Author | Sim Man
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Editor-in-Chief | Cool and cool
The first sweetness of 2021 comes from the official announcement of Xuan Bin and Sun Yizhen.
Some media broke out that the two had been secretly in love for 8 months, and then Sun Yizhen shyly posted, and the girl openly admitted her love affair with her heart, which immediately triggered a hot search.
As early as before the official announcement, some netizens glimpsed the clues from the high-sweet interaction between the two when they cooperated in the love drama "The Forced Landing of Love" - Xuan Bin looked at Sun Yizhen's eyes with infinite spoiling, and when Sun Yizhen saw Xuan Bin, the corners of his mouth could not help but rise.
Soon after the official announcement of the love affair, more insiders revealed that the two planned to get married, "Xuan Bin's parents planned to buy a property before, and set it up for the two to get married." "They're postponing it until 2021, and getting married in early 2022 at the latest."
The lovers in the play hold hands in reality, and netizens are excited to send blessings, and they are eager to move the Civil Affairs Bureau to them:
"Sun Yizhen is worth it."
"Sun XianEr must be happy!"
Because of her gentle and pure appearance, Sun Yizhen is called "Sun Xian" by fans, as everyone knows, she is called a fairy, but she is sober in the world, living into a model worth learning for every woman, we can learn the following three things from her.
Not confident, but also try to move forward
In 1999, Sun Yizhen, who was still a senior in high school, was introduced by an acquaintance and got the opportunity to star in an advertisement with the star who was in the heat at the time.
Sun Yizhen is an introverted personality, and even when she gives a speech on stage, she will be shy and nervous. She has no relevant experience, extremely unconfident, "Is it okay to cooperate with such a big predecessor?"
But even if she doubted that she could not do well, she still hardened her scalp, prepared in advance, practiced in front of the mirror until late at night, and finally succeeded in leaving a good impression on her predecessors.
After the end of the cooperation, Sun Yizhen, who was aware of her own acting shortcomings, did not stay in the powerless vortex brought about by lack of self-confidence, but took the train every week to Seoul for acting classes. In the process of studying, she became interested in acting and decided to step into the acting world.
From "Secret", "Love To the Left to Love to Right", "The Eraser in My Mind", Sun Yizhen handed over one high-quality work after another. However, even if she has achieved great results, she is still not confident enough and has a worried heart.
In 2008, after Sun Yizhen won the Qinglong Award, she couldn't help but shed tears when she accepted the award, revealing her inner fear: "'It is better to use practical actions to prove that she is acting well'. This sentence makes me very scared, worried that I can't do it, even now when I say this sentence, I am still very afraid. ”
It is not self-confidence to move forward, and moving forward is the process of becoming confident. Even if she is worried about not doing well, Sun Yizhen has never stopped moving forward, but has accumulated strength in the process of moving forward.
In the 20 years since her debut, Sun Yizhen has "put her career first" and constantly opened up the path of drama, from emotional dramas to comedies to costume dramas and thriller movies, she has ambitions and desires, eager to break through herself with her works, and live up to every audience who loves her.
In order to present the best performance, when shooting difficult action scenes, she refused to stand-in, gritted her teeth and insisted on completing it herself.
With outstanding acting skills, Sun Yizhen won a personal film grand slam early and is the only post-80s actress in South Korea to win this honor. She starred in films and even broke the Box Office record for Korean films several times.
Therefore, do not regard "lack of self-confidence" as a stumbling block in life, people are constantly breaking and rebuilding to build self-confidence, sometimes, uncertainty, trepidation, but force a person to try to do a good job.
Age is the only meaning
It's about giving you time to be a better version of yourself
Many actors prefer girly scripts, but Sun Yizhen unexpectedly took over "The Pretty Sister Who Often Invites dinner".
In the play, she plays a 35-year-old single woman who has failed in love and career, and has been described by her ex-boyfriend as "tasteless as konjac".
