01.
When many people are in love, they will have a sweet trouble:
The girlfriend who was obviously very independent before suddenly became dependent on herself, and obviously a very simple little thing also began to turn to herself.
It seems that after leaving yourself, life cannot go on normally.
When encountering anything, I also refer to my opinion very carefully.
Compared with before, she is very assertive, rarely bothers others, and even many things in life need to be helped to solve.
In fact, this is not because after she fell in love, her self-care ability declined, and she developed a strong dependence on her other half.
Rather, it is a psychological stress response when she misses her other half.
A woman in love is two people when she is single, no matter how independent she is when she is single;
Once in love, it will become the same as another person, which can happen to everyone.
Mainly because when a woman has a partner, she will feel that she has a dependency from then on;
No longer alone, everything is accompanied by someone to accompany themselves, and they go together to complete it together.
One of the biggest differences between men and women is small emotions, men rarely have a lot of small emotions, while women are the opposite.
Without a word to the point, the woman may start to make trouble;
This is rarely the case for men, and this gender difference has existed since ancient times.
These small emotions of women are not negative, she is expressing her heart through these emotions, increasing the interaction between the two to convey love.
02.
Find a variety of topics to chat with you until late at night, still in love
When in love, there are often cases of chatting until late at night, and two people always have endless words and want to stop time.
Women like to tell men a lot of things that are not available, and this is not because she is idle and bored;
Because when she misses her partner, she always likes to find different things to say and add two people to the topic.
Xu Yifei and his girlfriend are not in the same city because of work reasons, and they will talk for a long time every night before going to bed.
His girlfriend would tell him little by little about the big and small things that happened that day, and toss him for a long time before going to sleep.
Xu Yifei knows that his girlfriend and himself are not in the same city, and they can only see each other once on weekends;
Every night she tossed and turned for so long, because she wanted to interact with him more, and she must have missed herself very much.
Before going to bed, many women like to find a variety of topics toss each other for a long time, and then reluctantly go to sleep.
In fact, I want the other party to hurry up and coax myself.
The woman misses the other person, but is shy and embarrassed to tell the other party directly, and can only toss him in this way.
If the other party is tired and wants to rest early, she will start to say nice words to coax herself, and then she will get what she wants.
03.
Big things and small things are going to bother you
There is a very interesting situation where women in love, whether they encounter big things or small things, like to trouble their other half.
In fact, she is not incapable enough to solve these things;
Rather, she deliberately wants the other person to help her, even if it is easy for her.
As small as a simple courier, picking up things, etc., you must let your other half help yourself.
She will find a very reasonable excuse to tell the other party that she is inconvenient, and let the other party help to take it first.
This common little trouble is actually used by her to express her miss for her other half.
The other party helped himself to get something, and he will definitely go to the other party to get it;
In order to express his gratitude, Shunshi invited the other party to eat together, increased the interaction between the two and went, and also met the person he wanted to think.
Don't feel like the other person is too lazy to do it, or it's really inconvenient.
This kind of simple little thing, for any woman, is a show of hands.
In other words, if there is really a delay, she has a lot of girlfriends and friends around her, and she can be in trouble.
Only looking for your help, this is a very special "treatment".
04.
Make a "mess" and throw it at you
In life, everyone will inevitably make mistakes, and in most cases, as long as they are reasonably solved, it will not cause much loss.
Many women will deliberately create some small troubles, and then ask each other to help them deal with it, and see the warm response of the other party, their hearts will feel very warm.
That doesn't mean she's a clumsy person, on the contrary, she's a very smart person.
Create some innocuous little trouble and ask the other party to help deal with it;
Neither will it delay the other party for too long, but the other party will have a sense of accomplishment after handling it.
You will feel that you are also needed and remembered all the time, otherwise you will not think of yourself when you encounter trouble.
Don't feel troubled when being tossed around by a woman in multiple ways, it's just a way of saying it.
You should read the words behind these, "I miss you," and interact with you in a different way.
Women are sensitive and tell you bluntly that she misses you, for fear that you will get annoyed and greatly discount your impression of yourself.
If there is a woman who always "tosses" you, be sure to figure out the other meaning.