"Blue Valentine's Day" was written by Derek. Directed by Sian Frans, Ryan. Gosling, Michelle. Love movie starring Williams and others. The film tells the story of a couple's choices when their marriage is facing a major crisis.
Ryan. Dean, played by Gosling, is a handsome guy with a slight decadence, who loves a simple and simple life in "Blue Valentine's Day", likes to drink a little wine every day, and appears in front of us as a porter.
Michelle. Cindy, played by Williams, is a nurse with a chaotic private life and a career pursuit. In Blue Valentine's Day, there is a desperate desire to go upstream and get out of poverty.
There are two narrative threads in "Blue Valentine": one is that Dean and Cindy know each other in the past, the sweetness of love; one is Dean and Cindy's emotional exhaustion today, and the demise of marriage. The two narrative threads are prominent in theme and run alternately; the context is clear and each other is superficial.
The contradiction between Dean and Cindy in "Blue Valentine's Day" does not have the so-called little three attack, nor the so-called mother-in-law discord, but it is entirely because of the arrival of the "seven-year itch", which triggers the outbreak of various original contradictions that already exist.
First, hasty union is the source of unsustainable marriage
I think that the combination of Dean and Cindy was based on the fact that Cindy was pregnant with her ex-boyfriend's child, and her stomach was so big that she couldn't cover it, and Dean picked a leak. Perhaps in Dean's view, he has love for Cindy and can not blame All of Cindy's past; but Cindy's consideration of Dean may be the most realistic consideration. She wants the child to be born in a complete family, with a father after the child is born. And just then, Dean appeared from the sky. He loved himself and his children, and there was no better fit for him than Dean. It was this hasty union that laid the groundwork for the misfortune of the subsequent marriage.
Second, the different three views have led to the rocks of marriage
From "Blue Valentine's Day", we can see that Dean likes that simple and simple life, saying that the good point is content and happy, and saying that the bad point is not seeking progress. He didn't have a decent job, lived entirely on odd jobs, and was content to go to work before 8 a.m. for a little drink; Cindy was different. She has ambitions for her career and hopes to start her own business and open up a new world of life. One strides in the same place, one strides forward; one yearns for stability, one yearns for passion; one gets by for the future, and one has a good plan for the future. In the long run, the two people with different views must be relatively speechless and unable to communicate and live.
Third, the inevitable end of the marriage between a strong woman and a weak man
From "Blue Valentine's Day", we can see that Cindy and Dean's marriage model is anti-traditional "strong women and weak men". Cindy earns more than Dean, and Cindy holds the family's financial power and voice. Although Cindy is given unparalleled freedom as a result, Dean cannot shield her from the wind and rain, and Cindy is extremely insecure in her heart. There is nothing wrong with a temporary lack of security, and in the long run it will affect the cornerstone of marital stability.
In the film, we can see that in order to save his marriage, Dean also thought of a romantic move, he booked a room in a hotel, hoping to save Cindy's heart through some romantic offensives. Who knew that in the end, it was self-defeating, the two had a fierce quarrel without a word, and the marriage was on the verge of collapse in an instant.
The film ends with fireworks in full swing and Dean's solo departure. Cindy and Dean's relationship may have faded silently, or perhaps there is still a glimmer of life because of the existence of a daughter. In short, the film gives an open-ended ending for us to use as a reverie.