The reason why she dared to take such a script is because Sun Yizhen pays more attention to authenticity and texture than girlishness, and she said at the age of 36: "There are many ordinary stories in the play that women of our age group feel. ”
Sun Yizhen does not limit herself to the sweetness of twenty years old, but has the courage to pick up the gifts of the years, make friends with time, and cultivate a charm of calming down after experiencing the world.
The heartfelt plot of "The Pretty Sister Who Often Invites to Dinner", coupled with Sun Yizhen's delicate performance, poked in the hearts of many people, and this drama caused a strong sensation, and she also became popular.
Nowadays, society has drawn too many frameworks for women, such as "get married at the age of thirty", "have children early"... Sun Yizhen believes that two mature people are more likely to have a stable love.
Through the ups and downs of life, she knows more clearly what she wants and has the ability to stay with her lover.
She understands the meaning of the two people falling in love, is that both sides become a better version of themselves, "Thanks for meeting such a good person, I will try to make myself better, and the love and support given by everyone has always been cherished in my heart." ”
She knows how to be cautious when entering love, and she is responsible and respectful to each other. He and Xuan Bin developed feelings for the filming of "The Forced Landing of Love", but because they were worried that they were obsessed with the characters in the play, rather than the real person, the two did not immediately get together.
After more than a year of in-depth understanding, I was convinced that I was not obsessed with the role, and I was able to mature into a relationship before I became a lover, with the purpose of marriage.
For women, age brings sagging facial and wrinkles at the corners of the eyes, but the "calm and transparency" polished by time will also give women a layer of higher and more moving beauty.
Maintain self-love when single and freedom when in love
Yishu said: "Self-love, calmness, and then love others." ”
From the film for 20 years, Sun Yizhen rarely had a scandal, when the media repeatedly asked "when to get married", she domineeringly replied: "The matter of marriage should follow fate." ”
People with a high sense of self-security, love is just the icing on the cake. Sun Yizhen does not rely on gossip and hype to attract attention, but with a series of works with laughter, tears, and sound, people remember her name.
She ignores the mainstream vision, places her self-fulfillment above love, and when she is not acting, she will practice yoga at home, do aerobic exercise, read scripts... Insisting on practicing Pilates for ten years, she exudes a gentle and beautiful temperament and radiance.
As the saying goes, "Why be held in the palm of your hand by someone else?" I have my own hands. ”
Sun Yizhen has a wide range of interests, and uses her favorite things to build a sound and colorful life, she likes to play golf, likes drama, and has studied this deeply. Coincidentally, Xuan Bin also has the same interests, and the two have a stronger relationship and are photographed by the media to play golf together.
The two in love often hate to stay together at all times, but due to busy work, Sun Yizhen and Xuan Bin don't spend too much time together, but she has a full sense of security about this relationship: "This is not a relationship that is easy to change, the busier the work, the more missed." ”
I remember a line in the movie "The Eraser in My Mind" starring Sun Yizhen: "The reason why we are unhappy is that we don't know how to stay in the room quietly and calmly get along with ourselves." ”
Sun Yizhen accepts that loneliness is a part of life, and when her lover is not around, she also lives with her heart and gives herself high-quality solitude.
Watching a movie at home alone, she won't get bored either. When she is not playing, she will travel, learn flower arrangement, enjoy life, and live freely and beautifully.
Perhaps, the best state of women is like Sun Yizhen, when single, the love and care of the lover to themselves, when in love, pay attention to self-independence, not attached to not please, so that love is only love itself, still have the ability to give themselves happiness.
Write at the end:
The writer Shi Tiesheng once said: "Love is your own quality, your own soul, your own situation, and has nothing to do with others." ”
The sweet love in reality is not a prince holding Cinderella's hand and walking forward, but a girl who can live her own life, meet lovers who live the same serious life, the two are mature and equal, love each other in the most comfortable posture, each other as a torch, and warmly illuminate each other's lives.
Bless Xuan Bin and Sun Yizhen, and may you dare to love and dare to be single, live spontaneously, and live a happy life.