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<h3 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >01 When a woman is silent, it means that the marriage is in danger</h3>
There is a saying that the person who wants to leave, the door is the lightest, and the person who wants to leave never says leave.
Oh, yes! The same is true in the relationship, when a woman is still willing to argue with you and make trouble with you, it means that there is still hope for you, but if a woman becomes silent, no matter what you do, she does not say, indicating that she is disappointed in this marriage.
Classmate Tingting is now getting more and more silent with her husband.
In the past, she always quarreled with her husband because of some small things, and then slowly tired, she began not to quarrel, and she did not say anything.
A few days ago, Tingting said that she was washing dishes, the child was crying, and her husband was playing with the mobile phone and doing nothing, so she washed her hands and went to coax the child.
In the past, I would be very angry in the face of such a situation, always quarreling with my husband, thinking that my husband could take more handles, but in the end, my husband not only did not take a handle, but quarreled with himself more.
After more than a year of such a day, I really had enough, and I didn't want to argue, and I was disappointed in this person.
In fact, marriage is like this, when you love, you have hope for a person, and you will often nag, hoping that the other party can do better.
However, when a woman finds that her nagging is not only ineffective, but will cause serious quarrels, or be disliked by the other party, a woman will slowly change herself and force herself not to nag.
Maybe this kind of non-nagging is persecution at first, but slowly women will get used to it, and eventually they will become more and more silent.
When a woman is silent for a long time, the man's position in their hearts will become less and less important, and eventually the marriage will be dangerous.
<h3 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >02 Women were silent and were disappointed</h3>
There is a saying that silence is the last coldness of the heart.
Because the heart is cold, it will be silent.
My cousin and my cousin-in-law used to be in love with each other, but now my cousin has become less and less talkative.
It turned out that at first they were very in love, but then slowly the cousin-in-law's temper became more and more grumpy, and a little thing became angry.
For example, in the evening, the cousin cooked a meal, and the cousin-in-law began to get angry when he saw that it was not appetizing, either scolding the cousin for not caring about his feelings, or scolding the cousin for not loving him.
It was always in the cousin's opinion that anything could make the cousin scold.
And his cousin washed his clothes for him, he was either disgusted with not washing, or felt that the way of washing was not right, in short, he could find a lot of problems.
It is even more exaggerated that the cousin looks at the mobile phone and the sound is not right, and it is not right not to talk for a long time, in short, it is not right to do anything.
Looking at her husband's appearance, my cousin's heart was extremely cold, and she was extremely disappointed in this man.
So when the cousin is with the cousin," she talks less and less, and she can not speak at home without talking.
Some people say that the cousin has changed, in fact, it is not that the cousin has changed, but the cousin is disappointed with the man and does not hold out any hope, so the conversation is getting less and less.
In fact, a woman, when she loves you, she will have requirements for a man, and when she cares about a man, she will take the initiative to talk to men a lot and care about men's feelings.
But if a woman is silent, has no requirements for men, and does not care about men's feelings, it means that this woman has been disappointed, and this marriage is dangerous.
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<h3 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >03 Woman is silent and you're going to lose her</h3>
Zhang Xiaoxian once said: A man's harm to a woman is not necessarily that he is in love with someone else, but that he disappoints her when she has expectations.
Once a woman is silent, it means that she is disappointed, and you are about to lose her.
I know that I have seen such a question and answer: why do women stay silent, and what will they do after silence?
One of the netizens said this: Women are silent because they are disappointed in a person and have no hope for the relationship, so they will become more and more silent.
They used to nag, hoping you could change, but then when they were disappointed, they stopped nagging because they didn't care.
So once a woman has gone from nagging to silent, don't feel like she's domesticated by you, but worry! Because you're about to lose her.
Because a woman's nagging at the beginning is hope, it is love, slow silence is the loss of hope, once hope is lost, then love is lost, and when love is not, you are going to lose her.
Someone who may not lose her, but her heart will never be there.
Chat with friends before.
We talked about the situation under which I would get divorced, and almost unanimously agreed on a point of view: when a man disappoints me, I can not divorce, but it is completely impossible to expect me to be careful and care, and to expect me to love you.
So, when a woman becomes more and more silent, think about whether she has done something to disappoint the other party.
<h3 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >04 Love your wife, don't let your wife be more and more silent</h3>
There are two realms in life: one is pain without words, and the other is laughter without words.
Some people say that this is because life has erased the edges and corners, which is a compromise with the world and others, but in fact, I think this is not the case.
When a woman becomes more and more silent, she is not erased from the edges and corners, but disappointed, looking down on some people, looking down on feelings, and looking down on marriage.
When a woman becomes more and more silent, it is a kind of pain that does not speak, because it hurts too much, does not want to say it, because it hurts too much, and never wants to experience it again.
So they will lock their hearts, no longer let themselves be hurt, do not want to be so tired.
There was a saying on Zhihu: Whenever I say anything, she is just silent, and I know that we are irretrievable.
So for a man, if he loves his wife, don't let his wife become more and more silent.
In ordinary times, I care more about her feelings and cherish the time she nags, because that is her love for you.
Maybe it's urging you to get up early, maybe it's urging you to go to bed early, maybe it's hoping you'll help her share, maybe it's hoping you'll give this family more effort.
But whatever it is, it means that she is full of hope for this marriage, full of love for this marriage, and full of love for you.
So if you love your wife, don't let your wife be silent, once you find that your wife has less words, you must care for your wife in time, and don't let your wife lock her heart.
Marriage is not easy, two people can walk together, can be together is not easy, so cherish the nagging woman, cherish their love.
No matter how difficult the future life is, we will work together and go on happily together.
May everyone in the marriage care about each other's feelings, not let each other feel cold, not let each other down, and finally accompany each other for a lifetime.
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