Growing up is a process of resignation. At the age of 15, he suffered for his studies, at the age of 20, he was heartbroken for his lost love, and at the age of 30, he was drunk for life, and he fled the city gate of youth in a hurry, and he would find that more difficult life problems were closely followed by questions.
The conformist adults are experienced sailors who know how to get around the dangers of reality, and even rebels have to calculate the cost of gain and loss in advance.
After work one day, I got up on a temporary basis, bought the car of the latest trip, and went to Qinhuangdao to see the sea. When I arrived at the station, I suddenly felt nostalgic for this feeling of being on the road, so I bought a green-skinned ticket and slowly returned to Beijing.
The decadent mood was swept away. The next day, I clocked in on time and no one knew about my departure.
I started constantly trying to mess up life on a small scale. Eating family buckets in front of fitness instructors, drinking heavily on weekdays, liking your boss's Weibo during work hours, and floating in junk food. Such a dragonfly rebellion brought me great pleasure.
After chatting with a few friends, I found that adult rebellion, although simple but frequent, because the opportunity to vaguely feel unscrupulous was becoming less and less.
<h1 class="ql-align-center" > reckless feeling, which is great</h1>
In my junior year, I interned at a film information entry company, nine to five.
On the first day of my employment, I deliberately arrived 20 minutes early, but it was not until ten o'clock that I saw other employees walking in one after another. Because the boss does not often come to the company, everyone is inertial late and often leaves work early. The company only has one intern, piece-by-piece salary, more work and more, regular employees receive a fixed salary, no commission. Therefore, they paddle during working hours, watch movies, watch dramas, play games, and enter up to a dozen movies per person per month.
In fact, it is very easy to enter film information, I can complete two a day, but in order to successfully intern in this company and integrate into the working atmosphere of regular employees, I try to keep pace with everyone, and rely on going to livehouse every weekend to do part-time work and supplement life.
A week before the end of my internship, I suddenly became serious, entering two movie messages a day, and completing more work in one week than many regular employees do per month.
--- Ice Ice Summer
On the pretext of buying snacks for the children, he ran to the school gate, bought a bunch of spicy strips of different brands and shapes, and went home to eat them secretly.
--- Shin
Because of a boy, I resigned naked from a good company and came to Beijing to live with him. Unemployed for a whole year, he and his family pretended to be at work.
--- leaflets
Eat snail powder in the office and turn a blind eye to the cleanliness colleague who covers his nose.
---Morning
Worked for three years in a central company and lived without weekends.
In 2017, I especially wanted to go to the Suzhou Midi Music Festival, and it took at least six days, compared with three days during the May Day holiday. The company has regulations that require the signature of the leader for more than three days of vacation, and the approval process is complicated. I didn't take leave in advance, skipped three days of work, and quietly went to midi.
In those days, I took a lot of cool photos, forgot to shield the leader when sending the circle of friends, and was scolded for a morning when I went back to work.
--- Qin Wan
In my junior year, I wanted to intern at a company I had been dreaming of for a long time, and my mother wanted me to go home to take the civil service exam or stay in school for graduate school. Seeing that I didn't want to die without hitting the south wall, she didn't provide any financial support and let me run into a wall. So I came to Beijing with the only 1,000 yuan in the card and borrowed it to live at a friend's house.
When the interview mentioned the salary, HR said that the intern's salary was 120 per day, and I said at least 5000 per month, otherwise I would not survive. After the interview, I didn't get a response for a whole week, and I made a desperate bet, only interviewing that company, leaving no way back for myself.
I took the initiative to send a WeChat message to the CEO: "When will there be an interview result?" I didn't interview any other company, I'm going to follow you. ”
Two days later, the offer came, which was the position I wanted to go to and gave me the ideal salary.
--- exploded sugar
In the group of relatives, you can often see the push of various traditional Chinese medicine and health care products, many of which are unscientific. But I don't dare say anything. If I raise an objection in the group, my relatives will say "the effect is very good", and then I will ask if I have a boyfriend and when I will graduate.
During the New Year, a relative sent a red envelope in the group, and the people who received the red envelope expressed their feelings and sighs. I stubbornly did not receive it, but curious about how big the red packet was, clicked on the red packet record, and felt that I had missed hundreds of millions.
--- Huiqi
Knowing that he had to go out for 4 hours, he deliberately did not turn off the air conditioner before going out. Ignorant and sloppy at the age of 20, this is my biggest rebellion.
