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Love is like fireworks, illuminating the world of two people in the moment of bloom, and after a short romance, it is a long period of plainness.
At the beginning of love, there is as much enthusiasm as there is, and at the end, there is so much sadness.
When it comes to the sad place, women will no longer shed tears, nor will they make a big fuss, nor will they be entangled, but silent. It was silent, as if life had been lost.
The silence of a woman is a kind of silent despair, a kind of silent farewell.
Love makes a woman brave, she takes the initiative to approach the beloved person, but when she gradually realizes that the other party does not love herself, she is discouraged and builds a cold wall for two people.
In love, in women, silence represents not acquiescence, not compromise, but a cold despair. This silence is the process of heartbreaking piece by piece.
02, after the woman is really silent, she is no longer dependent
After a woman is desperate, she will always find the way she really wants to go, and find the direction she should go.
Perhaps this road is full of thorns, and it is necessary to use one's flesh and blood to open up, without the slightest hesitation, let alone timidity.
She no longer sees the kitchen as her own battlefield, instead of taking care of men as her only mission, and she will try to get out there and blend into the bigger world out there.
After the woman becomes desperate from the bottom of her heart, she becomes no longer dependent on him, but will learn to be strong in herself.
She will change back into professional clothes, find her professional spirit, and find the joy of making money again, no longer waiting for men to give alms, and no longer being cautious in praying for men's protection.
The silent woman, whose tears may have dried up, also knows that her gentleness cannot be exchanged for a man's sincerity. It is better to give yourself a strong opportunity to face all kinds of suffering and make yourself strong.
When a woman wakes up, she will no longer live on anyone, nor will she give her all for love. The past is like a dream, good and bad, stop thinking, be born again, face reality, and love yourself.
Silence is the final farewell, the last dignity of oneself, putting away all bad emotions, and fighting for oneself for the rest of one's life.
03, after the woman is really silent, she no longer looks forward to it
When two people have a conflict, if the woman will still be angry, quarrel, and pray, then she still has some expectations for this feeling, and she has not completely disappointed in the man in her heart.
If a man has a heart, knows how to grow himself, knows how to take care of women's feelings, and can keep the people in this world who really love him.
However, when a woman becomes indifferent and indifferent, there is no room for maneuver in the relationship. She is more thinking about how to protect herself and stop having any entanglement with men.
After the woman is truly silent, she no longer looks forward to it, no longer fantasizes about each other going back to the beginning.
No matter what the man says or does, her heart will not have any fluctuations, all the love will become the past, all the love will become the cloud. At this time, her heart has drawn a line with men, and she is eager to never see each other again in this life.
The woman who is heartbroken will no longer have any expectations for this love, will no longer fantasize that two people can return to the state of first love, and will not expect someone to coax and someone to spoil.
After the woman is silent, she is no longer emotional, but will think rationally about life.
She will plan a person's life, will improve herself for the sake of her career, return to the areas she knows best, focus on her work, and stop being willful.
This emotional experience made her know that marriage and love are not the whole of life. If you have encountered failures on the one hand, you should work hard in other aspects and do not let your life fail and be worthless.
04, after the woman is really silent, she will no longer be there
Women are very bold, when they fall in love with someone, they will give up completely, and when she is determined to give up a relationship, she will not give the other party any chance to make up.
Even if she loves deeply in her heart, the other party's lack of cherishing and not paying attention to her will gradually discourage her, and she will not let men continue to trample on her love and dignity.
When a woman pursues true love, she is vigorous, and once she knows that she is really wrong, she will also leave in a categorical way, knowing that the man no longer loves, and staying by his side is the greatest cruelty to herself.
If a man decides to be with a woman, he must cherish her and take care of her.
If you lose a woman's true heart, you will not be able to find it back in this lifetime. She can suffer with men and work together for a better future, but she can't accept men's unlove.
A woman's love cannot withstand the hurt again and again. If it is consumed without a bottom line, sooner or later, one day, the woman will fall into silence, and after the silence, it is the trick.
When a woman leaves without hesitation, the man should be clear that the relationship has really come to an end. Even if you want to save it, it is too late.
After the woman is silent, she is discouraged, no longer will be, but will decisively choose to leave, not dragging mud and water.
05, the real silence of women, called discouragement
Once a woman has a cold heart, she will become desperate and decisive.
Gibran said, "While the waves of words are always noisy above us, our depths are always silent." ”
Women's silence is also a strong expression of their own innermost heart. No one cherishes their own efforts, no one runs this relationship with themselves, disappointed for a long time, in exchange for despair.
Women with cold hearts will no longer spend their energy on their lovers, but will begin to pay attention to self-shaping. Make yourself stronger and stronger, strong enough to forget men, and you can have a happy and beautiful life yourself.
No matter how much joy and romance there was in the past time, she would no longer have illusions about the future, even if it was difficult and painful, she would accept the reality and move forward and never look back.
When two people are together, they must cherish each other, pay each other, understand each other, do not let each other's hearts be full of despair, and finally decide to leave.
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