I believe that everyone has encountered emotional troubles in the process of growing up, I do not love who love me, and I love and do not love me.
After experiencing unforgettable, ups and downs in the sea of people, we finally met the most suitable person and spent our lives together.
Maybe the circle turns to the end, and the people who have joined hands with you to the old have never loved vigorously, nor have they had warm and sincere feelings, but they are plain and simple, tacit understanding.
Just like Mr. Jin Yong's early work "Green Blood Sword", under the background wall of history, the love and hate of the sons and daughters of the rivers and lakes are obsessed, like a picture scroll slowly unfolding in front of our eyes, let us follow the perspective of the protagonist, to feel those love and hate.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > wishful thinking is ultimately a mispayment. </h1>
Many people say that the story of "Green Blood Sword", the protagonist has a weak sense of existence, the golden snake Lang JunXia Xueyi is more loved than Yuan Chengzhi's, he has a distinct personality, and the love and hatred with He Hongyao and Wen Yi are more interesting.
Indeed, the Golden Snake Lang Junxia Xueyi, strong in martial arts, arrogant in character, and handsome in the gods of abundance, satisfies all our fantasies about chivalry.
Xia Xueyi first met He Hongyao, He Hongyao wishful thinking, fell in love with Xia Xueyi at first sight, saw him poisoned and fainted, saved his life, and took him to get the Golden Snake Sword against the rules.
I thought that I had paid so much, xia Xueyi would come back to stay with her for the rest of my life after taking revenge, but I didn't expect to learn that Xia Xueyi and Ben had never loved her after being punished.
The matter of feelings has always been your comings and goings, and wishful feelings are ultimately a mispayment.
Don't take it for granted that I have given so much, that I love you so much, that you will return with the same heavy love.
Where there is any truth in emotional things, it is all about fate and feelings.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > empathy is the starter of feelings. </h1>
Xia Xueyi's sister was raped and killed by wen fanglu, the wen family brother, and the family was also killed by wen fanglu, with a vengeful heart, trying to become stronger with all his strength.
Finally, with the help of He Hongyao, he improved his strength and also obtained equipment, but he did not expect to fall in love with wen Yi, the daughter of the enemy, in the process of revenge.
His feelings for Wen Yi are very complicated, from the initial hatred to pity, and then to deep love, a series of transformations are naturally developed in the confinement of Wen Yi and getting along with Wen Yi day and night.
He killed so Wen's family, the hatred had been vented, seeing Wen Yi's weak and tough appearance, he remembered his sister, and he did not naturally feel empathy.
He saw his sister's shadow in Wen Yi, and with empathy, his feelings were fermented.
He Hongyao is beautiful and enthusiastic, thinking about him everywhere, he just can't love.
Wen Yi is the daughter of an enemy, and the situation is exactly the same as that of his sister at the beginning, which mobilizes empathy, so he begins to change his tricks to please Wen Yi.
Probably human nature is like this, the initiative to send to the door is always very dismissive, you need to chase and conquer the good.
Sometimes the seeds of love may begin to take root from empathy, and having the same experience makes it easier to mobilize the sharp nerve called "resonance" in the emotion.
There is no deep love for no reason, and deep love must be because something triggers emotional resonance,
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > love is not chasing and possessing, don't be the most annoying kind of person in love. </h1>
Wen Qingqing met Yuan Chengzhi, admired Yuan Chengzhi's martial arts and character, and fell in love with Yuan Chengzhi.
It's just that her love is really too uncomfortable, there are many times in the original work is Wen Qingqing vinegar vigorous hair, in an extreme way to force Yuan Chengzhi to stay by her side, she can't tolerate other members of the opposite sex to appear next to Yuan Chengzhi.
She will be suspicious, jealous, and willful often make Yuan Chengzhi scratch his head.
The feelings between Wen Qingqing and Yuan Chengzhi, Yuan Chengzhi has always been passive, and Wen Qingqing has always been the active one.
If she likes Yuan Chengzhi, she can't see that there are women around Yuan Chengzhi.
An Xiaohui appeared next to Yuan Chengzhi and she was angry.
Jiao Wan'er appeared next to Yuan Chengzhi and she was angry.
Ah Jiu appeared next to Yuan Chengzhi and she was angry.
