Yi Nengjing's life can be summed up in two words: red and black.
Speaking of Yi Nengjing, many people like her, and many people hate her.
People who like her think she is talented, brave, and able to be themselves; people who hate her think she is contrived, pretentious, and loves "acting".
From fame to the present, Yi Nengjing has attracted much attention and controversy along the way.
Nevertheless, at the age of 18, she gained the favor of the rich nobleman Haring; after the divorce, the 46-year-old harvested the love of Qin Hao, who was 10 years younger.
What kind of charm does Yi Nengjing have that can make these two men love willingly?
01 A girl who is upside down and displaced
Yi Nengjing was born in Taipei City in 1968, the fourth oldest in the family, and her original name was Wu Jingyi.
Her mother, Yang Shuwan, was the daughter of the Chinese politician Yang Yuanding.
Later, when her grandfather was killed and the Yang family was ostracized, Yi Nengjing's father, Wu Min, saw that his wife had 4 daughters in a row, and still could not give birth to a son, so he took the opportunity to divorce Yang Shuwan.
After her parents divorced, the young Yi Nengjing was sent to the countryside for five years. Later, her mother sent her to her sister's house in Hong Kong.
At that time, Yi Nengjing's brother-in-law failed in business and was in a bad mental condition.
Every time she was in a bad mood, she caught Yi Nengjing, punched and kicked her, and even fed her dog food.
Years later, when Yi Nengjing recalled that time, he described himself as no different from the stray dog at the door.
These difficult and painful days lasted for six years.
It wasn't until her mother found a Japanese husband that Yi Nengjing left her tyrannical brother-in-law and followed her mother to live in Japan.
And her name was also changed from Wu Jingyi to Yi Neng Jingjiang.
Because, since her parents divorced since childhood, and experienced the days of sending people under the fence, Yi Nengjing became very emotional. She wrote down what she saw, heard and thought in her life in a thick diary.
In addition, she also sent love books and enjoyed reading Shakespeare and Ranger adventure novels.
When she was in middle school, Yi Nengjing won the first place in the composition competition.
When she was wandering around, Qin Hao on this side of the mainland fell to the ground in Shenyang, Liaoning Province.
Although Yi Nengjing was in a foreign country, fortunately, the stepfather was still good to their mother and daughter.
So in 1985, when the 17-year-old Yi Nengjing returned to Taiwan to enter the show business circle, in order to repay his stepfather's nurturing grace, he still maintained his stepfather's surname and changed his name to Yi Nengjing.
At this time, the famous music artist Liu Wenzheng appeared.
02 The group debuted, and then saddled with huge debts
In 1984, Liu Wenzheng ended the contract of PolyGram, faded out of the music scene, and founded the Flying Eagle Company.
After returning to Taiwan, Yi Nengjing went to a photo studio to take photos. When the boss saw that she looked beautiful, he asked for her permission and hung Yi Nengjing's photo on the window of the store.
One day, Liu Wenzheng passed through the window and found this fresh and lovely little beauty, and he found Yi Nengjing all the way.
After Liu Wenzheng met Yi Nengjing, he greatly appreciated Yi Nengjing's talent and musical talent.
At that time, Liu Wenzheng's company was preparing to form an idol group.
Therefore, in 1985, he put Yi Nengjing, Fang Wenlin and Qiu Haizheng, who were similar in age, into the girl group "Flying Eagle Three Sisters".
As soon as the group was launched, it began to become popular and was loved by many people, especially the male comrades in Taiwan.
Among them, among Yi Nengjing's admirers, there is the later musical "naughty boy" Yu Chengqing.
With the help of Liu Wenzheng, Yi Nengjing wrote her own lyrics and recorded her first solo album "The Last Day of 19 Years Old".
Since then, she has become a professional singer.
At that time, Yi Nengjing's simplest dream was to own a house and live in peace.
But the reality is harsh.
As a member of the company, the income she really obtains is completely out of proportion to her own efforts. In this case, the biological father who had disappeared for many years appeared, yi Nengjing thought it was true, and the belated father's love returned.
