#Under what circumstances can people attain enlightenment?#Is love a feeling? Probably most people will say: Maybe! Because we're not sure what love really is. If love is a feeling, then when he encounters a challenge, the feeling will soon disappear. Because it's easy to get this feeling in different people, the most common narrative of empathy is that I don't feel it anymore.
But what about true love? It's not a feeling, it's more of a responsibility, a mutual sacrifice and mutual accomplishment. This passage was what I heard from Teacher Luo Xiang, and it also gave me a better understanding of what love is. That's right! How can true love be a temporary feeling, true love is never a momentary heat of the mind, but a long-term effort, true love is not for one person's heart, but for one person's heart.
True love is not an instant touch, but necessarily a permanent commitment. When you truly love someone, you will not hesitate to know that there is no benefit to you. Teacher Chen Guo said: Love is the most useless thing, in addition to bringing you pain, can not let you devote yourself to work, delay your road to success. But when you really love someone, do you still think about that? The answer must be no. As the saying goes, people in love have zero IQ, and it is true.
What is love? In my opinion, true love is a two-way rush, not a one-sided effort. I used to love, I used to think that unilateral giving is love, as long as I am good to her, it is love, and then I found out that I was wrong, I was just imposing my love on others. For her it was a burden on me, a pressure. That's right! True love, getting along should make each other feel comfortable, real love you how can you be willing to make her unhappy.
Don't make your love heavy and a burden on others. True love is wanting her to be happy, and if he wasn't happy with you, let it go. Since your original intention is to make her happy and happy, why force it, the force is mutual, and so is love. Hold too tightly, and eventually each other will be hurt, since you love him, how can you be willing to hurt her.
Love rises with the wind, the wind is difficult to calm, rather than chasing the wind, it is better to wait for the wind to come.
The more you love, the more you feel that there is no love.