory enjoyment, which belongs to the same sensory category as the sixth sense, although the two are not exactly the same, but there are also similarities.
When two people's emotions are at an impasse, the existence of a sixth sense can often become the basis for the decision-making of the person involved.
Xiao Lun and his girlfriend were originally high school classmates, the two people have been dating for more than 6 years, and they planned to enter marriage hand in hand next year, but for Xiao Lun, the girlfriend knows very little about him, and does not seem to care too much about himself, which can't help but make Xiao Lun feel that he should still go according to the original plan.
Between couples, it is indispensable to exchange gifts to enhance their feelings, and xiao Lun is the same for them.
If they were courtesy exchanges, perhaps Xiao Lun would not feel anything.
But the problem is that Xiao Lun will send some small gifts to his girlfriend almost every month, and on the other hand, in 6 years, he has only sent Xiao Lun the only birthday gift, which inevitably makes Xiao Lun feel unbalanced.
In addition to the gift thing, there are other things that make Xiao Lun gradually lose hope for this relationship.
For example, he said that he helped Xiao Lun order takeaway, but still did not know the company address where Xiao Lun had worked for three years; for example, every time Xiao Lun returned to his hometown on vacation, he originally said to his girlfriend to pick him up, but every time he said that he was too busy to do anything.
The various behaviors of the girlfriend made Xiao Lun feel that the other party did not care about him, and every time he gave him hope, he shredded it with his own hands again and again.
6 years of feelings, long-distance love, gathering less and leaving more, in fact, Xiao Lun himself knows in his heart that the final outcome of this relationship is headed, but he just does not want to believe it, after all, he has paid so much.
Life is like this, paying does not necessarily have gains, and in the feelings, it is even worse, instead of continuing to delay with a feeling of doubt and uneasiness, it is better to firmly believe in your sixth sense, start again, and meet your upcoming new love.
In the play "The Beginning of Love", the relationship path between Su Mian and Ellen has always been a big problem.
One pursues freedom and money, one pursues love and a green card.
Su Mian originally just wanted to get a green card, but later found that he wanted not only a green card, but also love.
So later when she and Ellen got married, she was so happy, but for Ellen, the two people just took what they needed.
Alan wants money, Su Mian wants a green card, and the marriage of the two people is just an ordinary transaction, and there is no excessive emotional entanglement.
If Su Mian could pull herself out in time when Ellen said what she thought about their marriage, perhaps the next series of things would not have happened and hurt herself so deeply.
In fact, at the beginning, when Ellen said what he thought, Su Mian should have realized that Alan could not change for her.
However, she just didn't want to believe in her sixth sense, and she still insisted on going her own way, believing that she could influence the other party, but in the end, she was just deceiving herself.
The plot of the play is not a true portrayal of our real life?
Some people, some things, how the final outcome will be, in fact, from the beginning, our own sixth sense has given us the corresponding information feedback, everything has long been conclusive, but we do not want to believe, which eventually led to a lot of time and energy wasted.
In love, emotion always comes first, reason comes last.
The maintenance of all love needs to rely on the existence of emotions and the feedback of emotional information.
Whether the emotional message we receive is good or bad, we should accept it calmly and always believe in our sixth sense.
Only in this way can we let ourselves have a beautiful love as soon as possible and let ourselves meet the right person.
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| Author: Shui Sanban, emotional writer, focusing on the true feelings of the world and telling the emotional life.