Her love is selfish and narrow-
She has no sense of security, she does not know that the most beautiful love must be two-way rush, she loves Yuan Chengzhi, Yuan Chengzhi can also have the right not to love her.
Her concept of love is uncomfortable because she likes Yuan Chengzhi and asks Yuan Chengzhi to love her as well, and if Yuan Chengzhi does not respond according to her expectations, she feels that Yuan Chengzhi is not right, makes trouble, and when she leaves, commits suicide or self-harms.
She saw that Yuan Chengzhi and Ah Jiu had feelings for each other, even though Ah Jiu had gone to Tibet, she still couldn't accept it, ran to the edge of the cliff, and jumped.
Although Jiao Wan'er also likes Yuan Chengzhi, but knows that Yuan Chengzhi cannot belong to herself, sees that Wen Qingqing misunderstands Yuan Chengzhi and her ambiguity, in order to make Wen Qingqing discouraged, but also in order to make herself dead, she offered to marry her brother.
Wen Qingqing's love hurts herself, but also hurts the other party, and hurts other people around her even more.
It will be really tiring to be a partner with such people, their love is a shackle, it will lock you up firmly, and it is natural to ask you to give the same love, if you can't do it, then you are not right, you are just unlucky.
I have to say that being loved by such a person is really a disaster, she will be jealous in the name of love, pull the banner of love supremacy to demand you, but also hurt the people around you.
When you meet such a person, if you don't like it, you must resolutely refuse, don't be vague.
We have the right to fall in love with who we are, but we can't ask the person you fall in love with to be responsive.
Because love does not come first, there is no reason to talk about it, don't be that annoying lover.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > adult world, where dilemmas are all the norm. </h1>
Yuan Chengzhi is strong in martial arts, good character, and the son of Yuan Chonghuan, although his father's unjust death is very unfortunate, but there is a father's aura shrouded, and he also gets a lot of care and respect on the road of life.
It's just that Yuan Chengzhi is always vague in his treatment of feelings, not decisive and refreshing.
He and Wen Qingqing are together, it has always been Wen Qingqing who controls the initiative, does he love Wen Qingqing very much? Probably just like and responsible.
Wen Yi asked Yuan Chengzhi to take care of Wen Qingqing for a lifetime, and Yuan Chengzhi inherited Wen Qingqing's father Xia Xueyi's martial arts and golden snake sword, and he was mostly responsible to Wen Qingqing.
There is an impulse and desire for Ah Jiu, and if you really love a person, you will involuntarily think about it, and Yuan Chengzhi will go from love at first sight to involuntarily thinking about Ah Jiu.
The Chongzhen Emperor killed his father Yuan Chonghuan, and Ah Jiu was the daughter of the Chongzhen Emperor, and he and Ah Jiu, separated by Wen Qingqing and separated by their father's enmity, could never be crossed.
Failing Wen Qingqing and choosing Ah Jiu, he will have a hard conscience for a lifetime, and Wen Qingqing will always have regrets in his heart.
Either you are sorry for others, or you are embarrassed by yourself, and this dilemma is probably the norm in the adult world.
When I was a child, I was very sad to watch "Blue Blood Sword", and I felt that since the person Yuan Chengzhi really liked was Ah Jiu, why didn't he break up with Wen Qingqing, at that time, I felt that loving each other should break through all obstacles and go together, so that it would be perfect.
When I grew up, I sighed that sometimes I fell in love with someone, and I really didn't have to force that I must be together.
Because adults in addition to love, there will be a lot of trivial life, there are many human fireworks worth looking forward to, really do not have to pour too much in a hopeless feeling.
In the world of feelings, if you fall in love with someone, he also happens to love you, he is not married, you are not married, meet the most suitable person at the best age, do not have to twist and pinch, although generous, vigorously to talk about a relationship.
If you are obsessed with wishful thinking, but the person you love is indifferent, and you feel that you have been abused in the world of feelings, please do not feel desperate, you just have not met the right person.
Every relationship we encounter, everyone we fall in love with, is a practice on the road of life, and having a fate is the beauty of regret, and eventually becoming a family member must continue to practice in chai rice oil and salt.
The story is still that story, and the people in the story are still those people, the difference is that the people who read the story are the people.
Hopefully, the love-hate intertwining of others can give us more thinking and growth, more sobriety and less hurt in the complex emotional world.