--- Yuanyuan
I'm the CEO of a startup, and when my colleagues don't complete their monthly KPIs, I deliberately pay my salary a day late. I like to see them secretly in a hurry and dare not speak.
--- small day
<h1 class="ql-align-center" > unreasonable adults, all make sense</h1>
My ex-husband and I divorced when our daughter was 12 years old. Because of my decision to let my child lose her complete family, I felt guilty and tried to meet her needs.
A woman with her own children, life is tight, but I dare not let the child know the economic situation of the family, for fear that she will have inferiority complex, every time shopping, I take her to the big shopping mall, buy brand goods. My daughter fell in love with rock and roll in junior high school, so I approached the most famous guitar teacher in the area and sent her to learn guitar. After two months of study, her best song was only "Little Star", and when she called her guitar teacher, she learned that her daughter was lazy in class and often watched cartoons with the teacher's son.
I was so angry that in order to save money for her to learn guitar, I walked 4 kilometers to work every day, never took a taxi, and did not buy a decent dress in the two years after my divorce. Questioning my daughter at night and reasoning with her, she not only confronted and defended herself, but also lied to me.
The next day, I deliberately didn't wake her up, making her late and being criticized by the teacher. At that time, she had a good final exam, and I took a leave of absence, but I didn't go to the parent-teacher conference, and I walked around the street by myself for an afternoon and bought a pair of shoes that had been in the picture for a long time.
--- is quiet
When I was in graduate school, my mentor liked to ask me to drink with him. In order to successfully graduate, I studied graduate school for three years, and I was almost drunk every week. When I graduated and left school, I gave my tutor two cases of special milk, which expired in 5 days.
--- held high
Secretly cancel the weibo exchange with the boss, and when the boss asks, find an excuse to prevaricate.
--- Lu
My ex used to have a mind game with me, but most of the time he couldn't talk about me. He has a habit of collecting CDs, and when he was in love, I gave him many CDs, including many out-of-print albums, and he hated my musical taste and never listened.
Two years after the breakup, during a small talk, I asked him: "At that time, the CDs sent to you were not listened to, and if you don't like them, send them back to me." He suddenly confessed that in fact those CDs he often listened to, just pretended not to like them.
--- Su Guo
I often squeeze my boss to like an idol, and it just so happens that I have a channel to get idol performance tickets and autographed photos. For the first time, the leader smiled and squinted at me and asked me for tickets and autographs. I grinned and replied that she didn't, and gave the ticket to my friend, signing the photo and pasting it on the desk.
--- Aliu
In my 20th year as an HR, my boss approached me and asked me to think of a reasonable reason to fire a colleague without compensation. I didn't want to do that and resigned myself.
--- Jianchao
Grandma has always preferred sons to daughters, the most filial mother, she never read well, saving money to the two uncles who have lost their families. The year before, my grandmother was sick and hospitalized, and my two uncles did not pay for it, nor did they come to see my grandmother once. Grandma was angry with her two sons, and every day she lay on the hospital bed to wipe her tears and sprinkle her resentment on her mother.
When my grandfather died last year, my two uncles suddenly and frequently returned to their hometowns and took turns to persuade my grandmother to sell the house and live in her own home, hoping to get the money from the sale of the house. Grandma stubbornly guarded the house and did not sell it, and did not see her uncle behind closed doors until her death in May this year.
--- Lotus
The girl I have a crush on is studying in Shanghai, while I work in Beijing. In order to successfully pursue her, I openly and secretly tried to use an excuse to ask the boss for instructions, hoping to transfer to the Shanghai branch.
After a year of grinding, the boss finally agreed, drank a lot of wine that night, and the next day drunkenly received the transfer documents and found himself transferred to the Branch office in Chengdu. I thought the boss was joking and ran to ask him. The boss said: "Even if you go to Shanghai, you may not really be able to catch her." "I had to get on the plane to Chengdu in a bitter mood.
When I arrived in Chengdu, I still sent a message to my boss every three or five minutes and applied to go to Shanghai. Half a year later, I finally got what I wanted to go to Shanghai, and when I received the news, I confirmed it several times, and this time it was true. After arriving in Shanghai, the girl with a crush invited me to dinner, and at the dinner table, her boyfriend told me to eat more.
--- Achen
Falling in love with an influencer, in order not to affect his single personality on the Internet, every time I meet in public, I keep a certain distance from him.
