Before getting married and having children, many couples continue the love period of love, the feelings are sweet, free, and they don't see each other for a day, such as every three autumns. Each became the only one in their minds.
Due to the influence of traditional concepts such as marriage and childbearing, inheritance and inheritance, most of them have the crystallization of love in less than a year after marriage - children. So the theme of love and the content of emotion have changed dramatically.
Because of the birth of the child, the couple's daily life begins to revolve around the child. However, it is such a turn that may make the husband and wife ignore the maintenance of each other's emotional relationship, and gradually, the feelings will fade.
Perhaps, we all know that children are the heart of parents and the pearl in the palm of their parents. But this love cannot be deepened, or even favored. After all, the relationship between the child and the parents is different from the relationship between the husband and wife, and it cannot be replaced by each other.
The so-called a family, the relationship between husband and wife is like a foundation, the foundation is not strong, the child can not settle down, happy life. Healthy physical and mental growth is also greatly affected, right?
It is not so much that the child is the hope of the parents, but rather that the child is the sustenance of the parents in their later years. In the later years, the children are generally only twenty or thirty years old, and the husband and wife are dependent on each other for a lifetime.
Therefore, after having children, in addition to taking care of children, in the busy work of the day, it is best for husband and wife to take a little time out, and the two can go out shopping together, go to the park for a walk together, watch movies together, have a meal together, read books and study together, drink tea and chat together.... Enjoy the world of two, reminisce more about the sweet times of past love, and nourish each other's hearts with love. This is bound to be of great benefit to maintaining and enhancing the emotional relationship between husband and wife.
Speaking of which, the answer is also very clear. What is the most taboo thing for women after giving birth? It is that some women, after giving birth to a child, completely poured a heart on the child, "" the child as the only, completely "empathetic and not in love", leaving the husband hanging aside, ignoring the husband's feelings and desire for love. Perhaps, as a man, you may also feel that your wife is now taking care of the children every day and is busy with housework. You should understand and support your wife, and you should put your mind on your children and your career.
As everyone knows, such a long time, the lack of spiritual communication between husband and wife, the lack of love nourishment, the man's hormones bubble, the probability of affair infidelity will be greatly increased. Don't believe it, according to statistics, the most concentrated time point for men to cheat is after women give birth. Therefore, women should pay attention to adjusting the payment of good love after marriage and having children, coordinate and take into account the relationship between husband and wife, and do not let the marriage have a crisis.
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