Men's personality, as a whole, is more convenient and concise than that of women.
They are very afraid of trouble, and they do not like to make things deliberately complicated and troublesome.
However, in love, if men really start to miss you, they often become very "troublesome".
This trouble is deliberate, to get your attention and to convey a "I need you" meaning.
As for the specific performance, let's take a look at it.
< h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >01 and does not "take care" of itself</h1>
Of course, in real life, many men have been married for many years, and they are really not very good at coping with and handling things in life.
However, in fact, in the pre-marriage stage, some men still need to do everything themselves, they are only spoiled by the other half of their own side after marriage, so this ability is a continuous downward trend.
Over time, the function degenerates and disappears, and it becomes inseparable from the woman.
There are many men in the love stage, if they miss their girlfriends, they will always reveal that they will not "take care" of themselves during the process of phone calls, WeChat, QQ chat or communication.
It was simply too convenient, he could say that he had washed his clothes and forgot to take them out in time to dry them, and when he found them the next day, he was all crumpled.
I thought that after drying, I would flatten itself, but I found that it was not.
Because he couldn't iron, he had to wear such salt-like clothes to work, and he was laughed at by his colleagues.
You can also deliberately post pictures of unbearable sights, self-cooked food, messy kennel-like rooms, etc. to show your girlfriend...
In short, it will not take long to stimulate the maternal protective side of the other party's body, because of sympathy and pity for the boyfriend, and run to take care of each other.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >02 and becomes very clingy</h1>
If a man starts missing a woman, he will become very clingy to you.
Under normal circumstances, they may not call you, send voice, and chat through various software, but this time is different.
Men will seize all the time and opportunities available to them to connect and connect with you.
Just like a little boy sticking to his parents, he shows a look of wanting to dominate you and rely on you all the time.
If you find out that your boyfriend treats herself in such a way, then the woman has to understand that he wants to meet you.
Men sometimes have a very cute and euphemistic side in their hearts, they do not directly express their thoughts in words, because they are afraid of being ridiculed for weakness.
In order to maintain their strong, independent image, they will take a more obvious "hint" to remind their girlfriends and pay attention to their needs.
Generally speaking, between couples, many basic tacit understandings exist. A little reminder, a little expression, the other party can perceive and receive.
After many girls find that their boyfriends have become "stalkers", they know that the other party misses themselves, wants to meet and get along with themselves.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >03, you are very much in need of advice</h1>
There is also a kind of man who has more means and methods.
They don't want to meet their girlfriends directly, but they will ask you to go to the street.
The reason is: your opinion is very much needed.
This is a fairly normal, natural and reasonable reason for a man with a big grin.
Many men like to use such a reason to meet girls, and while the other party is happy because of the recognition of their aesthetic ability, they may not find out at all, this is just an excuse that their boyfriend is looking for.
He just misses you and wants to have a chance to get close to you.
Why does this kind of man miss his girlfriend and say it directly?
In fact, people's personalities are still different from each other. They may usually behave more aggressively, coldly, and have personality.
Unwilling to expose the inner feelings and weaknesses under any circumstances, they will use some other ways to achieve the purpose they want to achieve in their hearts.
For them, neither the reason nor the method matters, just the result can satisfy themselves.
epilogue:
In this way, men are quite cute a lot of times, and they always retain the ideas and behaviors of some particularly small boys.
This is also one of the reasons why men and women in love are always happy and willing to get along with each other.
In fact, when men and women face many things, their ideas are very different.
The stage of love is because of these differences that exist at any time and everywhere and burst out of freshness, curiosity and continuous understanding of each other's ideas, and let both parties feel that it is a very magical and interesting process.
In short, as long as the feelings can be deepened, those normal methods that do not violate the scope of law and morality are feasible.
Therefore, men sell misery, sell stupidity, sell cuteness, play cool and other actions are all ways to get the other party's attention to their own existence and needs.
These will always exist after the two people fall in love or even get married, and because of this, a man and a woman will not feel bored and tired after a long time together.
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