He has always been mysterious in his whereabouts, and I am also very sensible and never ask questions. After dating for half a year, I learned that in addition to me, he had another girlfriend A, girlfriend B.
On the last date, we went shopping in Sanlitun, which was the easiest place for his fans to meet. For the first time, I took his hand and pulled him in line at the influencer shop and took a lot of group photos.
When I came home at night, I didn't make any explanation, blocked all his contact information, and made an ignorant farewell for this too sensible relationship.
--- Pears
< h1 class= "ql-align-center" > overall emotional stability and partial rebellion</h1>
The company clearly stipulates that alcohol is not allowed during work. For a while, when work was stressful, I stored a bottle of wine in the company refrigerator, secretly drank a few sips every afternoon, and sometimes bought juice to mix with colleagues who worked overtime. Such a cautious rebellion has the pleasure of sneaking snacks in class when I was a student.
When the wine was about to be drunk, the owner found it and asked me whose wine was in the refrigerator. I pretended not to hear.
--- Liu is on holiday
Secretly in love with a person for ten years, has been with him as a friend. Last month, he got married. I blocked him for ten minutes and pulled him back again.
--- Cat kill
After work, I received the customer's WeChat to add an application, and it was approved before going to bed.
--- Add ice
I work as an editor and director in a TV station, and my income is stable, but the work content can only be described as dull as water, not creative and artistic, but can only be said to be documentary. After working for more than two years, my professional ability has not improved at all, and I can't even compare with the student works I took in college.
I resigned without my family' knowledge. In fact, I didn't think about what kind of job I wanted to find, but I knew very well that the life in front of me was not what I wanted. After half a month at home, I got an assistant job in a director's studio with a monthly salary of more than 2,000, and even the rent was not enough. I rented the house and cheekily laid the floor at my buddies' house.
This new job has rekindled my passion for movies that have been on hold for a long time. I was tired and earned less, but when I was the poorest, I also made a girlfriend, who said that I had a very valuable juvenile spirit in my eyes.
After half a year, a scam phone call that looked very similar to the one that I had left as a way out cheated away the tens of thousands of dollars I had left as a way out. The days of poverty and happiness came to an end, and in order to quickly return to normal life, I went to work as a real estate agent.
--- Yanqing
At the entrance team building meal, he scolded all the leaders present with drunkenness, and went to work the next day like amnesia.
--- wake up
Approaching the deadline, the task was about to be completed, so I hid in the bathroom for an hour, crying and talking to my friends on the phone. Back in the office, the leader asked me why I went, and I said that I had a bad stomach. The bathroom is like a transfer station for leave, you can't say you can go, at least you can cry if you want.
--- apricot pear
At the age of 42, she secretly liked the young female clerk of the 711 downstairs of the company. She looked a lot like the physics class representative I had a crush on in high school, and at that time, I always deliberately turned in my homework late and waited for the class representative to collect it.
Every afternoon I went to buy oden and sat in the shop to eat it, but I never spoke to her, and I still obediently went home in the evening to eat the food cooked by my wife.
--- Zhong Ming
Receive several long voices in a row, never listen, reply to emoticons, or "mm-hmm."
---san-three
Mom is a teacher and is often late for work. Once, she was a minute late, just caught by the principal, and was severely criticized in the hallway. Mom never came late again, but she didn't say a word to the principal throughout the semester.
--- Morning Sun
What can be done immediately should be postponed to the deadline. Do not return the message of Party A, but also send a circle of friends, and when Party A is in a hurry, send him a set of perfect plans.
--- hat
Walking in the neighborhood at night, an elder brother called while running, saying that he was going to buy a supercar and find a woman who did not love him.
--- Ah Feng
In the summer, I worked at the construction site and became familiar with several migrant workers. An older brother who has been married for 10 years likes to go for a walk at a nearby university in the evening to watch the girls running on the playground. He said his dream when he was young was to buy a truck and marry a female college student.
--- Lin Yiming
The boss speaks in the company group, and colleagues tacitly hold the following, copy and paste the same sentence, and maintain a neat formation. I deliberately sent something else.
--- Xiao Cui
Last summer, I worked overtime for a week. One day when I got off work, it was 3 a.m., I couldn't get a taxi, so I simply came to an 8-kilometer night run. At the intersection of an empty street, I ran an undetected red light.
--- Chippe
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Planner of this issue: Liu Yan