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The first Chinese and Korean Go couple - Yue Liangquan Xiaozhen
Go will not be understood by everyone, love will not be enjoyed by everyone, Go is tangible, love is invisible, Go is made by humans, love is made by God (God also created love for men and women), is there a connection between the two?
Love has existed since the human beings, in the Paleolithic Age and earlier, human production conditions are low, the environment is harsh, labor intensity is high, there is no entertainment, can drive away fatigue, bring happiness only love, only men and women love. When did Go come from? Legend has it that "Yao made Go to teach his son Danzhu", I think this theory is not credible, it should have been earlier, first of all, Yao is an emperor, concerned about the suffering of the tribal people, but also personally participates in agricultural affairs, there is no time to make chess; secondly, Yao's era is the late Neolithic period, in the previous ten thousand years, human beings have been able to burn pottery, grind stone tools, engage in nongsang, have long had the conditions to make chess pieces, but also have the material living conditions to play chess; Yao may be the first tribal king to play chess, but can not be the first person to play chess. Maybe Go is also made by God, afraid that human playthings will lose their minds and mistake Nongsang, so they collect it somewhere, and later look at the improvement of production and life before suggesting that the sages invented Go.
In any case, our ancestors had something in addition to love and forgot their worries - Go. At that time, there were not many words and many topics, and perhaps men and women who talked about love also played Go when they were together.
At the earliest time of Go, there may be only a few ways on the chessboard, the chess pieces are not black and white, the chess pieces may be sticks, fruit cores, and love is very simple at the beginning, that is, male and female love, there is no inheritance, no marriage and family, no concept of social responsibility.
At the beginning, the chessboard of Go was painted on the sand on the ground, and the chess pieces were also common things in life, although simple and happy, and now they have developed to the catalpa chessboard, and the chess pieces are selected jade and clam stones, which are extremely luxurious, paying attention to the combination of material and spiritual. In the past, love was overwhelmed by heaven, and now the love of the city wants commercial houses and car tickets, and if there is no house, it will not enter the marriage hall.
Chess is divided into black and white, on the chessboard both sides are equal, love is also divided into men and women, men and women in love are not equal, in the matrilineal society, the preference for daughters, in the patriarchal society, the preference for sons.
Lee Se-seok Jiudan with his wife Kim Hyun-jin
The rules of Go are written, the rules of love are mostly unwritten, and a very small number of written rules are written in the marriage law; most of the two do not need external coercive forces to enforce, and are maintained by self-discipline and morality; Go is not allowed to be repentant, and love is regrettable with the consent of one party.
In the early days of Go, white chess went first, black chess went after, and now black chess goes first, and white chess moves later. In the early days of love, women took the initiative and men were passive, and now men take the initiative to attack, and women take more defensive positions.
The first party of Go is taking advantage, so it is necessary to post to the latter party, and the active party in love suffers losses, often having to pay the bill and be cheeky and flattering. The number of Go posts varies from country to country, and the number of men in love who pay bills also varies from place to place, and in the city, there is no less than one suite, with a total of hundreds of thousands to millions, in the countryside it may be tens of thousands, and in remote ethnic minority areas, it is surprisingly small.
Go begins when both parties agree to play chess, and love begins when one party has a crush on the other. Go has a clear time and place, love sometimes both parties do not know who began to say hello first, when and where to start to move for him (her), when and where to start to have a special love for each other!
On the chessboard, the black and white sides are entangled and divided, and the land surrounded by each party belongs to each party, except for the place of double life, it is difficult for the love parties in life to distinguish between you and me, most of the results are shared by both parties, unless otherwise agreed by both parties.
Go can be played everywhere, but love cannot be spared everywhere! There are many onlookers in the chess game, and there are only two people in love.
A game of chess generally only takes a few hours, love is as long as a lifetime; the next hand of chess time is also counted in seconds, and the transmission of feelings is as fast as the speed of light; the chess game ends when one party dies, and love remains after the death of one party.
The vast majority of the side that concedes defeat in Go is the side that is unfavorable to the situation and the side that is insufficient, and the party that concedes defeat in love is often the party with more favorable reasons in the situation, and the end of the game of Go conceding defeat and the love conceding defeat love continues.
Shinya Yoshihara, Who Isi Yoshihara, 5th Dan Yori, Yukari, Japan
Go is divided into three stages: layout, mid-game, and ending, love is divided into three stages: love, marriage, and companionship; when the chessboard is wide, there are many landing points, and the love stage can look for objects everywhere, and the candidates are numerous; the battle is fierce in the middle game, the dilemma is dilemma, and when you want to get married, it is difficult to decide; at the end, the difference between the win and the loss is small, the gap between the son and the half is small, and the kung fu is seen in the subtleties, and the partner is chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, extremely trivial, right and wrong and emotional subtlety, and the truth is seen in the details.
