Affection and love, in a person's life, occupy a great influence. Everyone wants to have relatives to love and be able to manage a good marriage, but sometimes, there will be a lot of conflicts of interest between family affection and small families.
Two people running a small family will be inextricably linked to the original family. Brotherhood, sister-in-law love, must use some energy to operate. Sometimes, you treat your loved ones with a sincere heart, but he may not treat you with a sincere heart.
If the other party always wants to calculate the family, do not be too polite to such a person, do not think about taking advantage of things, but when the other party has interests, it will think of you, and when there is no profit, even the door is not on, such relatives should be cautious about interacting. Especially in transactions such as bulk items or real estate, be sure to discuss the details of the matter.
If you are afraid of problems and have any doubts, you would rather not do it, and do not wronged yourself because of the interests of the matter, or affect the relationship between the two families. Even if they are brothers, they must clearly settle their accounts. Even if the older brother should help the younger brother, but the younger brother's attitude is not correct, he always wants to pit the younger brother, then the older brother should also teach the younger brother some lessons and let him have a long heart.
A gentleman loves money and has a way of getting it. Between brothers, everything is easy to discuss, and if you want to take a crooked path, then you can't encourage him to have such a trend. Don't give unconditionally, and don't eat dumb losses. Even if it is a disturbance, you can't let the other party act arbitrarily.
After Ye Zi got married, she wanted to have a good relationship with her in-laws. Unexpectedly, I was almost used by my brother and became a wronged boss. Thanks to the cleverness of the husband, otherwise it is really reasonable to say it clearly.
My sister-in-law will sell me the house.
When Ye Zi and Ming Kun got married, they bought a very old second-hand house. Because I didn't have any money, I wanted to do it first. Unexpectedly, it didn't take long for the house to be demolished, and the two people had a new house, which was much larger than before. The two men were overjoyed.
Later, the two of them set up a small shop and did some small business. The store is two floors, the first floor is the façade, and the second floor is small enough to live, so I plan to simply decorate the new house first, and then rent it out.
This matter let Ming Kun's brother Ming Peng know, and said to Ye Zi: "Sister-in-law, why are you renting, I am about to get married, I want to buy a house, so, I buy your house, your house is worth 1 million, I am 1.35 million, how do you see?" Ye Zi said: "This is a big thing, I can't be the lord alone, besides, my own people, you don't need to raise the price, it is really sold to you, it is definitely lower than the market price."
Ming Peng said that the sky is full of flowers, from the houses in this city, to the international situation, from how much is a square meter, to what kind of trend will be the real estate price. Ye Zi listened vaguely, but still did not rush to agree to his brother's request.
Before leaving, Ming peng left a contract, saying that it was for Ye Zi to consider, if it was possible, he would sign it with his brother, 1.35 million, pay it in 20 years, and the rest should be interest.
In the evening, she showed the contract to Mingkun, who looked at it carefully and said to Yezi: "I don't agree, he will look for you again, you said that we plan to go back to live after having children, that is, the recent thing, the house is not for sale." ”
Ye Zi didn't understand, she said: "Don't you want to make the business bigger, lack of start-up capital?" Buying a house, that is, receiving the down payment first, can also solve the urgent need. Besides, when you two brothers talk about things, why don't you talk about them directly, why do you let me talk? ”
Mingkun said, "I didn't want you to know, but now it seems that I have to tell you about these things at home." Ming Peng is a lord who takes advantage of the situation and does not suffer losses, the old house of his parents, he wants, does not know where to do a fake case, and a diagnosis, saying that he has a very rare disease, not life-threatening, but in the future can not do heavy work, can not make too much money, can only maintain his livelihood. ”
"Later, I changed the law and asked my parents to change the real estate certificate of the old house to his name, and I didn't want to argue with him, so I gave it to him." Later, when I saw the way he looked like a villain, I regretted it a little. He was used to him like this, and sooner or later something would happen. If you look closely at the contract, he wants to buy our house at a high price, and he wants to cheat on our house. ”
Ye Zi knew why the two brothers were not in harmony, she looked at the contract carefully and found a lot of unreasonable places. Also, the biggest problem is that the down payment should be 300,000, and he only wrote 30,000. There are a lot of details, all of which are wrong. 1 million house, my brother wanted to buy 1.35 million, my husband did not agree, and I was glad afterwards.
The younger brother came to the door again.
A few days later, Mingpeng came to the door again, and he asked, "Sister-in-law, how are you thinking about it?" Is the house for sale? We went through the formalities and brought all the money for the down payment." Ye Zi asked him coldly, "How much is the down payment?" Ming Peng's face changed and he said, "As much as is written on the contract, I will pay as much as I want." ”
Ye Zi said: "Men who really have the ability, go outside to work hard, and make money in a bright and upright way." Those incompetent little people do those things that pit their own brothers. If there is such a brother, it is better not to have it, you say? brother-in-law. ”
Ming Peng was still stiff-mouthed, and he said: "Sister-in-law, what you said is ugly, there are inappropriate places in the contract, we can discuss and change." I have a careless problem, which is not right, you say it directly, why do you curse people in a corner. Ye Zi ignored him, threw the contract at him, and said to him: "I don't sell the house, keep it to live by myself, the second floor here is ready to do the storefront, expand the operation, you go to buy other houses, how much money you pay, we will not sell it to you." ”
At this time, Ming Kun also came and said to Ming Peng, "I knew that you would pick my sister-in-law when I was not there." What virtue you are, our family knows it all. If you want our new house again, I will go to court to sue, and the old house should also have half of me, and when the time comes, don't say that I embarrass you."
These words made it clear that Peng Peng slipped away. The leaves have also grown insight, and there are really such shameless people under this day. Mingkun said, "No matter what he says in the future, don't pay attention to him." If he doesn't repent, I shouldn't have this brother. ”
Ye Zi felt very helpless, pro brother, because the interests became like this, it was really a thinning of human feelings than paper. It's a real headache to have such a selfish brother on the stall.
How to get along between brothers.
The friendship between brothers is very precious. If you blindly pursue profits, you will become more and more selfish. Then this kind of blood is thicker than water affection, which will change its taste.
Many families, when there are many brothers, often cannot distribute resources equally, so it will be very discordant. Brothers who have improper intentions will use many methods that are not in the flow to strive for more benefits. Often when there are good things, they will mix a foot, and when he needs to contribute, he will run faster than anyone.
As the eldest brother in the family, he should not always be the one who suffers losses. When the younger brother makes inappropriate demands, it is his right to fight for fair treatment. In fact, doing so will make his brother unhappy at that time, but he will also guard his own bottom line, so that he does not dare to act rashly.
If the younger brother is clever, the older brother must also use a more powerful way to let him know that cheating will be punished. Since then, I dare not do anything out of the ordinary. Whether it is a big thing or a small thing, when the brother should not always be humble, when he should be calculated, he will not give in, even if he does not care about those interests, he cannot let the younger brother develop the bad habit of getting something for nothing.
Between brothers, even if there is a falling out, they cannot indulge the selfish one. Even if he is not close, he cannot be allowed to take advantage of him all the time. The older a person is, the more he will know that in this world, there are many people whose three views are different from their own. Dragons give birth to nine sons, each with its own differences, do not be too entangled in the relationship between each other, but choose to swallow the anger.
As a sister-in-law, you must also know the true character of your brother. Don't see the benefits and foolishly hook up, not knowing that the other party is opening a big net, waiting for you to be hooked. On some major matters, it is necessary to consult with your husband so that you can avoid losses and not be easily deceived.
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