Unexpectedly, her father signed the contract without her, and worse, after signing the contract, the biological father suddenly died due to an accident, leaving her with a bunch of debts.
Originally, I thought that the life that had just improved was like this, and it fell to the bottom again.
03 Harlem is her light
Until the appearance of Yu Chengqing, Yi Nengjing saw a ray of sunshine in his gray life.
Unlike Yi Nengjing's suffering, Yu Chengqing's family is prominent, and his parents are all figures with heads and faces.
Later, Yu Chengqing became more and more famous, and many people affectionately called him Haring.
The combination of Harlem and Yi Nengjing seems to be the setting of the prince and Cinderella.
In the fairy tale, Cinderella put on glass shoes and won the love of the prince.
In real life, Yi Nengjing faded the disguised side and exposed the vulnerable, temperamental, and insecure side to Harlem.
Perhaps, every man has a chivalrous feeling, thinking that he can wield a sword to cut thorns and protect the princess in his heart.
Therefore, Yu Chengqing did his best to love Yi Nengjing for more than 20 years in the future.
However, I don't know why, Yu Chengqing did not disclose his relationship with Yi Nengjing for 14 years from 1986 to 2000.
His practice made Yi Nengjing, who had experienced upheaval and displacement since childhood, feel extremely uneasy.
She began to wonder: would Yu Chengqing suddenly stop wanting herself; would Yu Chengqing feel that she was not worthy of her as the outside world said; would Yu Chengqing not love herself at all?
Therefore, when Yu Chengqing is not around, Yi Nengjing will call him madly; when the mood comes up, he will run away from home in the middle of the night...
In the case of Yi Nengjing tossing and turning and doing so "doing", Yu Chengqing chose a silent or inclusive way to solve these problems.
Finally, the long 14-year love run was over.
04 The Tragedy of the Prince and Cinderella
In 2000, Haring finally made public his relationship with Yi Nengjing, and the two officially registered for marriage.
When their plane landed at the airport in Taipei, Haring chose to slip away, leaving Yi Nengjing, who looked happy and confused, facing the media interrogation alone.
That year, Qin Hao, who had a dream of film, had just graduated from the Acting Department of the Central Academy of Drama.
With his low eyesight, he insisted on focusing on the script, which led to several years of no drama to shoot.
That year, the elegant and handsome Huang Weide tried his hand for the first time in "Princess Huaiyu" and attracted the attention of the audience.
That year, Yi Nengjing thought that she could have a stable happiness.
But the saying that marriage is the graveyard of love has some truth.
When Haring and Yi Nengjing were in love, family and friends were opposed, and after they were together, the outside world was not optimistic, and Yi Nengjing, who was in love with the brain, was difficult to win the favor of the Harlem family.
However, Yu Chengqing withstood the pressure and entered the palace of marriage with Yi Nengjing.
With Yu Chengqing's resources, Yi Nengjing's career has a broader world.
She went to Cambridge and London in the United Kingdom to study and wrote the song "Wandering Child".
She starred in hou Xiaoxian's film "Good Man Good Woman", which was nominated for Best Actress at the Golden Horse Awards;
After that, he starred in the film "National Road Closed" directed by He Ping, and was nominated for the Golden Horse Award for Best Actress for the second time.
At the same time, she also wrote a book and recorded every bit of Yu Chengqing.
She also appeared on variety shows, and in the show, she opened her mouth and closed her mouth to Yu Chengqing. He even wrote a song for Yu Chengqing, which is the classic "Spring Mud".
She loves Yu Chengqing, she loves it unabashedly, and she wants everyone in the world to know: she and Yu Chengqing are in love.
On the other hand, Yu Chengqing, a man who does not lack variety cells, almost does not mention Yi Nengjing in public and variety shows.
One likes to express and likes to be recognized; one is used to silence and does not like to explain; one is hardworking, and one is used to cold treatment.
In addition, after marriage, the matter of two people has become a matter of two families, and their marriage has been accumulated over time and buried hidden dangers.
05 Cheating in marriage and learning to redeem yourself
In 2006, Yi Nengjing made a cameo appearance in "The Harem of the Great Qing Dynasty".
Soon, photos of her and Huang Weide holding hands made headlines in major newspapers.