The Go formula is that one side gets real profits and the other side gets thick momentum, and the love formula is that those who have more feelings pay more feelings, those who pay more materials, and feelings and materials are balanced and mutually transformed; chess players are good at grasping the balance of real profits and thick forces, and lovers pay attention to the balance of feelings and materials; the level of chess players who only pay attention to real profits cannot reach a higher realm, and girls who only value material are not high in grade grade for "vase".
Although the sons of one side on the chessboard are not connected, or are divided and surrounded by the enemy, they also watch over each other and help each other, and in order to win the victory, they are not afraid to face the enemy several times, and even sacrifice themselves to plunge into the tiger's mouth, without hesitation. Men and women in love have the right and obligation to help and support each other, although they are far away from each other, they are also connected in hearts, know each other without doubt, and love to the extreme, only willing to live and die together to die martyrdom.
Go has "casual chess", which is said to be uncalculated, even without the brain, casually falling, casually causing more failures, and more regrets by chess players. Love has "love at first sight", saying that both parties do not know much, nor do they think deeply, love is produced when they meet, the affection cannot be all rational, can not compare the gains and losses too much, love at first sight has its rationality, and most of the two sides of love at first sight do not regret the beauty of the past.
Chess game is a long test out of the stinky chess, a step of chess thinking too long is not necessarily a good game, turn a blind eye to the good points, and even the chess play at the worst point; love marathon also leads to a decline in the heat of both sides, aesthetic fatigue, and finally can not join hands into the marriage hall.
Kong Jie Jiudan and his wife Chen Xiaoyun
The size of a hand chess is measured by how much the value is measured, playing chess is to grab the big first and then play small chess, a person's love value to the other party to refer to, the choice of lovers is also a comprehensive evaluation of the love value first large and then small, many girls' love can be calculated with money, such as "worship the golden female Mano", its famous saying is "would rather sit in the BMW and cry, rather than sit on the single bike and laugh", her love price should be greater than the price of BMW. Chess players will not first set a hand of chess to be worth how much to play, relative to the love of both sides most of the first have a clear or unclear "expectation value", less than this minimum value is not considered; a chess player no matter how long to think, can always find their own suitable point, a girl even if looking for decades, may not be able to find the object that meets the requirements to marry, this is the "leftover woman", the daughter of the relative surplus, like the capitalist economic crisis, but the relative surplus is not an absolute surplus.
Chess to compete for the first hand, even to "abandon the son to compete for the first", avoid lagging behind, the back hand is passive everywhere, love does not have to compete for the first hand, sometimes the back hand is advantageous, the so-called "strike later", "to static braking", the woman will often wait for the other party to attack, the man is sometimes willing to sit back and enjoy its success, taste the taste of being chased.
The "anxious place" in Go is better than the "big field", which is the place where both sides must fight, the "urgent place" in love is better than the "big field", the "urgent place" of love is: "the beginning of love", "when one party loses love", "when the feelings are in crisis", "when the woman is married", the above situation is a perfect time for courtship, and life can grab one of them.
The common form of Go is "standing two and dividing three", "left and right homogeneous center", and the constant form of love is "male talent and female appearance" (or "male wealth and female appearance"), "female short male tall", "female waist".
The key to Go is "the main point of the enemy is the point of my", the point of the enemy I must occupy, the way to win the game of Go, the secret of love is "what the other party thinks is what I think", together to share happiness and share pain, this is the only way to preserve the freshness and stability of love.
Chang Hao jiu duan and his wife Zhang Xuan eight duan
Go requires "slow entry", not to go too deep into the enemy, so as not to invite failure, "shallow elimination" can also be, love should also be maintained at a certain distance in stages, not too close, holding hands, kissing is appropriate, step by step, gradually into a better situation.
A piece of chess needs two eyes, two eyes are born chess is immortal, love needs two eyes: turn a blind eye, open only one eye to see the advantages, close only one eye to hide from shortcomings, have two eyes to love for a hundred years; chess to do real eyes, love to have wisdom; one side on the chessboard wants to be an eye, the other side will want to break the eyes, love to keep two eyes needs to always strictly keep the promise of love; chess is the most convenient to do eyes in the corner, love is the sweetest in no one's seclusion!
