Yu Xinchun's impromptu speech at Nankai University The easiest thing to give up is the most important

This article is based on the records of the scene and has not been revised and reviewed by the speaker

Students all think about it, what is the easiest thing for you to give up, and what is the thing that you often give up the easiest? In fact, these things, you think about it in hindsight, is he more important to you? For example, according to most of us, what is the easiest thing to give up? In fact, it is exercise, we can find any reason, you can not exercise today, do not run or swim, but, you think in hindsight, no reason can be more important than health and more defensible, but why are we so easy to give up? It is because the things we are most likely to give up will not produce results on the same day, we think that this time I give up this time without exercising, it doesn't matter, but I don't know, we give up once, it is easier to give up the second time, then the third time to give up is also logical

The easiest thing in the world to form a habit is to give up, we turn it into a habit, into a way, and as a result, many things are ignored and abandoned. The things you care about most are precisely the things that need to be accumulated over time to meditate on. We give up one day, and as a result we give up the next day, and in the long run, we become a pattern of abandonment, forming a lifestyle of abandonment.

When we sum up the past, we often say that I regret how, how I regret, in fact, if you look deeper, you will find that our most regretful regret is not because of what we did, but because we did not do anything? Why didn't you do anything, in fact, to give up, and where is the reason for giving up? Any one of these reasons is easy to give up, but these reasons can be overcome in hindsight.

Some classmates may have the association that I gave up on someone, but that person was very important to me, and as a result, I often think of that person now. Please note that what I am talking about giving up here is giving up things, not characters, is things, I am not here to talk about emotions, real emotions do not have the only standard answer, if you think of giving up, you have never regretted no regrets after you gave up, then give up in a dashing way. If you give up today and from tomorrow it becomes your own discomfort, your own indisputable anger, then this solution is wrong.

But anything that has a little prospect, something that can be challenged, is almost something that no one else has done. In the situation that others have not done, you start to do it, you insist, you resist your hesitation, you resist the temptation of giving up, you insist on being tenacious to the end, you may become a more worthy of your expectations.