At that time, Yu Chengqing was holding his son's hand for a walk; 28-year-old Qin Hao played a supporting role in the movie "The Love of Tang Bula".
These three men, one after the other, entered the world of Yi Nengjing.
As soon as the derailment scandal came out, Yi Nengjing was branded pan Jinlian by the media, and her image reputation plummeted. And Huang Weide's sentence "She took the initiative first" pushed Yi Nengjing into the abyss.
Infidelity within marriage is unforgivable at any time.
Yi Nengjing seemed to have anticipated all this and was ready to bear all the consequences.
On March 20, 2009, through Huayi Brothers Agency, she officially issued a divorce statement, ending her 9-year marriage with Yu Chengqing, and even a 23-year relationship.
After the divorce, Yi Nengjing began psychological treatment for about 7 years.
Many netizens are saying that Yi Nengjing is a typical performative personality. Such a statement is not empty.
Since childhood, his parents divorced and sent people to the fence, so that Yi Nengjing learned to observe the color of speech and also learned to "perform".
She cares a lot about what others say about her and tries to prove herself to others. All of this is inextricably linked to her original family and encounters.
Once, she thought that Yu Chengqing was her light; it was not until after marriage that she understood that Yu Chengqing's light had disappeared at some point.
After returning to singlehood, Yi Nengjing began to reflect on herself:
No one should be the light of whom, and no one should come to save anyone; only by redeeming oneself can one attain new life.
In this case, she and Qin Hao met.
06 Finally someone can heal themselves
Qin Hao, a humorous northeast big boy, Qin Hao's mother is cheerful and open.
Yi Nengjing was in Yu Chengqing's place, and the warmth of his family that he did not get was obtained here in Qin Hao.
Yi Nengjing's work in Yu Chengqing's place, in Qin Hao's place, was ruled obediently.
Yi Nengjing ran out in the middle of the night, And Qin Hao would not look for it all over the street like Yu Chengqing.
Instead, she sat at home and waited for Yi Nengjing until she wanted to open herself and obediently returned.
Yi Nengjing likes to perform, and Qin Hao is next to him to play treasure; Yi Nengjing wants to be public and wants a romantic wedding, so Qin Hao gives him an island wedding.
Even so, Yi Nengjing, who was insecure, would still ask Qin Hao in fear, would he abandon himself?
Qin Hao played a romantic game and wrote a note to Yi Nengjing, "If you don't do it, I will not fail." Afterwards, Qin Hao said that in fact, he only wanted to write 4 words: there was a cure for the disease.
In the words, yi Nengjing was pinched to death, which could not only soothe her glass heart, but also cure her illness.
Looking back on the past 30 years, Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing have truly loved each other.
However, the combination of the prince and Cinderella ends in reality with a tragic ending.
After the divorce, Yi Nengjing, when actively seeking self-redemption, met Qin Hao in the trough period, and the two felt sorry for each other and entered each other's world.
However, despite criticism and prejudice, Yi Nengjing's fame is an inspirational model.
In order to pay back the money for her biological father, she took a car for 5 hours a day to the song hall, and then took a 5-hour car home in the middle of the night, singing for 8 years.
She helped the third sister invest in a hot pot restaurant, helped the second sister's children to open a school, and helped her mother and sister buy a large villa.
In an interview, Lu Yu asked, "How many individuals do you have to take care of alone?" ”
She replied, "Seven or eight." ”
Singing in the song hall, the sisters play cards in front of the stage, laugh with the guests, sing and sing and take off their breasts and throw them to the audience, but Yi Nengjing always reads backstage.
Yi Nengjing lived her own light in the dark days; and because she had experienced too much, she summed up a set of her own "chicken soup for the soul" in the long days.
That's why she was on the show, some amazing "Yi Yan Yi Theory".
But up to now, she has gathered singers, actors, screenwriters, and directors as one, and she has been bravely being herself.
Now 53 years old, Yi Nengjing's body management is amazing.
And she was spoiled by Qin Hao as a little princess, although she occasionally suffered from "diseases", but Qin Hao could always cure her.
Author: Ink
Edit: Wheat