Go is quiet, knocking on the child to find a quiet place, letting the leaves fall on the tea, love to the mood, love must be under the moon before the flower, borrowing the shadow of the tree to cover up the rapid breathing.
Go pays attention to "watching chess without saying a true gentleman", avoiding others to interject, more annoying to others, love is to exclude the third person, the most hate the third person to intervene and extramarital love, emotional infidelity is the marriage breakdown, before the adultery also constituted the crime of adultery.
Go is speechless, just to let the player increase the fun of the game, love is silent, at this time space and time have stopped.
For love, if you love, please love deeply, if you don't love, please go away; as far as Go is concerned, if you love, you must love deeply, if you don't love, don't go away, and hold a personal field.
Love is the first language of mankind, no matter where the two sides are, whether they are dumb or deaf, both sides can communicate with their hearts and exchange with affection. Go, also known as "hand talk", is the second language of human beings, and it can be used to express thoughts regardless of deafness and muteness, regardless of skin color and region.
Guli Jiudan and his wife Lü Yuanyang
The changes in Go are infinite and cannot be calculated, the chess player can choose the next hand according to the judgment, love can be perceived, and sometimes "the girl's mind you don't guess, guess can't guess".
In times of social turmoil and economic difficulties, color chess allows chess players to maintain their livelihoods, and has the conditions to study and inherit Go, which has its reason for existence. Love has to receive a bride price, the woman to receive the bride price to balance the psychology of the birth of a woman to suffer, not because of the preference for sons and daughters caused too much gender imbalance, maintain the stability of society, in a long period of time will still exist, should not be completely denied. The two sides of the lottery will be very serious, the quality of the chess is relatively high, the two parties who receive the dowry will seriously weigh the gains and losses, and the love is relatively stable (such as receiving more dowries in rural areas, the divorce rate is relatively small, and the family is relatively stable).
The highest value that a professional chess player can achieve is: achievement = talent + effort + other, the same level of chess players, more talented effort is less, less talent effort is more, talent and effort can not be less than a minimum value; the formula of a person's love is: love = feelings + material + other, the same love value of people, the feelings of more material is less, the feelings of less material, feelings and materials can not be less than a minimum amount. The talent and effort of professional chess players in different eras are not the same, in ancient times, due to economic underdevelopment, only a very small number of people with high talent and great efforts can eat professional meals, and the love of different eras has different requirements for feelings and materials, and the more developed the economy, the higher the requirements (especially material), and the former is just the opposite.
Go masters are naturally familiar with the fixed style and the constant shape of the corners, can accurately grasp the overall situation, the level of the chess players reached a very high level, love masters are commonly known as love field masters, experienced, well aware of the psychology and needs of the other party, can be everywhere to capture the heart, mostly pejorative.
The love of professional Go players is different, Nie Weiping has "faint moves" and "good chess" and "hand tendons", Wu Qingyuan insists on "harmony", and only plays "one game of chess" in his life, and Kong Jie is smiling, releasing the "flying knife" that has been secretly made for many years, and capturing the beautiful woman Chen Xiaoyun in one fell swoop! Kong Jie held the three-star cup in his left hand and carried a beautiful woman in his right hand, the spring breeze was proud, Li Changhao looked envious, and from then on, the heart of the stone Buddha was no longer there, and the body of King Kong was not bad. In ancient times, there was an emperor who said, "There is a golden house in the book, and there is a Yan Ruyu in the book", and now the chess king Kong Jie said: "There is a golden house in chess, and there is Chen Xiaoyun in chess", we are willing to listen to Kong Jie's call, tomorrow we will learn from the teacher, and the level is not enough to find a little flower sister.
Lee Chang-ho Nine Duan with his wife Lee Du Lun
Li Changhao, the first person in Go, has a single expression like a stone Buddha, does not understand the style, and is extremely unfavorable to the world's Go cause, he has occupied the position of world champion for a long time, but he lacks the power to attract female chess fans, and there are few female chess fans who have a crush, resulting in slow growth of the Go population. There is also a handsome guy Gu li, the apogee is one meter eight, the quality is 75kg, it is the miaoling, many times the chess to win Li, a light smile when can kill countless girls in a second, can bear the heavy responsibility of calling on female fans!
Life needs Go, and men need wood foxes. Men have excess intelligence and need to be released from Go; men have legitimate hobbies, so they have fewer bad habits; men have wooden wild foxes as companions, and they will not go to Find Xiao San.
Go, love you is love life, love people, love you is love life. Poor chess players can't play chess, poor character plays with love, chess players live long, and people who play love have a short life.
Go I want what I want, love also I want, life has both, good and good.