Fast forward to another year of school.
Daughter, accompany you to register, watch you carry a big school bag, full of joy to run into the new campus, as a parent, Dad is full of satisfaction and expectation, but also mixed with anxiety and uneasiness.
Today, Dad will tell you some of the unspoken rules of campus that are rarely said, but have always existed.
I believe that after you read it, you will be able to understand the school more deeply.
About Learning:
The classmate who always said, "I don't like to learn."
In fact, I work harder than anyone
Dad remembers that after the final exams last semester, you went home in a huff and complained:
"There was a classmate in our class who was really hypocritical.
Usually, he says 'I don't like to study' and 'I hate reading the most', but every time the results come out, he is the top three in the class. ”
Looking at your angry look, your mother and I looked at each other without speaking.
Silly kid, you're still too young.
When you reach my age, you will know:
Learning itself is an anti-human thing, no one is born willing to suffer hardships, like to take classes and write homework.
But every stage of life has its own responsibilities.
And the real masters are always those who have the courage to take responsibility.
You say that she is "hypocritical", but in dad's eyes, baby you are really immature, because even if she does not love to learn, she still has not given up her efforts.
Daughter, in this era of rapid development, resource sharing, and abundant talents, if you want to stand out, stand out, and excel, it is more difficult and more difficult than your father's time, and you need to work harder.
Dad's favorite director Ang Lee once said:
"Life is not just sitting and waiting, good luck will fall from the sky, even if it is destined, you have to find it yourself." 」
Whether you try hard or not, the result will be very different. ”
Dad understood that continuous effort is a very hard thing to do.
But don't forget,
If you don't work hard, how can your talent be worthy of your willfulness;
Without effort, how can your footsteps catch up with the speed at which your parents are aging;
Don't work hard, the world is so big, what do you rely on to see.
This is the reality of life.
Daughter, you are already a mature girl, dad does not want to be like other parents, hide the pain and pain of parents, only to show you the good side.
If you can't eat the pain of reading now, you will encounter things that are a hundred times more painful than reading in the future.
In comparison, the pain of reading when I was young is actually not bitter.
I'll tell you, there are always some people in life who find it useless to study hard. But the more people who have seen the world, the more they understand the importance of studying hard. People who have worked hard to read the book will have a much broader vision, they have seen the diversity of the world, and finally choose the life they want and recognize.
Because the grinding and sweat of those hard work and struggle will become your bottom line and pattern, accumulating into the ladder you climb upwards, supporting you to see the scenery of higher places, giving you more opportunities and rights to choose.
First class can be boarded first, VIP at the bank can skip the queue, and the most expensive ticket location for the concert you want to go to is the best.
And you only have to work hard enough to deserve it all.
About Early Love:
Liking a man is not chasing after him
Instead, stand shoulder to shoulder with him
Daughter, dad read a post on the Internet a while ago, the content is like this:
A teacher in the middle school of a famous middle school in Haidian complained that now it is different from before, and that junior high school love is already a very common thing, and parents can generally accept it.
At first, I didn't think so.
Until one day, I heard my colleague Aunt Zhang say that her son, who was in her second year of junior high school, liked the study committee in the class. Every day he bought breakfast for the girl, brought drinks, and told jokes, but people still didn't want to pay attention to him.
Because the study committee likes the male classmate who ranks first in the class, but Aunt Zhang's son is a scum.
When I got home, I looked at your innocent little face and suddenly felt a little uneasy:
As you grow up, will you also like a male classmate one day, and then, how will you express your feelings to the other party?
Daughter, dad has also been young, but also had years of youth and ignorance.
If one day you have a crush on a male classmate, Dad understands you from the bottom of his heart.
But at the same time, Dad wants to remind you of one thing:
Like to like, but you must not chase after that particularly good male classmate.
Without him, only because liking also requires equal strength, equal strength, and equal strength can attract each other.
Shu Ting wrote in "To the Oak Tree": "We share the cold tide, the wind and thunder, and the thunderbolt; we share the fog, the flowing lan, and the rainbow." ”
Remember the love story of Yang Dai and Qian Zhongshu?
The two have walked through the storm for 63 years, they are not only partners in life, but also confidants on the road of art.
So, the meaning of two people together is to encourage and support each other, nourish and grow each other, not to make you lose the belief in loving life.
Instead of spending a lot of time chasing a person, waste energy on meaningless self-touching.
It is better to work hard to precipitate and improve yourself and obtain the capital to go side by side with excellent people.
There's a saying that goes something like this:
"Of course I'm not going to try to pick the moon, I want the moon to come to me."
At that time, there is no need for you to chase and please anyone, but more like-minded people rushing to you and being deeply attracted by your light.
About the Teacher:
The teacher who treats you the hardest often loves you the most
Child, Dad once told you that Dad has a very admired person, she is Principal Zhang Guimei.
After the college entrance examination this year, dad accidentally saw a video about her.
What impressed Dad the most was the footage of a student's mother being interviewed.
Probably knowing that the child did well, she smiled and said:
"My family lives in a relatively remote area, and if there were no female high school, there would be no children for me today."
But when the reporter mentioned Principal Zhang Guimei, the mother was silent for a second, and then she choked up a little:
"I hope Teacher Zhang... She can take care of her body. ”
As a parent of a poor family, she knows that her children will not have access to school district housing and teaching resources.
But incredibly fortunately, her children met a good teacher who held a ruler and did not forget his original intention.
It is precisely because of such a violent temper and loud voice that Zhang Guimei, who forces children to study hard every day, these children in the mountains have the opportunity to go out to see.
Only responsible teachers will "die" to manage students.
Because he has expectations of you and longs for you to become a talent, he has withstood all kinds of pressures and incomprehensions, or bitterly or vigorously disciplined you.
When Dad was in middle school, there was a calligraphy teacher, a tall man, a Chinese character face, thick eyebrows and a big eye with a light that was not angry and arrogant. Every week, when it was his turn to take calligraphy lessons, the students did not dare to be lazy. Because, when this teacher went to class, he found that which student had sloppy writing, not only ordered to rewrite, but sometimes gently marked five boards in the palms of his classmates.
"Chinese characters are the treasures of the Chinese nation, and if you can't write Chinese characters well, what else can you do?" The teacher's words still ring in Dad's ears. Under his strict requirements, Dad practiced a good stroke of writing, and was often praised after work.
Daughter, only the teacher in charge takes care of the students. So, for your harsh teachers, don't be hostile, but be grateful. Because only the teacher in charge will discipline you bitterly. He expects you to become better, so he is so undesirable.
Mom and Dad hope you will understand this as soon as possible. Please also do not fail to live up to the kindness of any teacher.
Dear daughter, school is not an ivory tower, and there are rules that are invisible.
Dad hopes that after you see these "unspoken rules", you can change all the way, choose all the way, grow all the way, and meet a better self.
Finally, Dad wants to say:
No matter how much advice you listen to, your life will ultimately depend on yourself to create, rely on yourself to understand, rely on yourself to work hard, and rely on yourself to persevere.
The campus is not a paradise without competition, and only those who dare to shine their swords are qualified to be their own heroes.
Struggle is not an easy task overnight, only people who have continuously surpassed lifelong learning have the capital to say that they do not live up to life.
The new semester has begun, and I hope you have new hope!
Comprehensive from: Sichuan Education Release, Daughter Pie, People's Daily, etc
Source: Chongqing Education