Everyone's encounter is caused by fate, and whether they can love each other has nothing to do with fate, after all, there is no love that exists in the corners of the world. Some people's encounters are destined to pass by, love is not allowed, and demand not to come.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="2" > love and can't let go</h1>
Love without being able to be an obsession is painful to let go, but persistence will increase the pain of another person.
Wang Dao is Shi Yi's crush in "Once In a Lifetime", and when he knows that Shi Yi has a boyfriend, the disappointment in his eyes has nowhere to hide. But he chose to be perfect, and until the end his love was not spoken.
It is not that she is not firm enough in this relationship, but that love is deep, it is not to increase the burden on the person she loves, and fulfillment may be the best ending, and the sentence "as long as she likes" is the best evidence.
For Wang Dao's crush, Shi Yi is not necessarily unaware, after all, all the people in the office can see it, and Shi Yi is not a person who does not understand love. Since a relationship can't get into the heart, why should it be broken?
In fact, true love is the obsession of a lifetime, even if they are not together in the end, they will still leave a place in their hearts for the one who was once, letting go is just to achieve perfection, and "love" will not be reduced by half a point because of the departure of that person, otherwise, how to call it "love"?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="23" > love and can't let go is also self-liberation</h1>
Some people regard their lover as a luxury, an obsession, a self-fulfillment that does not care.
Liu Zixing is an admirer of Yi Shiyi in "Zhou Sheng Ru Gu", because a portrait is hopelessly in love with Yi Shiyi, completely disregarding that he has a Princess Xinghua who loves herself as she is, and whether Or not she is devoted to herself, his love is wishful thinking.
When the marriage is dissolved, The time is full of joy, and Liu Zixing is full of disappointment, perhaps this is also a fuse for him to blacken, the woman he loves, to rely on others to fight, the fate is not in his own hands at all.
Liu Zixing also asked Shi Yi if she was willing to follow him if she sought a fiefdom, and the answer was "unwilling" to the point. But this naked refusal did not make Liu Zixing wake up, but used more despicable means in exchange for the opportunity to be with Xiao Shiyi.
Liu Zixing loves Shi yi, but his love is selfish and ruthlessly kidnapped. Knowing that the other party does not love himself, but wishful thinking uses means to take advantage of the robbery, it is finally appropriate to jump off the city tower on the day of the big wedding to choose relief, and he is also on the sickbed.
Wishful thinking love is the most torturous, it turns love into paranoia, into resentment, and it tortures others and yourself. If you love and have to let go as soon as possible, let yourself be liberated.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="24" > love and can't, in fact, is the norm in life</h1>
Everyone has an obsession in their hearts, a person who loves and cannot. After all, what you don't get is the best.
In "Zhou Sheng As It Was", Hong Xiaoyu and Liu Feng are both in love, but Liu Feng has to marry Princess Xinghua because of family honor and humiliation, and Princess Xinghua admires Liu Zixing, but in the end they are not able to be together. In "One Life and One Life", Zhou Wenchuan and Xiao Manqingmei Zhuma have a deep love, but forced by family interests, they have to marry Tong Jia, who also does not love themselves.
Life is like this, there will be a lot of unforgettable, but because often can not determine their own fate with their own subjective consciousness, life is more regret and love can not be.
Perhaps, taking "not getting" as a norm, getting it is a fortunate thing, and not getting it is a hundred things in life. Some love themselves have worked hard, and there is no need to hurt the spirit anymore. Most importantly, don't turn your love into the shackles of others.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="25" > conclusion</h1>
There are two kinds of results of love and not being able to do so, some people choose to let go and complete each other, and some people choose to exhaust their means, destroying each other and destroying themselves. I have to say that Wang Dao knows more about love than Liu Zixing.
In fact, sometimes, some feelings are like this, you like it or not, you want to get it, you can't get it even if you try to get it.
If a relationship is not two feelings of mutual pleasure, then no amount of persistence is a kind of disturbance, rather than this, it is better to let go and change your heart to a clear heart.