Author: Uncle Nanshan
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The famous writer Mr. Gu Long once had a classic saying: The person closest to you is often your enemy. Yes, the ancients cloud: "Grace is born of harm". This sentence, for example, is like a person who has done something wrong, someone gives him a stick to drink, so that he can't get off the stage, he feels that this is "harm", but in fact he has passed through the stick and drunk, and the cliff has been restrained, which is "grace born of harm". On the contrary, "small favors raise nobles, big favors raise enemies", appropriate favors can make people grateful, and long-term favors often breed hatred, resulting in the regret that "the closest person is often your enemy". After experiencing these 4 things in life, I really understood this truth.
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First thing: help your colleagues with everything.
When people live, they always have to work. At work, we will get to know such and such colleagues, some colleagues, often contact frequently, too close to each other, become a very close person. Therefore, in the usual work, we help each other in everything, whether it is the difficulty of each other's work, or psychological confusion, or even their parents are short, we try to help. Some will also make a big package and help each other with all the affairs to the end. In this way, it is bound to create an illusion for the other party: as long as I am concerned, you must come to help me. If one day, our help can not be in place, or can not help for a while, then the other party will often be angry, and even slowly stop interacting with us, and some will even attack behind the back to make a trip. Such an "ungrateful" colleague, the colleague we were once closest to, has gradually become our enemy, and this is really a pity.
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Second thing: often fund distant relatives.
Everyone has their own distant relatives and close neighbors. Perhaps, when we are in the scenery, we will often buy some gifts to take home and bring to our relatives and friends, including these close distant relatives. And these distant relatives also tend to repay the peach, but also often come to our home, boo cold and warm, by the way, everyone eats and drinks together, and makes the family affection very harmonious. However, one day, we were discouraged, and when we wanted to find these distant relatives to help, these people suddenly changed their faces, refused to go thousands of miles away from us, and some even pointed behind our backs, said some side news, and created some rumors, making us more painful. Therefore, after experiencing this incident, we understand that the distant relative who was once closest has become our enemy.
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Third thing: Take two eggs to your neighbor.
There was once a story about a man with a good family. He had a neighbor who didn't like to do things, so he boiled two eggs a day for this neighbor. One day, a beggar came, and he gave one of the eggs to the beggar, and his neighbor was not pleased, and scolded him. At this time, he truly understood: It turns out that doing good deeds will also be exchanged for enemies. In fact, in life, we often encounter such a "two eggs for enemies" thing, so we do good things, but also know how to stop at the right time, do not put long-term favors, let the other party feel that it is a habit, once this, then our enemies will be formed, be vigilant.
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Fourth thing: Love your ex too much.
When people live, they will always encounter their own love. However, not all love has no results, and some emotions, when encountering some unexpected obstacles, tend to go their separate ways. Some people, after losing their lovers, will adjust themselves in time, and then get out of the predicament and usher in their own new tomorrow. And some people, but the deep hatred of this emotional love, they will be the fault of the breakup, a brain to our head, so that we are incomparably hateful, some will even use various means to retaliate, let us exhausted, and even loveless. After experiencing such things, we will truly understand that it is a shallowness to love this ex too deeply, and that the ex who was once the closest to us is from now on our enemy.
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Friends, "small grace raises nobles, big grace raises enemies", people who often do these four things will often turn the four people closest to them into enemies. Have you ever encountered such a thing? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area, wonderful comments, I will put the top to encourage Oh.